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    All About Full-Time Maids

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      chloecube
      last edited by

      HI,


      I have a query

      I have a maid who has been with me for 6 years, I will allow her home leave for 2 weeks every 2 years
      but this year, she decided not to go home and stay here in Singapore
      I know I have to pay her for the home leave of 2 weeks even though she does not return home
      but do I have to pay her for the air ticket too?
      meaning is the usualy air ticket cost around $300, I will compensate her in cash term since she is not going home? is there such ruling that employer have to compensate maid air ticket if she choose to say in Singapore?

      hope to hear from you. thks

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        elenang
        last edited by

        HI, yes I think you have to pay her the air ticket price.

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          chloecube
          last edited by

          thank you!

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            Snow24
            last edited by

            Hi

            How many months is your maid I want to impress you period before they start to demand things?

            Did your maid ask you for your Wi-Fi password? Did you give it to her.

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              elenang
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              I usually give the maid the wi-fi password myself. However, I always inform them that I will monitor their use. If they cannot help themselves and lose control, then I will take back their mobile.

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                Snow24
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                Hi


                Usually very hard for them to have self control. They promise to use HP only after finish work at night end up also break promise and use daytime secretly. My maid, asked to use her HP daytime and nap as she threaten to transfer then let her use and nap.My chores did not get done either.Worse is using HP when my child is up the escalator.

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                  elenang
                  last edited by

                  I guess its easier when there are people at home to watch them. Otherwise, better to hold on to their phones.

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                    Snow24
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                    Maids nowadays would be u happy if you keep her handphones. The first, day she come to my house already ask about her handphone. I ever hired a maid who we told her to put her handphone on the cupboard where she can see her headphone but not locked away end up also unhappy and go and use the handphone daytime when we are working.Their heart is only on using hand phone, facebook, selfie and talking to her friends over the phone like nobody business.Yet when it come to communicating with my children can suddenly become a mute .

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                      sunny_side_up
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                      my maid is also alone at home in the daytime. so we only give her hp about 9pm. she also asked about wifi but i dont give her. so i think these adds up to unhappiness so now she dont want work for me already.

                      my prev maid i gave her hp in the daytime she end up taking sexy photos at home when no one is at home. i dont want it to repeat again. yes they will promise to use the phone after chores finish but is v difficult to control…even for us we also keep looking at our phone. if the phone is really affecting their work and the safety of your children and your maid dont seem repentful, then you can consider changing…although i know change is not easy! i am having dreams about my new maid already!

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                        Snow24
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                        Hi sunny_side_up


                        Well said that’s what we employers, are, facing. Changing maid is one option but agency fee is steep and having to bear the risk of next new maid turn out the same. Best is to gradually go maidless when the children are older.

                        How long your current maid lasted with you before raising the issue of transfer. Transfer we employer need to pay her food and lodging and levy at losing end too.

                        These, days maids hardly can complete 2 years contract they just transfer as and when they like.

                        My previous maids don’t dare to ask me for Wi-Fi password boldly this new maid ask me directly 2 months here. The previous Maid only use HP at night but of course daytime also use without you knowing so close one eyes.But cannot do at expense of children safety. They used to caused my children to hurt themselves when she use HP while out with them.

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