Me Time!

[lee_yl]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900304\" time=\"1551336501\" user_id=\"43981:

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900301\" time=\"1551336222\" user_id=\"17023:

[quote=MrsKiasu post_id=1900298 time=1551335584 user_id=43981]I had someone told me that all men are the same wor aiyo I disagree..just that the person has not met a good men only

Who said that?
成龙？ :rotflmao:

:rotflmao: no la..lady say one..you would disagree too right..[/quote]I think we must be 醒目 enough to detect any unusual changes in our hubbies’ mannerisms and behaviour.

[lee_yl]

MyPillow\" post_id=\"1900269\" time=\"1551324828\" user_id=\"70594:

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900266\" time=\"1551324535\" user_id=\"43981:

yeah...especially those working outside, ladies or men, I believe somehow there will be a point where we will get that kind of attention/temptation..I strongly believe really depend on own self, we want to do/accept/try or not..

agree temptation is always around - it is our own control

Eg avoic & No need to eat 1-1 lunch to the same opp sex daily . work OT together daily etc etc

not pretti , not humsom also can get involve in such damaging extra affairs -

Always Think of your lovely spouse, kids, family FIRST - dun allow evil to trash us -just for that moment of \"low class thrill\"

Very good advice!! Think of your beautiful wife and kids.

I just Whatsapp my hubby to ask him to avoid 1-1 lunch with the same female colleague or regularly OT with the same female colleague after reading your post.

Pretty or handsome is one thing. You joke with me, I flirt with you, over time, 日久生情.

Even my mum is also aware that there’s such a thing known as “午间情人”. Every day lunch time, the married man would go out with another married woman for lunch. Eat and talk. Come 5pm, both go back to their respective spouses.

[lee_yl]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900233\" time=\"1551278869\" user_id=\"43981:

lee_yl\" post_id=\"1900223\" time=\"1551275219\" user_id=\"17023:

[quote=ngl2010 post_id=1900194 time=1551267082 user_id=40978]
Lee_yl, do you need to be part of a property agency in order to get your property agent license?

I am not sure but I took my exam with ERA.

you need to renew every year? if no deals done, ok for renewal?[/quote]Yes, need to renew license annually. Not really aiming to be top agent but more like to know the rules and regulations of the game and to better manage/deal with our own investment properties.

Plus need to attend property related courses to clock certain hours before one is allowed to renew the license. At least I will have a feel on how the current market situation is.

[ngl2010]

Lee_yl, are you pressurized to meet certain quota for renting out or selling properties?


Also, do you need to share certain percentage of your “commission” to ERA?

[MrsKiasu]

lee yl, I trust my dh…but everytime when need talk about it, will still have that kind of ‘what if’ arh… still have falling in love feelings la these current few years…we keep fingers crossed hope our dh dont play a fool outside.

[MrsKiasu]

ngl2010\" post_id=\"1900331\" time=\"1551344584\" user_id=\"40978:

Lee_yl, are you pressurized to meet certain quota for renting out or selling properties?

Also, do you need to share certain percentage of your “commission” to ERA?

if no quota then good..

[starlight1968sg]

YL

Now we have you as a trusted housing agent to seek advice or assistance.
Thank you.

[lee_yl]

laughingcat\" post_id=\"1900184\" time=\"1551265004\" user_id=\"3309:

yl, I wish I can go back to work ah. But my feisty chauvinistic DC2 insisted that I stay at home FOR him. DC2 has been like this since toddler in childcare. I remembered him lugging his trolley bag from the childcare to my car complaining all the way on my tardiness in picking up in time. I went back to see my colleagues the other day and half way through, this DC2 kept calling on my hp asking when will I be back. :oops: I have spoken to DH on the intention to go back to workforce but his reply was to get DC2's approval woah. :faint:

Think next year P5/P6, your DS2 will spend even longer hours in school (CCAs/supplementary classes). Break too long will get out of touch? If you have passion in what you are doing, think you will want to go back to your job very soon.

[Estéema]

You know I used to be told those service apartments at Anson Road & People’s Park are places working ppl go for lunchtime tryst. Errrhh!


But I guess, we need to keep our relationships with spouses warm & alive. Good to develop common interests - kids, planning for holiday trips & retirement together. Keep the conversation going & keep their attention. Rmbr men can multi-tasks? That’s speaking in general terms, but I rmbr a taxi driver used to tell me - so long as he earn money to feed the family, if he spend extra time & money just to hv fun & family don’t know, he believes he alr discharges his duty. What a jerk!

It’s good to know our spouses come home promptly fr work but if spouses hv so much temptations, it takes 2 hands to clap. Hope our spouses hv strong will & know they hv a family to love & the home & kids are beautiful reasons to keep them looking fwd to return to.

[Estéema]

You know I used to be told those service apartments at Anson Road & People’s Park are places working ppl go for lunchtime tryst. Errrhh!


But I guess, we need to keep our relationships with spouses warm & alive. Good to develop common interests - kids, planning for holiday trips & retirement together. Keep the conversation going & keep their attention. Rmbr men can multi-tasks? That’s speaking in general terms, but I rmbr a taxi driver used to tell me - so long as he earn money to feed the family, if he spend extra time & money just to hv fun & family don’t know, he believes he alr discharges his duty. What a jerk!

It’s good to know our spouses come home promptly fr work but if spouses hv so much temptations, it takes 2 hands to clap. Hope our spouses hv strong will & know they hv a family to love & the home & kids are beautiful reasons to keep them looking fwd to return to.