Should I report this?

[TheresaChin]

Some of you suggested that I should leave them alone just because it does not concern us? Some even suggested to tell this to our kids? But is this the sort of mindset or upbringing that you want to teach your kids?


Should we teach them that we should only do things if it would affect us directly? Or use this to teach them about moral and repercussion of one’s action?

I hope if I report this, I could save their respective marriage before their respective spouse find out about the affair. Whenever a marriage is broken, it is the kids would who suffer the most.

First, I will have to find a new school for my kids.

[verykiasu2010]

KSP:

verykiasu2010:

hahaha, I do, with cousins and sibling that have not met for a long time.......we do more than hold hands, we hug and kiss too .....

Wow, so angmopai? Or modern? I still can't accept it maybe I'm too asian or traditional.

heeheehee, no angmopai lah, very cheena one....because some cousins have not met since young when we played together, as we all migrated to various places since those marbles / catch butterfly days...rare opportunity to meet these days as we are scattered in many places

[Amberz]

Haha, I loved reading some of your opinions! Well, here’s my 2 cents worth. I feel that for the most part, what a teacher does outside of sch is her private business and so long as she doesn’t impose it on her students, it’s fine. I mean a teacher could be a lesbian and always be seen with another woman but unless she tells the girls in her class to hate boys or something, no one would really know and it wouldn’t be an issue would it?


Of course appearing in public with him could either mean they are both separated from their spouses and dating or they are either stupid enough to be openly affectionate or they blatently don’t care. If I were you I’d have let my kid run up to greet the teacher and watch for their reaction when they see you. :!:

Also, be prepared that the repercussions of telling on them may not be in your favour or that of your child so unless you are ready to start hunting for another school, I’ll advise you to think carefully before you rock the boat. Even if your child has another teacher, you may be perceived as a nosy parent and should the uglier side of human nature emerge in these teachers, your kid suffers the consequence of it. Of course there is always the possibility that the teacher gets laid off for her actions and you earn the respect of all as a parent with high moral standards. Are you prepared for either outcome?

[TheresaChin]

Thanks for your views.


I just found out that the staff would be transferred out from the Ang Mo Kio Branch to their new Hougang outlet. Maybe the school had found out of the affair.

Amberz:

Haha, I loved reading some of your opinions! Well, here's my 2 cents worth. I feel that for the most part, what a teacher does outside of sch is her private business and so long as she doesn't impose it on her students, it's fine. I mean a teacher could be a lesbian and always be seen with another woman but unless she tells the girls in her class to hate boys or something, no one would really know and it wouldn't be an issue would it?

Of course appearing in public with him could either mean they are both separated from their spouses and dating or they are either stupid enough to be openly affectionate or they blatently don't care. If I were you I'd have let my kid run up to greet the teacher and watch for their reaction when they see you. :!:

Also, be prepared that the repercussions of telling on them may not be in your favour or that of your child so unless you are ready to start hunting for another school, I'll advise you to think carefully before you rock the boat. Even if your child has another teacher, you may be perceived as a nosy parent and should the uglier side of human nature emerge in these teachers, your kid suffers the consequence of it. Of course there is always the possibility that the teacher gets laid off for her actions and you earn the respect of all as a parent with high moral standards. Are you prepared for either outcome?

[TheresaChin]

Hi all,


I heard that the said staff is now involved in a relationship with another parent of the school student. If this goes on, I wonder how many marriages would be destroyed by her. Or this is the marketing strategy by the school to retain students?

Anyway, I’m glad my kids are no longer with the school.

[toddles]

This is very disturbing. she seems out to be a marriage wrecker.

[verykiasu2010]

toddles:

This is very disturbing. she seems out to be a marriage wrecker.

may she really likes married man .....

[tree nymph]

Then she should like her own husband, who is also a married man ...

[tankee]

tree nymph:

Then she should like her own husband, who is also a married man ...

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