Me Time!
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lee_yl\" post_id=\"2092257\" time=\"1671166774\" user_id=\"17023:
I know many families from western countries whose kids are altruistic in outlook, partly/mainly? because their parents are. So I think if Singaporean kids are not, it is saying something about their parents, and our society. Singaporeans may be more practical, but also more self-centred. You cite our ministers (and top civil servants too); yes, let's call a spade a spade - the way they are remunerated is a bad example for our kids! I won't go into arguments about why and how, but that's my view.
Definitely there are 10-12yo kids with altruistic motives, but are they the majority or rare few? The countries I can think of with many 10-12yo kids with thoughts of serving the nation are China and North Korea. Why Singaporeans are more practical? Maybe because our ministers who really 为国为民 are the most highly paid the world.
On paper, it looks nice that children have some aspirations, some ideas on what they want to do. Sometime back, I shared that my DD2 wanted to be a NTUC cashier in order to have more free time to do her own things. Many parents responded by saying that I need to teach her to be practical about things!!
If a child is able to do better but chooses not to try harder, as a parent, I would try to inculcate the habits of working harder. Not just for 'practical' reasons, but because we believe that diligence and effort builds good character. And in the end, people of good character who work well at what they do will benefit society as long as they haven't learned to be selfish and materialistic. But if a child's ability is limited, then there should be no shame (for them or their parents) in their contributing to society by doing whatever they can do best.
Please don't misinterpret what I'm saying - I do not believe in encouraging kids to work less hard and aim for low-paid jobs. But I believe that aiming for high-paying jobs for pay and status alone is not something to be encouraged.
Edited to add: Kids in China who say they want to serve the nation - well, some genuinely mean it, but the vast majority have just learnt so say the \"right\" things! -
lee_yl\" post_id=\"2092272\" time=\"1671172359\" user_id=\"17023:
We may have different views but I am not a Grand mother yet.....I am still young (Both body and mind).
That’s diversity and having these different perspectives are valuable. We don’t wish to be in an echo chamber
Maybe, one day after my kids have graduated, and I become a Kiasu Grandparent, I may ask parents who are still inside the rat race, to look beyond the soil to see stars….
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Building blocks for brain development in children.
https://www.ted.com/talks/jesse_ilhardt_how_play_helps_a_kid_s_brain_grow?fbclid=IwAR2eJEWqjNPjJ2Xb9mZpsrzNLncTZYuTgPSW7ryWOJRvO5SrL4SVElmHlJg -
Thunderstorm earlier and quite cooling now.
Last 2 matches to watch and World Cup 2022 will be over. -
I m crazy with bags now…been eyeing the brand for few months. First bought few pairs of shoes, just received my bag and 2 large wallets…one for dh…today placed order for another bigger bag and 1 bag for dd coz buy 2 got additional 20%. I hope next year I will not be spending much.
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MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2092341\" time=\"1671266583\" user_id=\"43981:
You’re so thotful - but got hubby, buy for daughters. I’m also shopping for a crossbody bag for DS. Sth more mod. Saw a Finnish design which is compact & flat. He doesn’t want DH’s old fashion crossbody.
I m crazy with bags now..been eyeing the brand for few months. First bought few pairs of shoes, just received my bag and 2 large wallets..one for dh..today placed order for another bigger bag and 1 bag for dd coz buy 2 got additional 20%. I hope next year I will not be spending much. -
We were out this morning…was sunny and hot tho can see part of the sky cloudy. Happened to see a vaccination ctr and dh says he wants to go for booster our bfast and grocery shopping. So just go in and took it.
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Estéema\" post_id=\"2092342\" time=\"1671266768\" user_id=\"66413:
Dunno why..this year abit not normal for me lol.
You’re so thotful - but got hubby, buy for daughters. I’m also shopping for a crossbody bag for DS. Sth more mod. Saw a Finnish design which is compact & flat. He doesn’t want DH’s old fashion crossbody.
I bought those older stocks..so got good discount.. of the latest 5 pieces bought, 3 were last stock left. -
MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2092343\" time=\"1671266780\" user_id=\"43981:
he is aged 50 and above, hence can walk in?
We were out this morning..was sunny and hot tho can see part of the sky cloudy. Happened to see a vaccination ctr and dh says he wants to go for booster our bfast and grocery shopping. So just go in and took it.
Is this his 4th dose? -
MrsKiasu\" post_id=\"2092344\" time=\"1671266971\" user_id=\"43981:
Nothing abnormal.
Dunno why..this year abit not normal for me lol.
I bought those older stocks..so got good discount.. of the latest 5 pieces bought, 3 were last stock left.
Festive season just round the corner and hence we will spend more to feel happier. :rahrah:
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