Me Time!

[MrsKiasu]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900267\" time=\"1551324567\" user_id=\"70594:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900264\" time=\"1551324157\" user_id=\"43981:

dh wont say anything if home is dirty..but he will praise me when the home is clean and neat coz I ever told him people 1 child get 1 maid with elderly staying together some more I learn to sayang myself more now..I used to stretched myself to max, neighbor 1 lady handled 3 young kids without maid can, why I cannot...now I prefer not to think this way.

mrsks, I know we are in same league - so long uniform clean can already , no need super straight ..ahahhaha
yah . cannot be too hard on ourselves - but i am neat freak lei - i cant stand my ds table n shelves .

cloud: same as you . I scared helper with more problems to settle . my mama is not easy person to get along with esp with helper! i tried once before ..

I am a bit better off lor coz my own working table is not neat too so many things I really can close my eyes one. No, I dont think I will ever get a helper when the kids are this big now..touch wood only when really needed at old age lor.

[MyPillow]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900266\" time=\"1551324535\" user_id=\"43981:

yeah...especially those working outside, ladies or men, I believe somehow there will be a point where we will get that kind of attention/temptation..I strongly believe really depend on own self, we want to do/accept/try or not..

agree temptation is always around - it is our own control
Eg avoic & No need to eat 1-1 lunch to the same opp sex daily . work OT together daily etc etc
not pretti , not humsom also can get involve in such damaging extra affairs -
Always Think of your lovely spouse, kids, family FIRST - dun allow evil to trash us -just for that moment of \"low class thrill\"

[starlight1968sg]

For FTWMs, wkends are ME time but filled with grocery shopping, cleaning, washing.


Both dh and I work in a predominantly male environment. I have no issue bec when I reach a certain age, my eyes and heart are shut to temptations.

[MrsKiasu]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900269\" time=\"1551324828\" user_id=\"70594:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900266\" time=\"1551324535\" user_id=\"43981:

yeah...especially those working outside, ladies or men, I believe somehow there will be a point where we will get that kind of attention/temptation..I strongly believe really depend on own self, we want to do/accept/try or not..

agree temptation is always around - it is our own control
Eg avoic & No need to eat 1-1 lunch to the same opp sex daily . work OT together daily etc etc
not pretti , not humsom also can get involve in such damaging extra affairs -
Always Think of your lovely spouse, kids, family FIRST - dun allow evil to trash us -just for that moment of \"low class thrill\"

I think generally need to avoid heart to heart talk too hor..

[MrsKiasu]

I had someone told me that all men are the same wor aiyo I disagree..just that the person has not met a good men only

[MrsKiasu]

starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"1900272\" time=\"1551325381\" user_id=\"14025:

For FTWMs, wkends are ME time but filled with grocery shopping, cleaning, washing.

Both dh and I work in a predominantly male environment. I have no issue bec when I reach a certain age, my eyes and heart are shut to temptations.

I like grocery shopping, get some small happiness from seeing clean house after housework, find time in between to bake as need to wait for dough to rise..just simple life

[lee_yl]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900298\" time=\"1551335584\" user_id=\"43981:

I had someone told me that all men are the same wor aiyo I disagree..just that the person has not met a good men only

Who said that?
成龙？ :rotflmao:

[MrsKiasu]

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900301\" time=\"1551336222\" user_id=\"17023:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900298\" time=\"1551335584\" user_id=\"43981:

I had someone told me that all men are the same wor aiyo I disagree..just that the person has not met a good men only

Who said that?
成龙？ :rotflmao:

:rotflmao: no la..lady say one..you would disagree too right..

[lee_yl]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900304\" time=\"1551336501\" user_id=\"43981:

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900301\" time=\"1551336222\" user_id=\"17023:

[quote=MrsKiasu post_id=1900298 time=1551335584 user_id=43981]I had someone told me that all men are the same wor aiyo I disagree..just that the person has not met a good men only

Who said that?
成龙？ :rotflmao:

:rotflmao: no la..lady say one..you would disagree too right..[/quote]I think we must be 醒目 enough to detect any unusual changes in our hubbies’ mannerisms and behaviour.

[lee_yl]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900269\" time=\"1551324828\" user_id=\"70594:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900266\" time=\"1551324535\" user_id=\"43981:

yeah...especially those working outside, ladies or men, I believe somehow there will be a point where we will get that kind of attention/temptation..I strongly believe really depend on own self, we want to do/accept/try or not..

agree temptation is always around - it is our own control

Eg avoic & No need to eat 1-1 lunch to the same opp sex daily . work OT together daily etc etc

not pretti , not humsom also can get involve in such damaging extra affairs -

Always Think of your lovely spouse, kids, family FIRST - dun allow evil to trash us -just for that moment of \"low class thrill\"

Very good advice!! Think of your beautiful wife and kids.

I just Whatsapp my hubby to ask him to avoid 1-1 lunch with the same female colleague or regularly OT with the same female colleague after reading your post.

Pretty or handsome is one thing. You joke with me, I flirt with you, over time, 日久生情.

Even my mum is also aware that there’s such a thing known as “午间情人”. Every day lunch time, the married man would go out with another married woman for lunch. Eat and talk. Come 5pm, both go back to their respective spouses.