Club SAHM

[bebe]

SAHM_TAN:

bebe:

Can I check with you SAHM..how do you manage couple time? Frankly speaking, I am already struggling for ME time...couple time is the last thing on my mind..and I know my hubby is not very pleased..but what to do? Kids come first..I wake up at 5am..go to bed at 11pm...really no time for romance..

We get our kids to sleep at 930pm, yes even the baby.So after 930pm is couple time. We will talk, catch up on stuff. If you are talking about date, like go out, at the moment, we can't becos baby is only 6mos and refused any other to babysit her.

All my 3 kids are in bed by 930pm as well..so after 930pm, I will do some housework like sweeping/mopping/laundry/simple ironing..otherwise it is ME time all the way until 11pm when my #3 wakes up for his milk feed. I think it is hard to go par tor now.

[SAHM_TAN]

SAHM_TAN:

bebe:

We get our kids to sleep at 930pm, yes even the baby.So after 930pm is couple time. We will talk, catch up on stuff. If you are talking about date, like go out, at the moment, we can't becos baby is only 6mos and refused any other to babysit her.

All my 3 kids are in bed by 930pm as well..so after 930pm, I will do some housework like sweeping/mopping/laundry/simple ironing..otherwise it is ME time all the way until 11pm when my #3 wakes up for his milk feed. I think it is hard to go par tor now.

If your hubby is game, can have movie date at home from 930 to 11. Sometimes we have movie night at home, will switch off lights and eat snacks

[Admummy]

Have you guys read TODAYonline? There's an article on \"For full-time mum, a maid’s a necessity\"...


Here's the link:
http://imcmsimages.mediacorp.sg/CMSFileserver/documents/006/PDF/20110223/2302VOP018.pdf

I especially like the conclusion...
Engaging a full-time maid to help a SAHM cannot be considered a “luxury”,
especially when considering the many demands of raising a child owadays and, more importantly, the need to maintain a healthy husband-wife relationship.

If only the govt can allow some incentives to SAHM too...

[buds]

SAHM_TAN:

buds:

[quote=\"SAHM_TAN\"]I'm worst, I'm an \"accidental\" mummy. I never imagine I would be a mummy let alone a mummy of 3 kids

Alamak! :slapshead:

Dis wan lagi best! :rotflmao:

You take the cake boi! :laugh:

:rotflmao:

:udawoman:

Ya lor......Even my frens commented never thot I would be a mummy :rotflmao:

1st one hubby planned sneak attack. I can't let her be without a sibling, poor thing when we are old and gone. So thought we agreed to stop at 2 but who knows I never learn my lesson about his sneaky nature and now we have 3.[/quote]You crack me up, SAHM_TAN!!! :laugh:

:rotflmao:

[Kabby]

Admummy:

Have you guys read TODAYonline? There's an article on \"For full-time mum, a maid’s a necessity\"...


Here's the link:
http://imcmsimages.mediacorp.sg/CMSFileserver/documents/006/PDF/20110223/2302VOP018.pdf

I especially like the conclusion...
Engaging a full-time maid to help a SAHM cannot be considered a “luxury”,
especially when considering the many demands of raising a child owadays and, more importantly, the need to maintain a healthy husband-wife relationship.

If only the govt can allow some incentives to SAHM too...

interesting...

i'd appreciate extra help too, but i treasure my privacy lei...

if only can have helper help during day but she has her own home to go back to, that'd be ideal.

miss having the ayi system in china when hubby was posted there and me and kids were there. so nice cos my house would be spick and span, and i can spend time with kids, hubby, plus do my fav baking, yet we have our privacy

[buds]

Admummy:

If only the govt can allow some incentives to SAHM too...

Yah.. About that.. How come we don't have anything? :rant:

Nothing for us in government's budget?

[SAHM_TAN]

buds:

SAHM_TAN:

Ya lor......Even my frens commented never thot I would be a mummy :rotflmao:

1st one hubby planned sneak attack. I can't let her be without a sibling, poor thing when we are old and gone. So thought we agreed to stop at 2 but who knows I never learn my lesson about his sneaky nature and now we have 3.

You crack me up, SAHM_TAN!!! :laugh:

:rotflmao:

With 3 kids at tender age, I must have a sense of humor or else I will become the white haired witch liao

[SAHM_TAN]

buds:

Admummy:

If only the govt can allow some incentives to SAHM too...

Yah.. About that.. How come we don't have anything? :rant:

Nothing for us in government's budget?

We only get it through our kids, if they are 6yos and below and other goodies as a family.. Think govt don't like SAHM becos they like pple to contribute productively and directly to the economy.

I think their ideal family situation is all adults in the family work, senior citizens work part=time or as volunteers. Parents working 5 days work wk. Have at least 2 kids and keeping option open for 3rd kid. During wkends, family spend time together as a unit.

One adult off the workforce, they need to source from outside the country.

[ANobleNerd]

buds:

Admummy:

If only the govt can allow some incentives to SAHM too...

Yah.. About that.. How come we don't have anything? :rant:

Nothing for us in government's budget?

It's sad that the Govt forget that SAHMs are also Singaporeans with the right to vote.

[SAHM_TAN]

ANobleNerd:

buds:

[quote=\"Admummy\"]If only the govt can allow some incentives to SAHM too...

Yah.. About that.. How come we don't have anything? :rant:

Nothing for us in government's budget?

It's sad that the Govt forget that SAHMs are also Singaporeans with the right to vote. [/quote]We have a very practical gvt, if not an issue will not address it