Club 2009 Kiddo

[Castle House]

Pal… I don’t have a helper… never wanted one…


From the scenario you have quoted, I will beat the hand if I ever see that she beat people… regardless of who… and everytime… she does that… I will beat her hand… till she recognise that…

As for helper beating her back… that will be No… No… family members are ok… even some also will not allow the family membes to touch the kid…

Just tell the helper… don’t do that… you (mummyy/daddy) will be the one to discipline the kid… instead…

[RanRan]

understand!really not easy for a working mom to handle all these!!:(


but if dun discipline immediately,it will nt be much use to do it after tt rite?

[Castle House]

ya true… the impact will not be greater if not disciplines immediately… but disciplined… can only be by the parents… not the helper…

[RanRan]

i think it will confuse e child also right?to have many different ppl discipline him/her?

[Castle House]

Yes… and think more importantly… I won’t allow the helper to discipline my kid…

[MintyMin]

Yes.. usually i will smack her if i c her do tat.. i reprimand her sternly.. she's the nottiest one.. :slapshead:


I did tell her b4, tat she is not suppose to discipline my kids.. only allow to tell them not to do if we not ard, n let us noe n we discipline them.. tat was last mth.. now again it happened.. sigh..

[Castle House]

Then reprimand both…

[MintyMin]

Sigh… going to do it tonight…

[Castle House]

Take it easy… pat

[MintyMin]

Castle House:

Take it easy.. *pat*

Den after tat DH will say i fierce.. :rant:

Super sian to deal wif maids.. hw i wish i can do w/o one..

Pal.. u say u got no helper.. den who do hsewrk?