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[Estéema]

slmkhoo\" post_id=\"2077501\" time=\"1659756392\" user_id=\"28674:

My younger girl is mildly anaemic and it seems to cause headaches. She's been checked out by doctors who can't find any other possible cause of the headaches. She hates liver, and I hate cooking it, so she just takes iron supplements. Seems to help as she doesn't get headaches as often now.

That’s good. I supplement with plenty of veggies esp spinach. Popeye “taught” me! :rotflmao:

Ya. I’m anaemic for most of my teen life but had since improved heaps. Think coz I’ve been very active in my adulthood doing lots of aerobics, mountain climbing, trekking, etc. think it helps me overcome my anaemia. I don’t get headaches tho.

[Funz]

DD and her BF washing my car for me now. Before that they brought the dog out for a walk at east coast.


Not bad this BF, he is moving up the approval scale.

And this is the benefit the I reap for having a cannot sit still DD.

[starlight1968sg]

Funz\" post_id=\"2077524\" time=\"1659774845\" user_id=\"6230:

DD and her BF washing my car for me now. Before that they brought the dog out for a walk at east coast.

Not bad this BF, he is moving up the approval scale.

And this is the benefit the I reap for having a cannot sit still DD.

funz
i hv yet to reach this stage; my dd has yet to hv a BF. i cant imagine when that day arrives ...

[MrsKiasu]

Funz\" post_id=\"2077524\" time=\"1659774845\" user_id=\"6230:

DD and her BF washing my car for me now. Before that they brought the dog out for a walk at east coast.

Not bad this BF, he is moving up the approval scale.

And this is the benefit the I reap for having a cannot sit still DD.

:congrats: Funz

[sharonkhoo]

Funz\" post_id=\"2077524\" time=\"1659774845\" user_id=\"6230:

DD and her BF washing my car for me now. Before that they brought the dog out for a walk at east coast.

Not bad this BF, he is moving up the approval scale.

And this is the benefit the I reap for having a cannot sit still DD.

The question to ask is whether this is just while he's on his \"best behaviour\", or whether it is really part of his nature? Hard to know in the early days, I guess.

[ChiefKiasu]

slmkhoo\" post_id=\"2077545\" time=\"1659786245\" user_id=\"28674:

The question to ask is whether this is just while he's on his \"best behaviour\", or whether it is really part of his nature? Hard to know in the early days, I guess.

Most likely, he is just pleasing you :evil: Nobody would want to wash another person's car willingly.

[Liew Nga Wing]

slmkhoo\" post_id=\"2077545\" time=\"1659786245\" user_id=\"28674:

The question to ask is whether this is just while he's on his \"best behaviour\", or whether it is really part of his nature? Hard to know in the early days, I guess.

For my family, I and my DH are not so concern on whether it is our future daughter in law \"best behaviour\" or whether it is her true nature. The most important is whether our son like her. It is our son facing her not us.

When talking about this, I have the following phase in ancient China suddenly come into my mind and hope to share here.

百善孝为先，论心不论迹，论迹贫家无孝子，万恶淫为首，论迹不论心，论心世间无完人。

[starlight1968sg]

Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=\"2077570\" time=\"1659797217\" user_id=\"195250:[quote=\"Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=2077570 time=1659797217 user_id=195250]
论心世间无完人。[/quote]

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[sharonkhoo]

Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=\"2077570\" time=\"1659797217\" user_id=\"195250:[quote=\"Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=2077570 time=1659797217 user_id=195250]
For my family, I and my DH are not so concern on whether it is our future daughter in law \"best behaviour\" or whether it is her true nature. The most important is whether our son like her. It is our son facing her not us.

When talking about this, I have the following phase in ancient China suddenly come into my mind and hope to share here.

百善孝为先，论心不论迹，论迹贫家无孝子，万恶淫为首，论迹不论心，论心世间无完人。[/quote]

Sorry, my Chinese can't decipher the last line!

It's true that it's our child that has to face the future spouse daily, so the final choice must be theirs. On the other hand, especially if they are quite young, as a parent I would want to make some assessment of my own. If there are issues that send warning signals, or we can see potential problems, I think it's only right to warn our child. How we phrase the warnings will depend on the closeness of the relationship with our kids, and how serious the issues are.

[MrsKiasu]

To me even if trying to impress, at least still bother to try…so still got chance. Let’s say it is the bf, I guess the daughter can ‘influence’ quite abit?