Any parents of gifted children here ?

[tamarind]

Just to clarify, my hubby's family is quite well off. They used to live in a bungalow, have a car, and servants. His father studied in Raffles Institution. There are also piano, ballet classes etc at that time. But his mother was too lazy (she told me) to bring him and his sisters to classes.


I totally respect your decision to send your child to enrichment classes. Many other parents are doing the same thing. My point is that enrichment classes are not the most important factor in developing a child's potential. Personally I think that 2 things are most important :
- ability to learn on his own
- parents' attention.

I do agree with you that social interaction is very important. My girl has enough social interaction during her 4 hours of K1 class daily. She gets to mix with 17 other children, and she understands very well that different children have different levels of ability. Her teacher asks my girl to be a \"little teacher\", my girl teaches other children to read.

On weekends, I would rather spend more time with her, teaching her myself, instead of packing her off to different enrichment classes. My kids only attends 2 hours of Chinese enrichment during weekends, and I already miss them

[en107rn.01056yahoo.01056com.01056sg]

Hi Tamarind


Your children is fortunate to have your husband as guidance & your love and concern.

For gifted kids, the need to drive for performance & to gain knowledged is mainly for intrinsic value. I read in some articles that the reason giftedness is only tested at a later age eg 9 years old is to ensure that children are not hot house & children from less able background are given the chance to receive formal education.

However, having said this, I am not against parents giving enrichment classes for their kids. Not all parents are equipped with time and knowledged to guide their kids whom they know are different.

I am thinking of signing up my son for science enrichment. Reasons are mainly because of his interest, there is no Science Club in his school & I cannot cope in providing the answers to all his questions. Latest question that I have not answered nor provide guidance or resource is "Why is comet haley made of ice" & "why are the shooting stars as they approaches the earth, it breaks into smaller pieces". Just like his interest in chess, he bugs me last year, I ignore it & he found relief in school.

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Another reason why I send him for enrichment classes is his need to 'do' something constantly. When he was younger, he'll keep bugging us for activities when we are home doing nothing in particular till both my husband and I are at our wits' ends!! EN, you are right, we don't have the resources or energy to keep up with his boundless energy hence gotta find enrichment classes to keep him occupied :oops: That's how we got into the 'enrichment class bandwagon' in the first place and has been 'hooked' since

[gifted]

Hi,


I’m new here and happened to see this website. It seems to me that everyone here is very interested in the topic ‘gifted’. Having a child that is special as compare to the kids of the same age do make some parents stress out.

My girl had gone through her GEP screening last year and fortunately she was being selected to the GEP programe. Currently, she is in the GEP programe which I think is taxing.

[en107rn.01056yahoo.01056com.01056sg]

Hello Gifted


Welcome to the hot thread. Care to share the joy, the heart stopping moment, the anxiety and stress that you have experince with your daughter?

What is gifted program in Singapore school all about? Does the program relief your stress in bringing up your daughter or is it an added burden now that she is in GEP program.

Feel free to share as we are truly curious.

[gifted]

EN,


In the GEP programe, the children are being taught in a very broad base manner. As they are all fast learner, they are learning things 3 to 4 years in advanced of their age. They dun work on activities books, but worksheets and projects. They are expected to think out of the box and handed stress. They are arm with skill that will help them in the future.

My girl likes the programe but hates the workloads as she cannot find time to play. They dun ready have any text books to teach on and all the P4 text book that were bought are for parents references only. 'Charlotte Web' is the only book for English. As for me, I dun have any past year paper to refer to.

When my girl was in the mainstream, we sailed through with ease and both of us were very happy. She only did her assessment books during exam time and she usually scored well even she dun ready study. I am quite stress out and sometime regret on the decision that we have made. I always tell my friends that she is gifted and I'm not.

One thing for sure is that everyone in the family must have a very positive mind set and have to learn to accept that she is no longer among the top. I have to constantly reminder her that is alright to fail in any test and she can make it if she tried harder next time.

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Hi gifted,


Do you mind sharing which school is your girl in now? Was she from a ‘non-GEP’ school previously? I wonder if all GEP schools have the same kind of program?

[wwcookie]

Hi EN,


Are you going to sign your boy up for the science enrichment class at United Square? There’s another centre, Science Buddies, that offers similar hands-on programs too. My boy has been to their hol programs.

[gifted]

She is now in Nan Hua and previously she is from a neighbourhood school in Jurong.


I heard from my cousin who has a boy in another GEP school, basically they are doing the same thing. All their programe are all tailor by the MOE GEP Department and at the end of the year all the 9 GEP programe school will be taking the same exam paper.

The only different maybe their enrichment programe given by their own school.

[wwcookie]

Thanks, gifted, for your sharing

Can you also share what kind of enrichment programs is the school offering?