All About Bullying
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Regin\" post_id=\"1947125\" time=\"1574130818\" user_id=\"182202:
Erm...I think you think too much, and it is affecting your son who look upon you. I am not asking your son to fight back, but to at least defend himself. A upper block can save the nose, a lower block can save the tummy. A variety of counter blows can be use to deter further action. Don't let your son come and tell you he has being punched. Instead, let him tell you how he has blocked and deter the bully. For now, suggest you build up those defences, consist of techniques, mental and instinct.
A parent whom I used to like because she would be correcting her misbehaving children loudly, I thought she was trying her best and it cant be helped her boys were rowdy.
This year, her son had hurt others (i know at least 3 incidents which included kicking at the backside when the victim was bending over, punching another boys tummy, punching someone face. ) All the time I realise she was absent.
For the first incident, i informed her but she went, \"The boy is older and is well capable of defending himself. (her son is huge). Anyway, if it is a problem, the teacher would inform me. \"Basically she is telling me dont be a kpo. But the teacher was not around as activity class had dismissed. I told her as a parent, she should be around since her son likes to hit people and she said she is busy which means she is using the free activity class as a free childcare.
Parent of the boy that got punched told me she knew the family and she is not surprised at her response.
My hubby told me if she ever hurt our kid, we will be sure to go for medical examination and send her the bill but another parent who is aware and like us, would come to jagar, told us he is telling his kid if this bully comes, punch him in the nose til he bleeds bcos if the parent doesnt teach, we should help to teach. In the beginning I felt it was bad, but after learning how the other boy that got punched in the tummy couldnt z n cried in pain, i can understand why the parent feels this way.
The teacher has been telling the kid why he should hurt people and each time, he does appear sorry. He is already 6.
I used to tell my kids forgive and forget. Until my son asked me but if the person keep bullying him? It got me thinking. -
peasants\" post_id=\"1948513\" time=\"1574532455\" user_id=\"75885:
:goodpost:
Erm...I think you think too much, and it is affecting your son who look upon you. I am not asking your son to fight back, but to at least defend himself. A upper block can save the nose, a lower block can save the tummy. A variety of counter blows can be use to deter further action. Don't let your son come and tell you he has being punched. Instead, let him tell you how he has blocked and deter the bully. For now, suggest you build up those defences, consist of techniques, mental and instinct.Regin\" post_id=\"1947125\" time=\"1574130818\" user_id=\"182202:
A parent whom I used to like because she would be correcting her misbehaving children loudly, I thought she was trying her best and it cant be helped her boys were rowdy.
This year, her son had hurt others (i know at least 3 incidents which included kicking at the backside when the victim was bending over, punching another boys tummy, punching someone face. ) All the time I realise she was absent.
For the first incident, i informed her but she went, \"The boy is older and is well capable of defending himself. (her son is huge). Anyway, if it is a problem, the teacher would inform me. \"Basically she is telling me dont be a kpo. But the teacher was not around as activity class had dismissed. I told her as a parent, she should be around since her son likes to hit people and she said she is busy which means she is using the free activity class as a free childcare.
Parent of the boy that got punched told me she knew the family and she is not surprised at her response.
My hubby told me if she ever hurt our kid, we will be sure to go for medical examination and send her the bill but another parent who is aware and like us, would come to jagar, told us he is telling his kid if this bully comes, punch him in the nose til he bleeds bcos if the parent doesnt teach, we should help to teach. In the beginning I felt it was bad, but after learning how the other boy that got punched in the tummy couldnt z n cried in pain, i can understand why the parent feels this way.
The teacher has been telling the kid why he should hurt people and each time, he does appear sorry. He is already 6.
I used to tell my kids forgive and forget. Until my son asked me but if the person keep bullying him? It got me thinking. -
I think bullying is a difficult topic to approach. I had a primary 3 student whose classmates all "ostracise" him for being weird. It was difficult to justify bullying as most of the classmates just don’t want to talk to him or be his friend. We can’t fault the classmates for not wanting to be his friend but at the same time the social ostracisation had a significant effect making the child more withdrawn and depressed.
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bullying is bad
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bullying is bad
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Aleksandr\" post_id=\"1958429\" time=\"1578645106\" user_id=\"183576:
bullying is bad
I agree. And what would be the appropriate intervention to avoid this? Bullying in school is becoming a normal thing which is not right. -
Aleksandr\" post_id=\"1958429\" time=\"1578645106\" user_id=\"183576:
yes. everyone can be a victim and a suspect. so please before we speak and act, we should think wisely.
bullying is bad -
reverse psychology, bullies are those who are afraid to stand up for themselves as they seek pleasure in patronizing o0thers
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bullying often happens for those who are weak and children who experience being bullied by their own peers. it will never satisfy someone because the true weak are those who bully. for they are prisoners of their self. stop bullying.
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ensure that if ur child is being bullied, make sure not to guide them in the direction of attacking the bully back but instead know how to defend themselves physically and mentally
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