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[jedamum]

sleepy:

No date night la. Have tibits or biscuits in front of TV after kids are asleep.


We only 'date' in between kids' enrichment classes eg. drink coffee & chit chat while waiting for their classes to end

talk about chit chat. what you couples chat about huh? we have nothing to chat about! whahahaha....nothing much except children stuff and maybe bring up some embarassing stuff we used to do when young. we don't discuss shows (he dont watch) or current affairs (i dont watch!)!

[jedamum]

terry:

date nite:

for me and dh we go to the movies once my mum can bbsit ds1 with maid. when #2 arrive, then no mre date nite liao.
once my dh did bring me to Clarke quay one of the new restaurants/cafes. i gotta remind myself NOT to talk abt kids stuff.

we dont go movies after marriage cos he said he used to go with me is just to humour me! lolz. i dont watch his genre of shows and vice versa.
we did want to go town area, but he said want to drink so dont wanna drive. then i lazy don't want to take public transport (crowded, far etc), so we went somewhere nearby har or some place that he dont get to drink but i get to drink a bit! lolz.

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kabalevsky:

sleepy:

No date night la. Have tibits or biscuits in front of TV after kids are asleep.


We only 'date' in between kids' enrichment classes eg. drink coffee & chit chat while waiting for their classes to end

oh! so that's why you all like sending them to enrichment! ahhh, now i know... :evil:

Hee hee.....actually, I enjoy & look forward to my weekend dates with DH while waiting for kids classes to end. When I had to change one of them to weekday, I was quite sad.

As for weekdays, we will sometimes watch DVDs and have some snacks while the kids are asleep.

[terry]

reading thru the posts and recalling gd intentioned advice frm frends, i supposed i shd be making mre of an effort to rekindle the romance in my r'ship.


but u noe what, deep deep inside my heart, all i want is to be with my babies. my hb is a source of distraction and responsibility that i smtimes resent. i wanna dress the way i like, look the way i want, plan the day as i please WITHOUT any body judging me. Bcos,like what my ds1 tells me all the time, to him, i am the prettiest and best mommy in the whole wide world! that, ppl, is true appreciation!

oops..there u go, i said it.. :rahrah:

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jedamum:

sleepy:

No date night la. Have tibits or biscuits in front of TV after kids are asleep.


We only 'date' in between kids' enrichment classes eg. drink coffee & chit chat while waiting for their classes to end

talk about chit chat. what you couples chat about huh? we have nothing to chat about! whahahaha....nothing much except children stuff and maybe bring up some embarassing stuff we used to do when young. we don't discuss shows (he dont watch) or current affairs (i dont watch!)!

Hmmmmm......we talk about the kids, food, gossipy stuff, his work, holiday plans, make-up plans for the home (ours is rather old liao becos living in FIL's) and oh yes, we fight as well

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jedamum:

talk about chit chat. what you couples chat about huh? we have nothing to chat about! whahahaha....nothing much except children stuff and maybe bring up some embarassing stuff we used to do when young. we don't discuss shows (he dont watch) or current affairs (i dont watch!)!

I also curious, sometimes I find myself nothing much to chat too.....cos' DH man of few words. But recently, when we were in a group and he started giving his views about GE and education system, I was full of admiration for him :love: ..
Tho we never discuss such serious stuff, I'm glad we hold the same views about such important stuff

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cwc:

jedamum:

talk about chit chat. what you couples chat about huh? we have nothing to chat about! whahahaha....nothing much except children stuff and maybe bring up some embarassing stuff we used to do when young. we don't discuss shows (he dont watch) or current affairs (i dont watch!)!

I also curious, sometimes I find myself nothing much to chat too.....cos' DH man of few words. But recently, when we were in a group and he started giving his views about GE and education system, I was full of admiration for him :love: ..
Tho we never discuss such serious stuff, I'm glad we hold the same views about such important stuff

So sweet

[auntieM]

Hi all,

My DH is a serious wood at work but at home more relac..
We will talk about anything under the sun.. ..Me updating him on local stuff mainly.. ..
After 20+ years together I guess we are just 'used' to each other liao.. ..

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SAHM_TAN:

cwc:

[quote=\"jedamum\"]
talk about chit chat. what you couples chat about huh? we have nothing to chat about! whahahaha....nothing much except children stuff and maybe bring up some embarassing stuff we used to do when young. we don't discuss shows (he dont watch) or current affairs (i dont watch!)!

I also curious, sometimes I find myself nothing much to chat too.....cos' DH man of few words. But recently, when we were in a group and he started giving his views about GE and education system, I was full of admiration for him :love: ..
Tho we never discuss such serious stuff, I'm glad we hold the same views about such important stuff

So sweet[/quote]Once read somewhere about breakup/divorce ..... the reasons that couples cite for the cause of breakup/divorce are very often the same reasons they were attracted to each other in the first place. How true do you find that?

I chose DH cos' man of few words, won't go 'xian' other women, also loves family. But during difficult times, I am pissed that he does not talk to me and also side his family. But as our relationship improved, again feel good about his few but golden words and seeing the tenderness he shows to his ailing parent, again I think I'm fortunate that he is one who loves his family cos' I'm sure he will treat me the same way in future (i hope )