Me Time!
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OTOH, all mums want the best for their kids. They love their own flesh but perhaps their methods may not be appropriate.
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phtthp\" post_id=\"2128692\" time=\"1707381209\" user_id=\"35251:
Agree with this. You and your husband have a good relationship, as far as I can see, and that is precious. I wonder how she would feel if you were the sick one, and your husband decided to dump you? Don't let outsiders (and other relatives are also \"outsiders\" to a marriage) get in the way. It's upsetting to have this happen around CNY, but focus on your marriage and son & family. Wishing you a good time with your husband and son over the next few days.
LNW,
Don't listen to your mother. She cannot control your life, as u are an adult. The fact that u married your husband means u must have seen certain good qualities inside him. Hence, u feel that u can entrust your life with him, thus married him. To be honest, in life, not easy to find a companion, whom u can entrust your life into his hands.
As for falling sick, is a matter of time as all of us are growing old. You recall your marriage vows that day, when u married your husband and sign at the ROM ... \" in sickness or in health, till death do us part\". Your husband need u even more at this time in his sickness, to stand by him, to encourage him when he is weak, in health.
Just ignore your mom. She can't do anything. Each time she bring up divorce, just let her words fly over your head. That means, not important. She can rattle all she wants. But don't let her words affect u. Just reject, whatever she said. -
starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"2128693\" time=\"1707381467\" user_id=\"14025:
authorative mum are like this type one
OTOH, all mums want the best for their kids. They love their own flesh but perhaps their methods may not be appropriate.
overheard my aunties also told the dd to divorce before
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Thank you for the supports. I have no plan to dump DH. Because my mother has hospitalized recently due to the blockade of her blood vessel, I am afraid when I talked to her then she will angry and shooting up her blood pressure.
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Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=\"2128696\" time=\"1707382503\" user_id=\"195250:[quote=\"Liew Nga Wing\" post_id=2128696 time=1707382503 user_id=195250]
You have to accept that some things are beyond your control - if you can calmly state your case, but she gets angry, it is not your fault. There comes a point in life (and you have certainly reached it) when we have loyalties to others stronger than to our parents.
Thank you for the supports. I have no plan to dump DH. Because my mother has hospitalized recently due to the blockade of her blood vessel, I am afraid when I talked to her then she will angry and shooting up her blood pressure.[/quote] -
For me, squeezing it in usually happens either when everyone’s asleep or when the kids are busy with their own thing, like during enrichment classes or playdates.
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Was at VivoCity NTUC & saw their Lukan at $3.95 for 10. Big, juicy & sweet. SIL bought some for herself & MIL.
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slmkhoo\" post_id=\"2128708\" time=\"1707386335\" user_id=\"28674:
Yes, it is not my fault but I don't want her to get angry because she got heart vessel problem.
You have to accept that some things are beyond your control - if you can calmly state your case, but she gets angry, it is not your fault. There comes a point in life (and you have certainly reached it) when we have loyalties to others stronger than to our parents. -
LNW
Let us learn to relax and just go thru this festive season -
starlight1968sg\" post_id=\"2128693\" time=\"1707381467\" user_id=\"14025:
But mums should also respect kids' decision. It is DH not her.
OTOH, all mums want the best for their kids. They love their own flesh but perhaps their methods may not be appropriate.
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