All About Bullying
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I often have quite complex feeling I dunno how to describe it.. whenever I read these abt young kids..how can someone so young do not have compassion..you can be naughty but not till to want to push someone to the end..and it is not a day/week/mth or two..but persistently like get satisfaction from other people's sufferings.. these kids need help as well :sad:
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MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2008559\" time=\"1608473251\" user_id=\"43981:
I agree with you. I heard this saying during my young adult days & it stuck with me: \"Hurt people hurt other people\".
I often have quite complex feeling I dunno how to describe it.. whenever I read these abt young kids..how can someone so young do not have compassion..you can be naughty but not till to want to push someone to the end..and it is not a day/week/mth or two..but persistently like get satisfaction from other people's sufferings.. these kids need help as well :sad:
Some of them may come from background with parents who also display such verbal/physical aggression at home...they learn from imitation and use this similar behaviour in school. Others may have some pent-up anger issues and don't know how to express themselves except to vent on other kids in school.
But regardless of the reason, it just takes a strong adult (parent or teacher) to take a stand that their bullying behaviour is wrong and should stop. Otherwise they have to face some consequences. Quite possibly they have never heard someone tell them that before, in such firm terms with follow-up. -
Yet another story for today:
Bully: Hey kid, your nose is so ugly.
Kid: (decides to act blur) Huh what nose.
Bully (punches kid’s nose): That’s a nose!
Kid: Eh no, that’s a knuckle.
Bully: (punches again): Yeah, that’s a knuckle alright.
Kid: Yeah a very weak knuckle. (Walks away).
Really dunno why some kids got nothing better to do must pick on others. -
According to research, Bullying is the activity of repeated, aggressive behavior intended to hurt another individual, physically, mentally, or emotionally. For children to avoid this, its better to practice the buddy system-be with someone at most times.
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Encourage children to seek help from trusted adult or teachers is really important
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Spoke to the parents of the bully (upper primary ) and instead they blamed the victim (lower primary ).
Case of Apple does not fall far from the tree. -
We can all come in to help the bullied when we see it happening, but we can’t be there all the time. It is important for the bullied to stand up for themselves, but what’s the stop the bullied from bullying other people once they find the courage to do so? Life is so complex…
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ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"2040571\" time=\"1633319068\" user_id=\"3:
This is why the parents and the teachers should teach the bullied not to bully others because they already know how painful it was when they were bullied by others. Life is so simple........ we should let the bullied know they have to stand up but don't continue to bring this terrible experience to others.
We can all come in to help the bullied when we see it happening, but we can't be there all the time. It is important for the bullied to stand up for themselves, but what's the stop the bullied from bullying other people once they find the courage to do so? Life is so complex... -
My bestfriends have a child that is a huge bully. I can tell you they denied it for probably 2 years. Fought every accusation and story or anything bad said about the kid.
Finally when the kid was 11 or 12 they dropped him off at a relative’s house to hang out with the cousins for the day. They left, but had to return about 10 minutes later to pick something up. They saw him slapping one of the other kids and saying how their parents didn’t love them and were trying to sell them. That was one of the more minor things the kid had been accused of doing. They are pretty sure he shoved another kid down and broke his arm.
They apologized to everyone the kid had ever been around. Both for the kid’s behavior and for them being stupid and denying it. As far as punishing the kid, they took everything except the dresser and bed out of the kids room making it almost like a jail cell. That was over a year ago and he still just has the bed and dresser. He’s gotten much nicer, but it’s hard to tell if it’s a act or not. -
bekzclz11\" post_id=\"2063835\" time=\"1649335816\" user_id=\"197757:
Well... at least the parents realised it for themselves that the kid is a bully and punished him for it. It's a blessing.
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They apologized to everyone the kid had ever been around. Both for the kid's behavior and for them being stupid and denying it. As far as punishing the kid, they took everything except the dresser and bed out of the kids room making it almost like a jail cell. That was over a year ago and he still just has the bed and dresser. He's gotten much nicer, but it's hard to tell if it's a act or not.
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