Club SAHM

[SAHM_TAN]

terry:

kabalevsky:

[quote=\"terry\"]
buds is asking me what i do evday...i very shy to say leh :oops: ,sure kena stone here. Btw, im NOT a tai tai ok? i do my fair share of hsework even with maid. im juz very blessed in many ways. i will share next time.

won't be stoned lah... we'll just be very envious only. :laugh:

im blessed cos for ds1 the CL stayed with me for a yr to take care of him. when he turned 1yo i handover to my mum while i go out to work.

so even tho im a mummy,i really have no experience taking care of bb or toddler. i dun noe the hardship of nite feedings except the days when nanny need to return to msia for a sort while. imlucky to skip the initial period of taking care of a very young bb.

nw expecting ds2 and the CL not free to help me. so nw really [/quote]You are so fortunate, CL for a year. Mine was so popular, I could not get her for 2 months

[Kabby]

terry:

im blessed cos for ds1 the CL stayed with me for a yr to take care of him. when he turned 1yo i handover to my mum while i go out to work.

so even tho im a mummy,i really have no experience taking care of bb or toddler. i dun noe the hardship of nite feedings except the days when nanny need to return to msia for a sort while. imlucky to skip the initial period of taking care of a very young bb.

nw expecting ds2 and the CL not free to help me. so nw really

wow, your CL is a gem! such a good CL!

can understand, but don't worry. once thrown into it, you will get the hang of it. you can do it!

[SAHM_TAN]

kabalevsky:

terry:

im blessed cos for ds1 the CL stayed with me for a yr to take care of him. when he turned 1yo i handover to my mum while i go out to work.

so even tho im a mummy,i really have no experience taking care of bb or toddler. i dun noe the hardship of nite feedings except the days when nanny need to return to msia for a sort while. imlucky to skip the initial period of taking care of a very young bb.

nw expecting ds2 and the CL not free to help me. so nw really

wow, your CL is a gem! such a good CL!

can understand, but don't worry. once thrown into it, you will get the hang of it. you can do it!

It's not that difficult. Bbies are like us but in smaller package and more or less dependent on us. There's no mystery. Just be careful of the neck and attend the pre-natal class

[puff]

I think my CL is the worse nitemare. I ask her to leave after 2 weeks.

She cooked lunch then reheat it for dinner. My kitchen is in a mess when she is here. I decided to ask her to leave when she give me Campbell soup for dinner :mad: .During her stay my DH have to mop the kitchen floor after she cook , my kitchen floor is super oily n she claim she mop already.
At the end my mom have to cook for me n DH take over bb duty.

[SAHM_TAN]

puff:

I think my CL is the worse nitemare. I ask her to leave after 2 weeks.

She cooked lunch then reheat it for dinner. My kitchen is in a mess when she is here. I decided to ask her to leave when she give me Campbell soup for dinner :mad: .During her stay my DH have to mop the kitchen floor after she cook , my kitchen floor is super oily n she claim she mop already.
At the end my mom have to cook for me n DH take over bb duty.

Wow CL from hell. Does she know how to take care of just delivered mothers or not? Campbell soup? I have nice CL for DS and DD2. But my DD2 2nd CL was :slapshead: so I asked her to leave after 3 days. My DD2 first CL couldn't stay another month. She was the best.

[terry]

thks all for the encouragement :hugs:


i seriously dun noe if i can do it. im afraid i cannot wake up at nite or last the whole day with little rest. really no confidence..smtimes will ask myself y look for trouble.
altho i have a maid, but still cant trust them with young bbs/child.

one step at a time. praying ev nite for strength and faith.

[SAHM_TAN]

terry:

thks all for the encouragement :hugs:


i seriously dun noe if i can do it. im afraid i cannot wake up at nite or last the whole day with little rest. really no confidence..smtimes will ask myself y look for trouble.
altho i have a maid, but still cant trust them with young bbs/child.

one step at a time. praying ev nite for strength and faith.

You are noting going to get CL?

[terry]

SAHM_TAN,

i alrdy got new CL,but hoping for help till 2nd mth at least…thg is, i dun noe if this one is gd or not. cos me alone with her and bb. hb work mostly overseas. ds1 and maid deploy to mum’s plc during my confinement cos ds1 super active. am afraid will not enuff rest cos i wanna try bfg. also will have c-section so take longer time to recover.

impt for me to recuperate this round cos age catching up. if dun do confinement properly,next time old liao will suffer. oso wana take tis 2nd chance to learn hw to take care of bb by myself…cannot be so nuah anymre.

[SAHM_TAN]

terry:

SAHM_TAN,

i alrdy got new CL,but hoping for help till 2nd mth at least..thg is, i dun noe if this one is gd or not. cos me alone with her and bb. hb work mostly overseas. ds1 and maid deploy to mum's plc during my confinement cos ds1 super active. am afraid will not enuff rest cos i wanna try bfg. also will have c-section so take longer time to recover.

impt for me to recuperate this round cos age catching up. if dun do confinement properly,next time old liao will suffer. oso wana take tis 2nd chance to learn hw to take care of bb by myself..cannot be so nuah anymre.

You can do it. My DD2 CL was very good and helped me to recuperate. I had rosy cheeks :lol:

So you planning not to bathe and wash hands with boiled water only?

[buds]

LOLMum:

buds:

[quote=\"cwc\"]ha ha .... i only know a few dishes/recipes....but becos of the 'add some this, add some that, no precise amts' ..... my dishes has lotsa permutations and each time taste differently horrible :faint:

You cracked me up! :laugh:

This sounds hilarious! :rotflmao:

I'm sure you're exaggerating... can't be that bad bah.. :nailbite:

oh, i believe her because this is happening to me too. been cooking for more than a year but it is very bad. sometimes have to throw the whole batch away and cook again. i can do good housekeeping, iron and wash well but cooking :sad: :sad: :sad:

observing a one minute of silence at the dining table is pretty common in my household. [/quote]Now \"YOU\" are cracking me up and all over, LOLMum! :rotflmao: