Growing apart

[sleepy]

Chenonceau:

sleepy:

Interestingly, he doesn't express his love using his own languages. He expresses his love by 'act of service' so he does a fair bit of house chores voluntarily. Erh, still accetable la, that means I've less chores to do at home :evil:

Hey... that's like us!! I think I have an easier time. All I have to do is open my mouth and say \"I'm so glad you're by hubby\" or other soppy stuff. He actually has to DO stuff for me. But well... I ain't complaining. Nope nope... not complaining.

:celebrate:

[BeContented]

Have been having some health issues and also under monitoring of my multiple growing fibroids.....recently, DH's colleague had to undergo an urgent womb removal due to huge fibroids....he became worried & urged me to quickly go for my half-yearly review.


Did the womb review & called him to report that it's stable (growing slowly) and can opt not to do womb removal yet.....review 6mths later. Also, blood test for some markers was OK (had a lump at neck, giddy spells etc)......

We didn't speak much that night & after a long day, I slept early while DH went out @8pm for a long cycling exercise. ~1+am, he came home, I was dead asleep. All sweaty, he came & held my hands and said \"You know, I'm very happy everything OK\". I could barely open my eyes.....saw him still in his biking attire, \"oh\" him and drop back to sleep immediately. The next day, I recalled the whole incident.....only then I realised he was referring to my health status.....well, he doesn't express or say much most of the time, but in times like this, I know he cares and it sure feels good :love:

[kiddo]

cwc:

Have been having some health issues and also under monitoring of my multiple growing fibroids.....recently,


I slept early while DH went out @8pm for a long cycling exercise. ~1+am, he came home, I was dead asleep. All sweaty, he came & held my hands and said \"You know, I'm very happy everything OK\". I could barely open my eyes.....saw him still in his biking attire, \"oh\" him and drop back to sleep immediately. The next day, I recalled the whole incident.....only then I realised he was referring to my health status.....well, he doesn't express or say much most of the time, but in times like this, I know he cares and it sure feels good :love:

TAKE CARE cwc - in time like this nothing warmed like a spouse love :hi5:

[BeContented]

kiddo:

cwc:

Have been having some health issues and also under monitoring of my multiple growing fibroids.....recently,


I slept early while DH went out @8pm for a long cycling exercise. ~1+am, he came home, I was dead asleep. All sweaty, he came & held my hands and said \"You know, I'm very happy everything OK\". I could barely open my eyes.....saw him still in his biking attire, \"oh\" him and drop back to sleep immediately. The next day, I recalled the whole incident.....only then I realised he was referring to my health status.....well, he doesn't express or say much most of the time, but in times like this, I know he cares and it sure feels good :love:

TAKE CARE cwc - in time like this nothing warmed like a spouse love :hi5:

Thanks. Will take care....would want to see my kids to University (wah, another 15 years...gosh). And yes, our spouse will be for life, so all of us should try to keep the fire alive so that when our kids are gone, our spouse would still be holding OUR hands & not mistress's hands

A song which I like by 赵咏华 - 最浪漫的事. Enjoy the lyrics......
我能想到最浪漫的事， 就是和你一起慢慢变老，
直到我们老到哪儿也去不了， 你还依然把我当成手心里的宝。
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VwuAWnACS8

[Champion]

cwc:

kiddo:

[quote=\"cwc\"]Have been having some health issues and also under monitoring of my multiple growing fibroids.....recently,


I slept early while DH went out @8pm for a long cycling exercise. ~1+am, he came home, I was dead asleep. All sweaty, he came & held my hands and said \"You know, I'm very happy everything OK\". I could barely open my eyes.....saw him still in his biking attire, \"oh\" him and drop back to sleep immediately. The next day, I recalled the whole incident.....only then I realised he was referring to my health status.....well, he doesn't express or say much most of the time, but in times like this, I know he cares and it sure feels good :love:

TAKE CARE cwc - in time like this nothing warmed like a spouse love :hi5:

Hello, my dear friend,
:imsorry: have not been able to catch up with many threads for quite sometimes...How are you, my dear friend? I sincerely pray & hope that you are getting beta and do drop me a note if you want to talk, ok?
:grphug:

Thanks. Will take care....would want to see my kids to University (wah, another 15 years...gosh). And yes, our spouse will be for life, so all of us should try to keep the fire alive so that when our kids are gone, our spouse would still be holding OUR hands & not mistress's hands

A song which I like by 赵咏华 - 最浪漫的事. Enjoy the lyrics......
我能想到最浪漫的事， 就是和你一起慢慢变老，
直到我们老到哪儿也去不了， 你还依然把我当成手心里的宝。
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VwuAWnACS8[/quote]

[BeContented]

Champion:

Hello, my dear friend,
:imsorry: have not been able to catch up with many threads for quite sometimes...How are you, my dear friend? I sincerely pray & hope that you are getting beta and do drop me a note if you want to talk, ok?
:grphug:

Hi Champion,
thanks for the concern. Emailed you

[kiddo]

cwc:

Thanks. Will take care....would want to see my kids to University (wah, another 15 years...gosh) And yes, our spouse will be for life, so all of us should try to keep the fire alive so that when our kids are gone, our spouse would still be holding OUR hands

A song which I like by 赵咏华 - 最浪漫的事. Enjoy the lyrics......
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VwuAWnACS8

wah you so Romantic :love:

我能想到最浪漫的事
就是和你一起慢慢变老
一路上收藏点点滴滴的欢笑
留到以后坐着摇椅慢慢聊
我能想到最浪漫的事
就是和你一起慢慢变老
直到我们老的哪儿也去不了

Like DH say by then I am too old
to hold others hand dear just yours :hi5:

[Champion]

kiddo:

Like DH say by then I am too old
to hold others hand dear just yours :hi5:

kiddo :hi5: ,
Tell your DH - it never too old for both you to do anything & everything together!

[kiddo]

Champion:

kiddo:

Like DH say by then I am too old
to hold others hand dear just yours :hi5:

kiddo :hi5: ,
Tell your DH - it never too old for both you to do anything & everything together!

Champ U so sweet :love:

cwc Good Morning

[BeContented]

kiddo:

Champion:

[quote=\"kiddo\"]
Like DH say by then I am too old
to hold others hand dear just yours :hi5:

kiddo :hi5: ,
Tell your DH - it never too old for both you to do anything & everything together!

Champ U so sweet :love:

cwc Good Morning[/quote]Afternoon to all
Yah, as long as still love each other, never too old to do things together, just limited by the type of activities That's why need to stay connected so that you have same memories & experiences to chat about when old.

Since early days with DH, I have already been watching how some old couples behave.....I dread the day when HE walks ahead while ME lag behind. My own parents are one such example.....think they love each other, but along the way grown apart, no longer able to have a proper 10mins chat before they start passing remarks to each other. Sad to see that :sad: I dun want to end up like that, that's why the lyrics struck a chord in me. My own PILs ... worse. Whenever I see old couple still holding hands, treating each other respectfully and gently, it brings a smile to me.

But looking at the trend, sometimes can't help getting worried. While holding my hands, will they be holding someone else curvy waist? That's why I rather not be rich, see too many old men with their hands over those young things. Just heard of another couple in 60s with grandchild divorced cos the old man found himself a young china woman :mad: