Me Time!
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ngl2010\" post_id=\"1900194\" time=\"1551267082\" user_id=\"40978:
I am not sure but I took my exam with ERA.
Lee_yl, do you need to be part of a property agency in order to get your property agent license? -
MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900191\" time=\"1551266350\" user_id=\"43981:
Last week he jokingly said thank goodness my mum didn’t send me overseas to study coz I’m a SAHM now. :mad: Don’t you think he deserves a slap/kick?
my dh has been very encouraging for me to work.. in fact there was a time I find too encouraging
it is something I had always like to do one day just that now I have another hurdle to cross, it is myself, my drive not in sync with what I want :sad:
(Haha, he’s kicking me now, asking me not to post this)
In fact, he was the one who insisted I should stay at home and look after the children!
1). He is worried I will fall for other men so he kept me at home. He said office affairs are a sad fact of modern life
2). DH said after a hard day’s work outside, he doesn’t want to return home to hear all my grumbling about my boss/colleagues.
3). If I don’t need the money, there is no reason why I need to go out to 受气. He said i won’t be able to take it well to be under a boss younger than me and likely poorer than me. -
MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900221\" time=\"1551273930\" user_id=\"70594:
actually my line of work is not cheem de..MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900191\" time=\"1551266350\" user_id=\"43981:
my dh has been very encouraging for me to work.. in fact there was a time I find too encouraging
it is something I had always like to do one day just that now I have another hurdle to cross, it is myself, my drive not in sync with what I want :sad:
For your situation , better for u to be sahm
I m unsure wat job we can find if we are out of job market for long ... unless we have specialized skill set
Slmkhoo has gd language skills , can do part time editorial (?) , even home based accounting job cannot have too long a break in between -else can’t catch up with market conditions
aiya, forgot to say arh...important thing is the brain la..must be able to think faster and be more flexi lei..this problem got remedy or not arh?? I m going from bad to worse lor :faint: -
lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900225\" time=\"1551276216\" user_id=\"17023:
Last week he jokingly said thank goodness my mum didn’t send me overseas to study coz I’m a SAHM now. :mad: Don’t you think he deserves a slap/kick?MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900191\" time=\"1551266350\" user_id=\"43981:
my dh has been very encouraging for me to work.. in fact there was a time I find too encouraging
it is something I had always like to do one day just that now I have another hurdle to cross, it is myself, my drive not in sync with what I want :sad:
(Haha, he’s kicking me now, asking me not to post this)
In fact, he was the one who insisted I should stay at home and look after the children!
1). He is worried I will fall for other men so he kept me at home. He said office affairs are a sad fact of modern life
2). DH said after a hard day’s work outside, he doesn’t want to return home to hear all my grumbling about my boss/colleagues.
3). If I don’t need the money, there is no reason why I need to go out to 受气. He said i won’t be able to take it well to be under a boss younger than me and likely poorer than me.
lee yl's dh has his valid reasons..
frankly speaking, for you no need come out to work la as you planned so well..I plan also, but the other way, plan to work when old
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lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900223\" time=\"1551275219\" user_id=\"17023:
you need to renew every year? if no deals done, ok for renewal?
I am not sure but I took my exam with ERA.ngl2010\" post_id=\"1900194\" time=\"1551267082\" user_id=\"40978:
Lee_yl, do you need to be part of a property agency in order to get your property agent license? -
We can learn from some who hv 正能量 ie positive energy.
Thanks a lot for sharing.
My ME time will be Sun. -
MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900230\" time=\"1551276810\" user_id=\"43981:
It comes with practice and exposure, I think. In general, the more you do it, the better you will get at it. If you can't get more comfortable with it even with practice, then it may not the right fit for you?actually my line of work is not cheem de..
aiya, forgot to say arh...important thing is the brain la..must be able to think faster and be more flexi lei..this problem got remedy or not arh?? I m going from bad to worse lor :faint:
Taking myself as an example, my husband asked me years ago to set up a small business, and using my skills for myself. But I am really not the entrepreneur type of person, and have always been more comfortable keeping to my limited sphere of expertise. I don't like looking for clients, marketing myself, keeping accounts, worrying about profitability, perhaps having employees to supervise. In the end, I convinced him to give up that idea for me, although if he is willing to set things up, I'm very happy to work for him! It does mean that I have forgone whatever profits he thinks I could have made, but I'm happier to do what I'm comfortable with. (So if anyone wants to set up a biz where my skills can be used, I'm a pretty good subordinate, and I don't mind working for younger people ...) -
While I do see Leeyl's DH point but if DH were to say that to me he will get shot down by me. :razz:
Only I am susceptible to office affairs? What about him?
Don't want to hear me grumble about colleagues then ok to hear me grumble about the kids or parents? Or I cannot grumble to him at all?
Actually for me it is not so much work per se, but having something to do that does not revolve around the children, spouse or home. Can be volunteer work or a hobby or a course. Something to keep my mind active and involved and give me opportunities to socialise. Having an income while engaged in these activities is of course a plus. -
lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900225\" time=\"1551276216\" user_id=\"17023:
wives are worried when their husbands see well dressed office ladies compared to the one at home.
In fact, he was the one who insisted I should stay at home and look after the children!
1). He is worried I will fall for other men so he kept me at home. He said office affairs are a sad fact of modern life
2). DH said after a hard day’s work outside, he doesn’t want to return home to hear all my grumbling about my boss/colleagues.
3). If I don’t need the money, there is no reason why I need to go out to 受气. He said i won’t be able to take it well to be under a boss younger than me and likely poorer than me.
husbands are worried when wives see charming and good looking guys in the office.
at SGH yesterday, I saw this good looking doctor....can't control myself either :rotflmao:
as for grumbling, your hubby has a good point there. I know I will do that if I go back to work.
basically he wants someone to hear him out but not vice versa. when he goes to see the doctor, he wants company. I feel like a mother bringing a big kid to see the doctor though. he sits there and keeps quiet when the doctor asks him questions. sometimes I will look at him to open his mouth to reply the doctor :slapshead:
even though the money will come in handy (if I return to work), there will be a lot of changes at home especially since he works long hours. my market value is not that high after being a SAHM for so long. -
I feel that I don’t have enough time everyday. It is just me or it’s the same case for people here too?
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