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[Castle House]

Morning Mummies..


Just receive some feedback from my boss.. which is really affecting my mood now..

How do you mummies handled negative yet untrue comments? :sick:

[Champion]

Castle House:

Morning Mummies..


Just receive some feedback from my boss.. which is really affecting my mood now..

How do you mummies handled negative yet untrue comments? :sick:

Hi,
I can't remember where I took the following quote from but it is from one of the book I had read - let me go find it tonite and probably share with you all later.

It says - USE THIS AFFIRMATION WHENEVER YOU FEEL PRESSURED, ANGERED OR IRRITATED BY ANOTHER PERSON (BOSS )...

\"I DO NOT ALLOW ANYONE ELSE'S WORDS OR BEHAVIOR TO SPOIL MY DAY!\" :imanangel:

[genie23]

Castle House:

Morning Mummies..


Just receive some feedback from my boss.. which is really affecting my mood now..

How do you mummies handled negative yet untrue comments? :sick:

I find it helpful to talk to someone to get the anger out of my system. Sometimes, i then get ideas of how to handle it with the \"perpetrator\". Dont know how boss will take it - but if he/she is mature enough you could try saying how you feel directly to the person

[Tokidoki]

if possible, i will try to explain the situation to my boss. at least i know i did my part to justify my action if his comments are untrue. it may not changed anything but at least i know i stand up for myself.

[starlight1968sg]

Castle House:

Morning Mummies..


Just receive some feedback from my boss.. which is really affecting my mood now..

How do you mummies handled negative yet untrue comments? :sick:

This is very common for me, but still affects my mood.
I can only tell myself the comments are shit.
At times, I fight back to retain my sanity and dignity.
This is a dog eat dog world.

[Castle House]

Champion:

Castle House:

Morning Mummies..


Just receive some feedback from my boss.. which is really affecting my mood now..

How do you mummies handled negative yet untrue comments? :sick:

Hi,
I can't remember where I took the following quote from but it is from one of the book I had read - let me go find it tonite and probably share with you all later.

It says - USE THIS AFFIRMATION WHENEVER YOU FEEL PRESSURED, ANGERED OR IRRITATED BY ANOTHER PERSON (BOSS )...

\"I DO NOT ALLOW ANYONE ELSE'S WORDS OR BEHAVIOR TO SPOIL MY DAY!\" :imanangel:

Thank you.. I am perceive as a cheerful person in the office.. as per the quotes.. I will not allow anyone to spoil my day... but coming from the direct boss.. can be quite depressing.. sigh..

[Castle House]

genie23:

Castle House:

Morning Mummies..


Just receive some feedback from my boss.. which is really affecting my mood now..

How do you mummies handled negative yet untrue comments? :sick:

I find it helpful to talk to someone to get the anger out of my system. Sometimes, i then get ideas of how to handle it with the \"perpetrator\". Dont know how boss will take it - but if he/she is mature enough you could try saying how you feel directly to the person

As the comments were from my boss.. not possible for me to talk to anyone in the office.. except need to tahang till I am home and I will :rant: to hb..

[tigger88]

Welcome genie23!! :rahrah: :rahrah:

[Castle House]

ilynn:

if possible, i will try to explain the situation to my boss. at least i know i did my part to justify my action if his comments are untrue. it may not changed anything but at least i know i stand up for myself.

My boss is on the semi-retired mood le.. and can be quite stubborn of his own mind.. difficult.. :skeptical:

[Castle House]

starlight1968sg:

Castle House:

Morning Mummies..


Just receive some feedback from my boss.. which is really affecting my mood now..

How do you mummies handled negative yet untrue comments? :sick:

This is very common for me, but still affects my mood.
I can only tell myself the comments are shit.
At times, I fight back to retain my sanity and dignity.
This is a dog eat dog world.

Agree.. but after a few incidents.. I find it hard to get into his mind sometimes.. :frustrated: