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    • MrsKiasuM Offline
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      MyPillow\" post_id=\"2078469\" time=\"1660548819\" user_id=\"70594:

      banking grads go to banks/ private banking tec, where outside materials are a need for them to package n present themselves.

      during my time, i saved 70% of salary. I am not sure whether youngster can do this now ,
      their commitments are higher than ours. a hdb flat is already so much more ex compared to our time.
      Haha..I wanted to say more than 50% but somehow feel abit 'reserved' to say it.. yea..our time really can save money I find. Things were cheaper.

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      • sharonkhooS Offline
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        Funz\" post_id=\"2078468\" time=\"1660548431\" user_id=\"6230:

        Other people may have other nuggets of financial wisdom but these were some of the things that my dad told us.
        Another thing we have dinned into our daughter's heads is that they should avoid \"buy now pay later\" and getting into credit card debt. Borrowing to buy a house is the main exception, and a car if one is really necessary for work (i.e. it is in a way \"income generating\"). Otherwise, they should save up first, then buy. Getting into debt to go on fancy vacations, buy luxury goods, eat in swanky restaurants etc. is a slippery slope.

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        • MyPillowM Offline
          MyPillow
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          MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2078472\" time=\"1660549165\" user_id=\"43981:

          Haha..I wanted to say more than 50% but somehow feel abit 'reserved' to say it.. yea..our time really can save money I find. Things were cheaper.
          i think it depends on how disciplined the person is at the point of time .
          after married, paying off all big tickets like honeymoon, renov, wedding . dh n me also saved 70% too , housing is fr CPF.
          initial yrs, we went humble resorts for holidays , so our nest can save up faster..

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          • sharonkhooS Offline
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            MyPillow\" post_id=\"2078469\" time=\"1660548819\" user_id=\"70594:

            banking grads go to banks/ private banking tec, where outside materials are a need for them to package n present themselves.

            during my time, i saved 70% of salary. I am not sure whether youngster can do this now ,
            their commitments are higher than ours. a hdb flat is already so much more ex compared to our time.
            There are ways to save money and still look good if they are willing to buy 2nd hand, look for bargains, etc. No actual experience, but this is what I hear from the younger lot. Luckily, both my daughters are not in that kind of job.

            I know I saved most of my salary other than transport and lunches in the first few months of working as my parents wouldn't take my money as I was planning to get married within the year (and then a lot of it got spent on wedding and renovations). And after I got married, I think we lived on my husband's salary (higher than mine) and saved my take-home pay. HDB flat prices are the main difference for young couples, I feel - my girls' starting pay was slightly more than double what mine was in dollar terms, but the price of HDB flats bought from the HDB is about 5-6 times!

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            • FunzF Offline
              Funz
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              I believe in spending within your earning power. And that goes both ways, don’t overspend and don’t underspend either.


              If your income allow you to travel in biz class or 1st class, don’t compete with the rest who cannot afford and fly economy. If you have the flexibility of going to work after peak hours in your chauffer driven car, please do that and don’t come and squeeze with the rest of the people taking public transport during peak hours. When you can afford to pay for your education don’t apply for scholarship just because you can.

              Being thrifty may not be a virtue in every scenario.

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              • ChiefKiasuC Offline
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                slmkhoo\" post_id=\"2078474\" time=\"1660549946\" user_id=\"28674:

                Another thing we have dinned into our daughter's heads is that they should avoid \"buy now pay later\" and getting into credit card debt. Borrowing to buy a house is the main exception, and a car if one is really necessary for work (i.e. it is in a way \"income generating\"). Otherwise, they should save up first, then buy. Getting into debt to go on fancy vacations, buy luxury goods, eat in swanky restaurants etc. is a slippery slope.
                Buying a car makes no sense in Singapore, with the mrt being available practically everywhere now. You may think that having a car saves you time... but if you factor in the cost of owning a car, buying gas, paying road tax, parking, summons, etc... it really makes no sense for the \"time you saved\". Better to invest in a pair of nice wireless headphones, and play with your phone on the MRT. I find it more relaxing to travel without a car.

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                • Imp75I Offline
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                  ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"2078497\" time=\"1660556497\" user_id=\"3:

                  Buying a car makes no sense in Singapore, with the mrt being available practically everywhere now. You may think that having a car saves you time... but if you factor in the cost of owning a car, buying gas, paying road tax, parking, summons, etc... it really makes no sense for the \"time you saved\". Better to invest in a pair of nice wireless headphones, and play with your phone on the MRT. I find it more relaxing to travel without a car.
                  Chief hv u tried taking mrt during peak hours or try pushing a pram onto the train? I thought the NSEW lines were horrible and the newer lines are no better post covid……. They are so crowded………after a hard day’s work, do we not deserve a good ride home where we can sit comfortably and blast our fav music…

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                  • FunzF Offline
                    Funz
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                    ChiefKiasu\" post_id=\"2078497\" time=\"1660556497\" user_id=\"3:

                    Buying a car makes no sense in Singapore, with the mrt being available practically everywhere now. You may think that having a car saves you time... but if you factor in the cost of owning a car, buying gas, paying road tax, parking, summons, etc... it really makes no sense for the \"time you saved\". Better to invest in a pair of nice wireless headphones, and play with your phone on the MRT. I find it more relaxing to travel without a car.
                    If you travel by yourself, yes public transport in Singapore is great. But if you have young kids and schools are in different locations and not within walking distance, or if you have old folks who are not quite mobile, a car is a great convenience if you can afford it.

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                    • starlight1968sgS Offline
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                      having a car brings convenience and saves time.


                      Anybody tried bringing a senior on his wheelchair to take a bus or MRT? Once a month, I bring my dad to take a \"feeder\" bus to Our Tamp Hub. It is quite a challenge to do so.

                      I live in Hillview and my office is at the North.

                      In front of Hillview MRT, there are lots of buses going to city or heading JB. But the bus i need to take to Bt Panjang starts almost 6am. The 1st MRT to Bt Panjang is at 6.12am.

                      From there I need to take another bus to the north. A car journey is about 20 to 30min. My bus trip is easily an hour and at times close to 1.5h due to waiting buses esp during off peak hours.

                      Again, from Hillview to JE is almost a stone throw away geographically. But I need to take a bus 176 to Bt Batok then hop onto MRT to JE.

                      Yes, our public transport is easily available but may not be point to point.

                      Sorry, I off topic again 😞

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                      • Liew Nga WingL Offline
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                        Imp75\" post_id=\"2078499\" time=\"1660557007\" user_id=\"2358:

                        Chief hv u tried taking mrt during peak hours or try pushing a pram onto the train? I thought the NSEW lines were horrible and the newer lines are no better post covid……. They are so crowded………after a hard day’s work, do we not deserve a good ride home where we can sit comfortably and blast our fav music…
                        Yes, you are correct, I am now on the horrible EW line train towards Jurong direction after work and it is so crowded that I have to push me face on the door window. I can afford to buy a car but the problem is the traffic jams at Corporation Road and Jalan Boon Lay is worse at this timing and I believe it is much faster to reach home by MRT and feeder bus than driving all the way home.

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