[Hougang/Punggol/Sengkang] Preschools

[Advocator]

Hi insider,


I will not dispute on your philosophy, i.e. play-based against academic-based approach to child learning. I think both systems have its own strengths and values.

Personally (this is our most preferred comfort level as parents), I want my kids to have a head start in life. Agree on the point that most kids will eventually 'average' out those who already had a head-start in their younger years. But for me, I want my children to have the best even in their prime years (to achieve as much as I think they can). I believe this is really parents' own personal choice, considering we may be one of the 'KIASU' ones and clearly, why I am in this forum. Of course, when we decide to go with an academic-based approach with our kids, we do it with motivation and encouragement to ensure there is long term sustainance of our kids in learning.

Whether my kids (being ex-cedans) know how to play or not, I let them go explore on their own. This is my philosophy for them that they will need to do their own self-exploration. No need to have a methodical 'A-Z' way to playing.

Incidentally and interestingly, you seem to know cedan system very well. Sounds like you are an 'inside' observer or are you an ex-parent too. :scratchhead:

[keenDaddy]

I also think that play-based approach for pre-schoolers is better. It promotes learning at current stage and teaches the child to develop the skills to "learn" better at later stage. Hence coupled with the right teaching mix, it is part of foundation building in their early years so that they can easily transit to a more academic system in primary schools. Did we not wonder why the govt is scrapping the P1 exams? Unfortunately, many parents are still evaluating the pre-schools based on the homework and worksheets which they bring home and complains when they are insufficient.

[Mari]

Hi I’m interested to put my child in a childcare as I have just shifted into Punggol. I am looking a several childcare centres in Sengkang so that my MIL can send her to school. Anyone has any good reviews of childcare near Rivervale Mall? Want to know more about Young Elite, Cambridge, Sheffield. Please advise if you have any idea if they still have a place for my child. K1. thanksjavascript:emoticon(‘:?:’)

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[Advocator]

Hi insider,


This will also be my last post to your reply. Perhaps I must indicate my position all these while is not to be bias against any of the systems here, let alone to compare them. I say again... I am only indicating my personal preference of academic-based learning here as a PARENT having seen my children being through it. I am also not saying that my children only focus academically at all times as all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. A statement all of us is very familiar with.

To say that being academic at young age stifles the development of the brain and limits its optimum potential growth is indeed puzzling. Through literature, it has been published that our human minds are very complex in its functioning and how it transfers the information throughout. A person can never say he has fully and completely use his brain. The brain can take in and process limitless information. The difficulty is only recalling it when you need to. However, being constantly exposing oneself especially at young age (best is abt 3 yrs old) to similar information/ learning would probably result in better retention, easy recalling and memory gain for the brain. I stop here before this becomes too scientific.

Setting objectives during play is a good thing, I must admit. However, one can also never limit the objectives... otherwise, the child becomes too rigid and only plays the games in the same objectives that have been internalized in him. There is no flexibility in this regard. I also agree that learning can sometimes take the form of playing to better understand and see things in different perspectives.

I cite another example using my sister's kids. Both of them have been through play-based learning and when they reached primary school, my sister admitted that it was challenging for them to adapt to the school curriculum and had to spend the next one year trying to bring both kids' competencies on par with the 'norm' at school. This is sad but a true fact.

There is really no right or wrong in whichever system we choose for our children. It is a MATTER OF PREFERENCE of the parents for our kids and our OWN INTERNAL BELIEFS to which system works best for them. No one knows our children better except us, as parents.

[mrswongtuition]

Advocator:

I cite another example using my sister's kids. Both of them have been through play-based learning and when they reached primary school, my sister admitted that it was challenging for them to adapt to the school curriculum and had to spend the next one year trying to bring both kids' competencies on par with the 'norm' at school. This is sad but a true fact.
There is really no right or wrong in whichever system we choose for our children. It is a MATTER OF PREFERENCE of the parents for our kids and our OWN INTERNAL BELIEFS to which system works best for them. No one knows our children better except us, as parents.

I watch the struggles of primary & secondary school kids on daily basis. I have to agree. It's a sad fact. Our system is such and it will take time to change, not during our kid's generation.

From my observations, kids used to a 'play based' environment will have adaptation problems.

I do wish that my boy can learn through play (which is what we do at home), but a sad fact remains that it will take very long for primary & secondary school education to be similar to play-based approach, allowing the child to discover and learn through experience.

Being the ultra KS parent, I enrolled him in a very academic pre-school with worksheets from 2nd week of school onwards & reading tests every week for both language (he is 3yo this yr, N1).
However, he gets all the play-based learning at home and through enrichment classes which he loves. He can distinguish between SCHOOL (for strict learning) and PLAY (for fun and entertainment).

I don't believe in depriving a child from playtime and self-discovery, but I feel that it's better done at home, with parents to encourage family bonding. Play dates can be easily organized with cousins or neighbours/friends. Even simple trips to the supermarket are 'hidden lessons' for my boy! Counting, names of items, counting money, etc!

Yet, I feel compelled as a parent, to ensure that he will not have the 'adaptation lag' when he enters formal schooling, thus the decision for an academic pre-school. To prevent a 'culture shock' when he starts getting homework and assessments in primary school.

Every child is different and different kids will also have different preference and learning styles. I think parents should decide what they want for their child. While we can give views and suggestions, we cannot force all parents to think the same way and want the same for their kids

[Advocator]

Insider wrote:
[quote]I can proudly say 100% of the kids (with no special needs ones) in my centres,[/quote]I finally see that you are an operator of a centre. That explains the details.

[Fuzz]

I think it’s important for kids to learn thru play. We don’t want to kill their interest for learning. i always find it such a joy to see my boy’s face light up when he makes some new discovery. we encourage him to do little experiments n to just enjoy hands-on learning.


but of course, there must be some balance with academic, so that they don’t have problems adjusting to primary sch. and i also feel it’s important for the childcare/kindy to enforce some level of discipline n structure.

my nephew attended a ctr that gave the kids alot of free play n there was minimal structure. he had alot problem adapting to pr sch. he was such a bright kid. so much potential. but now he’s still struggling in sch. and he’s already in pr 6. part of it is also becos of insufficient parental support. but i believe that his yrs of unstructured education (from age 2 to 6+) had a big part to play as well.

so for me, what’s important is balance. with a bit more emphasis on play. i’m no expert in this field but that’s just my two cents worth as a parent.

[Fuzz]

i’m also quite concerned abt the quality of childcare in some ctrs. when i was searching for childcare for my son, i visited quite a few places and some were quite dim and messy and the staff seemed disorganised. which made me worry abt whether they would do a gd job caring for the kids!


problem with punggol is too much demand n not enough supply, so maybe some ctrs just get away with poor standards cos parents have no choice… After being put on a few waiting lists n seeing some poor quality ctrs in punggol, i’m now sending my boy to little skool house in cbd as it’s near hubby’s office. and we are quite happy with it so far!

[blur1]

Hi,


am looking for childcare for my boy in Punggol and has short listed Kids' Kingdom @ Centre Christian Church and Intellect Monte Pal Skoolhouse @ Twenty- Fourth Avenue. May i know if any one here send your kids there and would appreciate some feedback. Do your kid enjoy there?

Understand that Intellect Monte is montessori base, how's the teaching? Do you face mosqitoes problem since it's right at the end of Punggol?

thanks :?

[shers]

hi all,


i’m new here… i’m searching for 2-3hrs playgroup for my current 15mth old todder. intend to put her there when she turns 18mths… any recommended places near Kovan Station (need walking distance). thanks!