Me Time!

[Jennifer]

WE time with hubby n ah boy @ Vivo City now

[janet88]

Huiwen86:

Thank you.My husband is Fish Fingers because he likes to eat fish fingers.Did he say anything bad about me haha?

Yes,we have a pair of 11 year old twin girls.They were born and grew up in Malaysia but we brought them out this year so that they could be with us as a family.

My hubby got them in a school for 2018 but I am currently staying at home to coach them.

Hi Huiwen,

Welcome to KSP. Congrats on your soon to be born twin girls.
It's nice to know your older twins are finally studying here in Singapore and you guys get to enjoy family time on a normal school week.
Your hubby is active here...among us women :rotflmao: and he didn't say anything bad about you.

[Huiwen86]

janet88:

Huiwen86:

Thank you.My husband is Fish Fingers because he likes to eat fish fingers.Did he say anything bad about me haha?

Yes,we have a pair of 11 year old twin girls.They were born and grew up in Malaysia but we brought them out this year so that they could be with us as a family.

My hubby got them in a school for 2018 but I am currently staying at home to coach them.

Hi Huiwen,

Welcome to KSP. Congrats on your soon to be born twin girls.
It's nice to know your older twins are finally studying here in Singapore and you guys get to enjoy family time on a normal school week.
Your hubby is active here...among us women :rotflmao: and he didn't say anything bad about you.

Hi,Janet...Thanks for the welcome and the well wishes.Was a bit disappointed that the girls could not get into my alma mater.But any school will do as long as they can adapt and do well.

Watching TV with the 2 girls and they will accompany me to sleep tonight because hubby is in camp for the next few days.Hope to see my man on TV on Wednesday.

The girls had a long day with the assessments that I assigned them.Time to give them a break.

[janet88]

Hi Huiwen,

Your poor hubby is busy with NDP. Hope he is feeling better.
You are pregnant with twins…please take care of yourself too. It’s amazing how you are going to have 2 sets of twins. It’s going to be very hectic when they are born…plus you have older ones to coach now.

[Huiwen86]

janet88:

Hi Huiwen,

Your poor hubby is busy with NDP. Hope he is feeling better.
You are pregnant with twins...please take care of yourself too. It's amazing how you are going to have 2 sets of twins. It's going to be very hectic when they are born...plus you have older ones to coach now.

Feel quite tired and hubby not at home.Fortunately,the girls are around to lend me a helping hand and take care of me in the absence of their dad.

My mom casually asked me if I wanted to move back to the family home in Malaysia for a while cos my hubby not around.Said no because I wanted the girls to get used to urban living in SG.That's what I left my job for.

[janet88]

Huiwen86:

Feel quite tired and hubby not at home.Fortunately,the girls are around to lend me a helping hand and take care of me in the absence of their dad.

My mom casually asked me if I wanted to move back to the family home in Malaysia for a while cos my hubby not around.Said no because I wanted the girls to get used to urban living in SG.That's what I left my job for.

FF said your older twin has become more mature after knowing she will be a big sister. Happy for you. Younger one still sticky to daddy. How many months pregnant are you now? Can your mum come down to help you since you are busy coaching girls in their work but you are feeling tired most of the time?

[Huiwen86]

janet88:

Huiwen86:

Feel quite tired and hubby not at home.Fortunately,the girls are around to lend me a helping hand and take care of me in the absence of their dad.

My mom casually asked me if I wanted to move back to the family home in Malaysia for a while cos my hubby not around.Said no because I wanted the girls to get used to urban living in SG.That's what I left my job for.

FF said your older twin has become more mature after knowing she will be a big sister. Happy for you. Younger one still sticky to daddy. How many months pregnant are you now? Can your mum come down to help you since you are busy coaching girls in their work but you are feeling tired most of the time?

I am 4 months pregnant now and feeling tired/lethargic half the time.My wife got to go back to Malaysia for 2 weeks and she is worried for me.Hence she asked me if I wanted to move back to Malaysia at least until November.She could also stay for the rest of the year.

Trained zehzeh to do simple housework but DD2 refuses to learn saying that Daddy excused her from doing so.Got told off by zehzeh and not happy about it.

My ILs asked me if I wanted to take the 2 girls and fly to Australia with them to stay at their farm.Hubby refused to let me fly.

[janet88]

Older twin is really mature at 11. But younger one has middle child syndrome. She is daddy’s girl and it is tough. FF has to travel often. Can grandma help advise her? Looks like you would have to step in. I am the bad guy at home…but no choice since I have been a SAHM all these years. Hubby tends to spoil younger one. But I have reminded him spoiling her is not going to do her any good.

[Huiwen86]

janet88:

Older twin is really mature at 11. But younger one has middle child syndrome. She is daddy's girl and it is tough. FF has to travel often. Can grandma help advise her? Looks like you would have to step in. I am the bad guy at home...but no choice since I have been a SAHM all these years. Hubby tends to spoil younger one. But I have reminded him spoiling her is not going to do her any good.

Hubby can behave like he is at work with training soldiers when he is angry.When he does that,the whole house is hushed.Remembered the 2 girls kept questioning him why he raised his voice at me after he was overly harsh with me once.

I will have to remind him,mom and aunty to advise younger girl to be more sensible.She listens to my aunty,my mom and my MIL too.She will listen to zehzeh too cos she is the follower and not the leader.My husband's word is like an emperor's edict and she usually obeys in order to avoid being thrown into the cold palace.

I dont think I will be a SAHM for long.I already miss the daily routine of being in school on the first day being at home.

[janet88]

Huiwen86:

I dont think I will be a SAHM for long.I already miss the daily routine of being in school on the first day being at home.

huiwen,
your twins just started home schooling. after working for so many years, you do deserve to take it easy and spend time to bond with the older girls before the newborns arrive. at 4 months, if your tummy isn't very big, maybe you can go out with the girls for lunch. you have 2 'bodyguards' beside you.