2018 PSLE Discussions & Strategies (Born in 2006)

[pirate]

lindatlc88:

Yes we are not decisive which school to put her now . I think I confuse all of u too . because we worry that she cannot take the stress

I think you mentioned earlier that she wanted to go to RGS, she told you that she can handle the stress, and is upset that you don't want to let her to RGS. She even said that all her efforts are wasted. If I were you, I would allow her choices unless they are ridiculous ones. She has earnt the right for some trust from you.

[floppy]

pirate:

lindatlc88:

Yes we are not decisive which school to put her now . I think I confuse all of u too . because we worry that she cannot take the stress

I think you mentioned earlier that she wanted to go to RGS, she told you that she can handle the stress, and is upset that you don't want to let her to RGS. She even said that all her efforts are wasted. If I were you, I would allow her choices unless they are ridiculous ones. She has earnt the right for some trust from you.

Agree leh.[quote]Firstly, she is no longer a 7 yr old where she will rely on you to pick a primary school. She is 12 and of reasonably high intellect, who probably has a mind of her own. She should be capable of knowing what she likes. Sounds like you are “convincing” her and yourself to pick a choice that isn’t what she wants. [/quote]She picks RGS, but you are somehow convincing yourself (and her?) that NYGH and CGSS are better options
Normally, I think parents know their child best, and outsider would be difficult to interfere or suggest. But as a suggestion, why not let her take responsibility of her choice / decision, given that she is clear that her preference is RGS?

[lindatlc88]

valiant88:

lindatlc88:

Cedar Girls is our first choice but she was upset and disappointed telling us the hard work she put in to PSLE to go RGS and now she cannot go . We told her about the stress etc and she says she can manage


Yes she wanted RGS but relented on NYGH after sharing with her about the Chinese culture etc..

Now we tell her we are still considering ..tough decision .

We want her to be happy for the next 6 years and not stress up

Which primary school is your girl from? My girl also considering both RGS and Cedar girls. Wondering if they know each other.

She is from a neighbourhood school

[Tokidoki]

NervousMummy:

Can anyone please help ! My DS scored 244+2

Should we put SJI as first or Nan Hua? Which sxhool has better school culture and produce better O level results? Would appreciate if someone can advise . Thanks .

Nan Hua High achieves 100% of their cohort qualify for JC with 58% with 6 distinctions and better. See school link for more details.

https://nanhuahigh.moe.edu.sg/pride/student-achievements

[cherryc]

Hi lindatlc88,


I have just pm you . Some humble opinions

Let me know if you didn’t receive it cos I have not pm for years not sure if I did it correctly.

[valiant88]

lindatlc88:

valiant88:

[quote=\"lindatlc88\"]Cedar Girls is our first choice but she was upset and disappointed telling us the hard work she put in to PSLE to go RGS and now she cannot go . We told her about the stress etc and she says she can manage


Yes she wanted RGS but relented on NYGH after sharing with her about the Chinese culture etc..

Now we tell her we are still considering ..tough decision .

We want her to be happy for the next 6 years and not stress up

Which primary school is your girl from? My girl also considering both RGS and Cedar girls. Wondering if they know each other.

She is from a neighbourhood school[/quote]Ok guess you not comfortable to share. Mine is from Cedar primary. If you feel like sharing let me know otherwise all the best.

[cherryc]

I find it interesting that many people mentioned about hoping the kids will not be stressed up in the schools they go . At the end of the road they will all be taking A levels exam ( some IB) and it is a highly stressful exam ! More so than psle ! So opt for the school that can max out yr kids potential rather than thinking which school potentially can be stressful . If they have good friends going with them to the TOP schools all the more encourage them else they will spend the rest of their lives listen to the stories of the schools they wanted to go ( if they are still friends!)

[jtoh]

lindatlc88:

mommyNg:

[quote=\"lindatlc88\"]Dear Parents ,


Will u put NYGH as first choice If the cop for NYGH is 264 and your child t score is 264. Will the child be stressful if she goes in as she is competing with the t score students who scored 270 plus - 280 plus ? Will she be lag behind and stressful trying to catch up ?

Lastly , she has tuition to get t score of 264

I thought your dd wanted to go RGS, but your preferred choice is Cedar? Somehow you managed to convince her to try NYGH? :?

There are girls who score 250+ and did reasonably well in nygh (with a lot of hard work of course), and there are girls who score 264+ and did not do well and went to O level class. So, it really depends on your child how hard she is willing to work and how well she can manage the stress.

Yes we are not decisive which school to put her now . I think I confuse all of u too . because we worry that she cannot take the stress[/quote]Let your child decide. You are confusing her by pushing Cedar one moment and NYGH the next, when she's mentioned that she wants RGS. Just let her know the pros and cons of each school and let her decide. She is the one who has to study in the school for 6 years. As I mentioned in an earlier reply, stress is in all schools. It's how you cope with it that matters. If she's in an environment she prefers, she will be able to cope better.

[floppy]

cherryc:

I find it interesting that many people mentioned about hoping the kids will not be stressed up in the schools they go . At the end of the road they will all be taking A levels exam ( some IB) and it is a highly stressful exam ! More so than psle ! So opt for the school that can max out yr kids potential rather than thinking which school potentially can be stressful . If they have good friends going with them to the TOP schools all the more encourage them else they will spend the rest of their lives listen to the stories of the schools they wanted to go ( if they are still friends!)

TBH, I feel A Level is not really stressful. Most students (non-IP) can afford to have fun in the first year, buck up in the 2nd year, and still make it past the finish line.
That said, most of the syllabus and exam materials are built upon what you have learnt in the O Level. Hence, a strong foundation and sound fundamentals for the subjects are important (which is where pure sciences and double maths students have an advantage).
O Level, on the other hand, if you have 8 subjects or more, can be a real nightmare.
It's good that the IP route takes away some of these O Level stress / issues.

[cherryc]

It is stressful In the sense that it is bell curved like psle. And they keep increasing the difficulty and changed the syllabus or exam questions like chemistry paper last year. From what I heard some jc were better prepared than others . No prize guessing which one