DSA 2017

[Rainbow sky]

Imp75:

Students can't cope in school for a variety of reasons be it DSA non-acad students or not. There are also suicide cases in top schools from top PSLE performing students too.....I don't think anyone should just discount the merits of the DSA Scheme, rather, let's go in with an open eye and know what your child will be getting into.

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[678Yess]

No news from RGS?

[Yngmng]

Imp75:

Students can't cope in school for a variety of reasons be it DSA non-acad students or not. There are also suicide cases in top schools from top PSLE performing students too.....I don't think anyone should just discount the merits of the DSA Scheme, rather, let's go in with an open eye and know what your child will be getting into.

True... but as a parent, I will never stress my child by enrolling her in a school that has COP way above her PSLE results. She will feel stressed to perform in both the sports/arts and studies.

[Harrychew]

Imp75:

Students can't cope in school for a variety of reasons be it DSA non-acad students or not. There are also suicide cases in top schools from top PSLE performing students too.....I don't think anyone should just discount the merits of the DSA Scheme, rather, let's go in with an open eye and know what your child will be getting into.

It is about percentages, i.e. are there a much larger proportion of non academic DSA students unable to cope? Only MOE and the school admin know the answer. From various sources, some of us know that a big proportion of non-academic DSA are finding life really tough, and many eventually dropped out of IP stream.

There are students who excel in both academic and CCA, but typically they are already very good in their academics since young. There are many sad stories out there, but local media seldom touch on it. As a result, many parents in every batch of P6ers continue to think that it is a no-brainer to squeeze their child into top schools via CCA DSA.

As for merits of DSA, I feel that it benefits the reputation of the top schools and parents over the well-being of the DSA students. If my DD does not do as well in her P6 prelims, I will probably reject the top school's CO, if offered. As a parent, I can handle a bit of social pressure much better than my DD at her young age.

[Snsn]

678Yess:

No news from RGS?

There were interviews yesterday, so I doubt we will hear anything for a good 1-2 weeks more - at least. :xedfingers: :xedfingers: :xedfingers: :xedfingers:

[Snsn]

Anyone has outcome from SNGS?

[Qalb]

Snsn:

678Yess:

No news from RGS?

There were interviews yesterday, so I doubt we will hear anything for a good 1-2 weeks more - at least. :xedfingers: :xedfingers: :xedfingers: :xedfingers:

So was yesterday the last day for interviews for RGS?

[Rainbow sky]

Any idea how many days the interviews went on ? there were many being interviewed last few days.

[Ganjiongspider]

Snsn:

Anyone has outcome from SNGS?

Not so fast too. Outcome will be out after school Prelim which will be last week of Aug. Maybe it will be 1 - 2 days earlier before 31 Aug.

[scotia]

tyeogh:

I have a different opinion. When I see a pit, I prefer to tell others about it notwithstanding that it is a difficult topic. This unfortunate event is indeed related to DSA - the victim is a DSA Sports student. One will never know the real reason why she took her life unless one interviews her but there are a few important lessons to be gleaned.

One, do not set up your child to fail. This girl was admitted via DSA Sports to a top secondary school, and was reported to be upset over a borderline pass in Maths. Cedar exam papers are tough. My sec 1 dd who joined via DSA Academic had borderline passes in a few subjects too. I can only imagine how badly the entire cohort did - she told me half the class failed in one subject. For DSA Sports, there is an innate pressure to maintain or better one's sporting abilities. If your child is not able to do well in both academia and sports, do consider very carefully whether DSA Sports is suitable. This is a good wake up call to DSA hopeful parents. It is irresponsible to just aim (psycho, persuade, force your child to go) for a reputable school via Sports and leave her to figure out how to cope with the school work. There are other schools to consider too. You need not choose the best. In your pursuit for a good school, you may have miscalculated the cost.

Two, always watch your child's mental health closely, especially if she is in a top school. This incident is not isolate. I read about other suicides cases in RI. One night, I caught my dd sobbing quietly to herself. Got her to confide in me. She told me she had to hand in 6 projects in a few weeks time. I have never seen my dd cry over school work because she is a 90% average in primary school. It shows that everyone has a breaking point. I have another P6 dd who became fidgety last year. My instincts told me something was wrong. I got my wife to check her phone. She was apparently cyber bullied. One classmate threatened to spread rumors my dd is a lesbian unless she sent that classmate a photo of her in a certain pose. Kids these days mature fast. In these 2 cases, I was fortunate enough to detect it early before it became a problem.

Three, always make sure your kids have friends in school. Don't assume. It is their most basic support structure. I know the names of my kids' friends more than I know what they are studying.

Four, there is a transition from primary school to secondary school. 4 subjects to 8 subjects (I think) . Grades will inevitably fall. School hours are longer. Set the expectations correctly.

Five, you may not have explicitly and directly pressured your child, but the school you choose is entitled to uphold its standards and to set its own expectations. It should be obvious that top schools don't choose low standards. So choose wisely. Are you sure you want your child in a pressure cooker? Can she survive in one?

If you did explicitly and directly pressured your child, shame on you. You should read about this unfortunate event. There are more things in life than \"going to a good school\".

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Thank you for sharing!