Me Time!

[starlight1968sg]

For me, if dh wants to be funny, he will pay the price . I do think if men hv $$, they may try to be funny. So I watch his spending.


MrsKiasu
Kids hv to learn to grow up, at times the hard way.

[lee_yl]

FantasyLandDreams\" post_id=\"1900407\" time=\"1551375155\" user_id=\"105816:

Finally I have some time to log in and just read this. In my line of work, I often see another type of relationship that I sometimes don’t know if it is so-called a form of ‘emotionally’ 出轨？Some people view that emotionally 出轨is worse than physically 出轨？Like in all projects, that person will always be your key player to success ( be it good or bad thing) and you always lunch with that person and
will exchange texts and messages Everyday without fail and will always put that person first (be his adviser, buy her birthday lunch etc) Some says it is 互相利用各有好处、some says it is 红颜知己、and in one or two cases, one party is single and stayed single.

Emotionally 出轨 after sometime will lead to physically 出轨.

Emotionally 出轨 is very painful. One will start to wonder why others can understand him/her better than own spouse.

[MrsKiasu]

joyymum :udawoman: I m the opposite..and dh already given up on me..when I go gai gai with dh, I respect my dh by asking how arh, what do you think..dh will reply so long as you are comfortable my dh must be suffering in silence

[MrsKiasu]

starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"1900426\" time=\"1551400601\" user_id=\"14025:

For me, if dh wants to be funny, he will pay the price . I do think if men hv $$, they may try to be funny. So I watch his spending.

MrsKiasu
Kids hv to learn to grow up, at times the hard way.

This is what I think too just hope that not too hard the way..

[MrsKiasu]

starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"1900426\" time=\"1551400601\" user_id=\"14025:

For me, if dh wants to be funny, he will pay the price . I do think if men hv $$, they may try to be funny. So I watch his spending.

MrsKiasu
Kids hv to learn to grow up, at times the hard way.

on spending, can only watch not control right..I notice we older we get, the lesser restraint we want..I think my dh has been very accommodating to me since young...however I feel dh is exercising to enlarge his boundary now too

[janet88]

MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"1900418\" time=\"1551399532\" user_id=\"43981:

good for you Janet, time to take a breather..
I m just getting more and more nervous as time passes by..I can't help dd and the worries is just mounting..take deep breath..inhale and exhale slowly..

it's been crazIER right after CNY. teachers pile on graded tests and weekly tests...easily 4-5 tests every week :slapshead:
sec 2 no mid year supposed to be a little relaxed, especially after streaming. unfortunately it doesn't seem to be the case.
I find myself busier because i help her plan schedule...she is so bogged down revising for tests and getting homework daily. if I don't help, she would have to sleep at midnight.
some of her teachers are :censored: :rant:

[lee_yl]

Joyymum\" post_id=\"1900424\" time=\"1551400289\" user_id=\"134876:

Yes to me if the man is emotionally 出轨 without physically involved is as good as an affair and much worse than he paid for one. At least paid without any emotionally feelings involved.

I know how sharp and nice those women in the corporate world dresses like and I make sure I don’t fall behind. I am never in tshirts and slippers when we go out

I have to wear my dress with nice accessories, bag and nice shoes it’s just my personal style actually. Too used to corporate wear that even when I shop for clothes I will pick those that are suitable to wear in office :rotflmao:

I used to think who my DH go lunch with but aiya cannot think too much la
As long as I got to know some of his colleagues and it’s good enough.

I just asked my hubby does dressing nicely when going out with hubbies helps?
He said YES!

That’s why men came out with this term called “黄脸婆”. Even my mum urged me to put on some makeup occasionally.

[lee_yl]

laughingcat\" post_id=\"1900383\" time=\"1551361565\" user_id=\"3309:

Office affairs is real. :skeptical: Especially worse if those work on night shift. Caught one such couple who has affairs for such a long time. Even till todate, their spouse don't even know. :nunchuk:

A couple I knew ended up in divorce after a kaypoh colleague rang the wife up to inform her.

One way is to plant spies. I used to work in the same place as DH so I planted mine. Plus I don’t give him car and he is alright with that.

I have a SAHM friend who occasionally turn up at her DH’s office, wait for him at the lobby after work or to meet him for lunch. This way, she said at least make her presence felt. This one I can’t, I rarely have lunch w hubby. He will rush me to quickly finish up my food, citing the need to rush for meetings at 2pm. I get gastric pain every time I lunch with him. :stupid:

[janet88]

grocery shopping at the supermarket is something I can’t control.


as a SAHM, crowning glory and looking presentable is important.
it’s not difficult to look presentable. I have several pants in blue, black, denim and cream. I just have to find tops.
as for shoes, I wear flats. comfort is crucial.
lipstick, eye brow and perfume.

[starlight1968sg]

Janet

Think from another angle; lots of hw and tests is to force students to study more so as to better prep for exams.

I enjoy grocery shopping too but can’t buy too much bec of limited space in the fridge.