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      shylyn
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      tamarind:
      smurf, shylyn,

      I bought the Scrabble for Kids at Kiddy Palace 🙂

      shylyn,
      My kids play with it whenever they like. My older girl can spell independently without any help. My younger boy is very motivated to try on his own and refused any help from me. Both of them spell using phonics. No memorizing needed.
      Taramind
      hmm..how come i didn't see it..do u hv a picture of the cover??
      It's gd to let the kiddos learn spelling in a fun manner..via games! Think my boy still dun understand the concept of playing games..heheh..

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        shylyn
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        buds:

        The word \"bush\" for example, only the /sh/ is
        a phonetic combination - but the /b/ and /u/
        put together is actually - baaa sound.
        Heheh...u r talking to a mummy who know nuts abt phonics..hehehe..honestly, i think my boy knows his phonics much better than his mummy.. 😛
        buds:
        Reading is the key to improve children's
        vocabulary, so must try to read to them everyday
        and also get them to read to us!
        Oh yes..it's my boy's habit prior to sleeping..read at least 2 books b4 he is willing to sleep..of cos, he knows this is only so when he is with us..cos when he is with my in laws, who aren't able to read English, he wont even ask them to read.
        buds:
        Most time nowadays, parents are too focussed on achieving these
        milestones faster than the child's age and hence this creates the so-
        called very advanced child.
        The more parents find their child can do certain things ahead of peers
        their age, the more they push the limits... and slowly the children have
        less of the time for their childhood to really enjoy being the child that
        they are...
        I agree with u that there is a drive for parents to let their children achieve their milestones earlier..it's somehow a boost to their confidence & a source of pride to them. Honestly, i don't deny that i, myself is really proud of my boy..not only for his intelligence but also for being so adorable. Ok..i know it is NOT ok to booast abt oneself..but being a parent, i'm sure u will feel pride whenever ur kid does/excel in some areas..of cos, all these are not at the expense of pushing the kids to their limits. Childhood is still to be enjoyed. 😄
        buds:
        But as for writing, its a physical
        process where if he's still of a child's age, he'll be able to carry out
        child related activities. Prior to that will also include fine motor skills/
        games like lacing, beading, playing pick up with chopsticks, feeding
        himself and many other activities that can strengthen the childs fingers
        to the pencil grip/pincer grip - thumb, pointer and tall man.
        I didn't really give him training in this aspect..partially i didn't know the imptance of that...he does some lacing, chopsticks, beading etc either during his Shichida or CC time..at home, we usually spend time playing games, reading or let him engage in free play.

        buds:
        legible and able to put words from
        his mind/reading onto print..
        Hmm..my boy surprised me yest by writing (w/o any help from those tracing lines of alphabets) a few more additional letters like \"T', \"E', \"F', 'J', \"V', \"U\" & \"X\". In fact, I find his writing of \"U\", \"F\" & \"E* very well written. I'm not sure whether this is a sign of being ready to write..

        buds:
        As a safeguard to keep child's interest in reading but yet trying to nurture
        the writing process, i wud suggest to introduce both on a level scale and
        not so much more reading activities than written activity. Provide oppor-
        tunities if not for writing, at least colouring, shading, cutting, tracing shapes and pictures... etc.
        Oh yes..he loves to use the scissors to cut! In fact, i can rest assured passing him a pair of scissor to cut..he will becareful w e scissor..colouring, erhh..dunno whether it is typical guy thing..dun really colour well..hehehe.. 😉
        buds:
        I always remind parents - teach everything age-
        appropriately. Like the slogan says, everything in moderation is fine
        and healthy. As too much of something/anything may pose side effects...
        Hmm..if u read taramind's link...i did point out that i'm worried (in such a way) that my boy will get bored when he goes to class in future as he knows a lot..not that i intentionally teach him materials that r not his age grp..but rather, i'll deem whether the material is suitable & of interest to him 1st.. i guess, no matter how much we teach, there will always still be new knowledge somewhere.. 😄

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          tamarind
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          Shylyn,

          Here's the box.

          http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3363/3256121091_24351d64e8.jpg\">

          I help you to look out for it when I go shopping.

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            buds
            last edited by

            Heyya guys,


            POPULAR and Metro has this.
            You guys Jurong people can find
            it at JP’s Toys R Us, shud have…
            Biggest toys store wud have everything
            right? Tamarind, how much you bought
            that, mebbe for people who wanna
            compare prices… Thanks in advance.

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              smurf
              last edited by

              Hi Tamarind,


              er, my 4 YO can read simple words, but he reads very slowly, like robot. :lol:

              just want to check, the scrabble game is suitable for him in this case? cos I think a kid needs to have certain level of command of language before he can play the game right? :?

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                tamarind
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                buds,

                I forgot the price :oops: Bought it more than a year ago. I will post the price here if I see it in the shops.

                smurf,
                There are a few levels of difficulty for this scrabble game. Level 1 contains very simple 3 and 4 letter words.

                A child should first know all the phonics letter sounds very well, and be able to join letters to form 3 letter words. He should first learn to spell by listening to the phonics sounds, so there is no need to memorize. Like buds say there are sight words, which must be memorized but these are at the higher levels and can be done when the child is older.

                For free and excellent phonics resources, check out this web site.

                http://www.starfall.com/

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                  shylyn
                  last edited by

                  tamarind:
                  Shylyn,

                  Here's the box.

                  http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3363/3256121091_24351d64e8.jpg\">

                  I help you to look out for it when I go shopping.
                  Hi Taramind
                  Hmm..unable to view the photo leh..wonder why..btw, thks for helping me look out for it..let me know if u happened to see it somewhere..gam xia! :lol:

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                    shylyn
                    last edited by

                    buds:
                    Heyya guys,


                    POPULAR and Metro has this.
                    You guys Jurong people can find
                    it at JP's Toys R Us, shud have..
                    Biggest toys store wud have everything
                    right? Tamarind, how much you bought
                    that, mebbe for people who wanna
                    compare prices.. Thanks in advance.
                    Buds
                    Toys R Us in JP is undergoing reno now...sad..only got Kiddy Palace to satisfied this shopping mummy's quest for new & exciting pdts for her kiddo. 😉

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                      csc
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                      Hey mommies,


                      The \"Scrabble\" box cover looks real familiar. Think my kids had played the game but that was like 8-9 years ago. Gosh! That long! It's quite useful in helping them to recognise common sight words and to spell them as well.

                      I've got a feeling the box has been stacked away in the storeroom...looks like now I must make sure I keep it for my grandchildren.. :lol:

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                        smurf
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                        thanks tamarind for the website. my boy knows this website, but he didn't really like it.hahha. wonder why. :?

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