Children Suicide Cases

[Fairy]

cfan:

Sometimes, it might not be the parents not taking care of the child...


At certain stage of their life, friends play a very important part of a child's world.

So we must always pray hard that they meet good friends and meet mentors who will help.

Also, the computer games and TV shows nowadays have too much of a \"bad\" influence...

Fully agree with what you've written.

[LLK]

Fairy:

LLK:

Totally agree, we got to communicate with our kids and make sure they clearly know that we care, love and support them always. They can always speak with us if they face any problem in life. That wanbao also has a photo of that girl, a sweet, loving and smart looking girl. What's a waste...................

How would you react if your teens declare undying love for another girl/boy and tell you he/she only lives for the other party? As a parent, if you feel that your child is too young to be in a more than platonic one to one relationship which is affecting him/her in studies and all areas of life, would you still support his/her behaviour? Would you allow them to carry on the friendship or would you disallow any further development of the relationship? It's really not easy to handle such a situation.

It is indeed not easy to handle that kind of situation. Some teens of that age can be really hard to talk sense into. The issue here is that we got to do what we can to prevent them from doing silly things - like taking their own lives. Still, sometimes, say is easier than done.............

[corneyAmber]

LLK:

Totally agree, we got to communicate with our kids and make sure they clearly know that we care, love and support them always. They can always speak with us if they face any problem in life. That wanbao also has a photo of that girl, a sweet, loving and smart looking girl. What's a waste...................

So did they report studies issue or BGR?

[pinky]

ksi:

LLK:

Totally agree, we got to communicate with our kids and make sure they clearly know that we care, love and support them always. They can always speak with us if they face any problem in life. That wanbao also has a photo of that girl, a sweet, loving and smart looking girl. What's a waste...................

So did they report studies issue or BGR?

the papers reported as both issues

[corneyAmber]

pinky:

ksi:

[quote=\"LLK\"]Totally agree, we got to communicate with our kids and make sure they clearly know that we care, love and support them always. They can always speak with us if they face any problem in life. That wanbao also has a photo of that girl, a sweet, loving and smart looking girl. What's a waste...................

So did they report studies issue or BGR?

the papers reported as both issues[/quote]ic...still very :sad: so tough to bring up a child....

[phankao]

got weblink or not?

[Yerdua]

Hi all,


This is very sad, very sad. I do not know the student personally. My close friend had work together on some events with the student.

The family did not accept any interviews from the press. That article that came out on Wan Bao was derived from the journalist’s own network and he/she made conclusions based on his/her own deductions.

[LLK]

Yerdua:

Hi all,


This is very sad, very sad. I do not know the student personally. My close friend had work together on some events with the student.

The family did not accept any interviews from the press. That article that came out on Wan Bao was derived from the journalist's own network and he/she made conclusions based on his/her own deductions.

Any things else you know and willing to share? such as which JC and so on

[corneyAmber]

I cannot find any online report on this…so strange.

[Pen88n]

LLK:

Fairy:

How would you react if your teens declare undying love for another girl/boy and tell you he/she only lives for the other party? As a parent, if you feel that your child is too young to be in a more than platonic one to one relationship which is affecting him/her in studies and all areas of life, would you still support his/her behaviour? Would you allow them to carry on the friendship or would you disallow any further development of the relationship? It's really not easy to handle such a situation.

It is indeed not easy to handle that kind of situation. Some teens of that age can be really hard to talk sense into. The issue here is that we got to do what we can to prevent them from doing silly things - like taking their own lives. Still, sometimes, say is easier than done.............

It is time like this that will be dependent on how \"strong\" a relationship you have with your teen. You will need to talk to your teen that you understand how's that feeling at his / her age. It is alright that he / she feels the person is his / her whole world - assure them you have been thru' that too but subtly hint that their world is not only that person. However, also point out to them that the likelihood of being with the first being the last is also not an absolute thing - give examples of the people you both know, and their first is not their last. Discuss why this is so - people change, feelings change, discover unsuitability, etc. Tell him / her it is good to be open to have more friends - give examples of how friend can widen their exposure, social network etc. and how opposite sex can be good friends too. Talk to them about how to handle relationship.

All these topics need to be approached as subtly (more like a conversation) and split into many sessions to finally engage the teen to confide in you. Need to be managed properly and subtly.