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[BeContented]

ectanz:

Angelight:

hi mummies, you all very blessed, have more than one kid! DD recently asked me for a mei mei. I told her to pray to the 'big man' up there (God), and she really cupped her hands together, looked up to the sky and prayed!

Angelight, 加油 :rahrah: My initially plan was juz to hv one child due to work commitment. When my dd1 was around 3yrs old n pestering us to hv a sibling. I hv tried for nearly 3 yrs n finally god blessed me with another child when I was almost 40yrs old...

Good that it's a blessing :love:
If I am to kena one now, I would think god must be joking with me
dun think I can go through the whole process again

[autumnbronze]

cwc:

autumnbronze:

cwc, chanced upon your post here .....

:salute: and :hugs: to you ....

Hi Autumnbronze,
thanks.....but sometimes, feel really really :gloomy: , the MIL is no joke and neither is FIL. Recently, he has turned bad tempered, would shove his plates/bowl/food and spit his phelgm everywhere or onto his hand and just fling!!! I really dunno how much can I tolerate and MIL is just making things worse with her yells and scoldings (can't touch me too much....so she'll go after the maid loh....but I get angry cos' I think she's being ridiculous and I can't stand all the yellings. For goodness sake, this is my home, it's supposed to be quiet and peaceful :mad: :stompfeet:
Sorry, guess a little off topic and upset now....cos' just had another encounter with her....no matter how happy I was, step into house will get fedup.

How is your little one? Actually just went to a 1-month celebration of a friend.....holding a baby is always so peaceful (that is when they are sleeping ).

Hi cwc,

Sorry didn't reply for so long.

DS2 been very ill and was hospitalized. So have been tending to him.

I really sympathize with your predicament. But at the same time, have utmost respect towards you for handling the situation that you are in to the best of your ability :salute:

Some positive dust being sent in your way now :hugs: :hugs:

I do not face any major issues with ILs but I do face major ones with my mom and sister. It's like the roles have been reversed, ironically. Sometimes I wonder whether I was swopped or perhaps I was tagged incorrectly at the hospital because I am so different from my family in terms of outlook towards life etc ....

I do hope you will find some measure of peace really soon.

DS2 is a joy to have, very guai After so many miscarriages before and after DS1, I have been blessed with another miracle

Thanks for asking and :hugs: once again.

[puff]

Wat happen to your ds2 hope he is getting better now :hugs:

Looking after kid who r sick is really tiring please do take care of yourself too. :hugs:

[BeContented]

Hi Autumnbronze,


How is your DS2 now? Hope he is better. Do take good care of yourself as your family will need you.

For me, things are a lot easier now (not very nice to say so tho :oops: )
FIL fell ill and was hospitalized and then he was diagnosed with terminal stage of cancer. From there, things progressed really fast and within 2.5 months, FIL passed away. Tho furious with him previously, my anger just disappeared.....to watch him suffer at the last stage was kinda sad still. Fortunately, in his final days in hospital, with proper medical care he was in a lot lesser pain and passed away very peacefully. After that, we let the maid go too. Guess with 2 sets of problem gone, it's pretty peaceful now. (hope dun get struck by lightning for saying such things :lightrod:

Please do take care and hope your DS2 is better now.

[LLX04]

Hi Autumnbronze,


Read about ur amazing child-bearing blog and really admire u for being so strong and courageous. Hope ur ds2 gets better soon!

[autumnbronze]

LLX04:

Hi Autumnbronze,


Read about ur amazing child-bearing blog and really admire u for being so strong and courageous. Hope ur ds2 gets better soon!

:thankyou: LLX04. :oops: :oops:

[Kabby]

yes autumnbronze, your birth story was very gripping and amazing!


how old is your ds2 now? hope he is much better!

[autumnbronze]

kabalevsky:

yes autumnbronze, your birth story was very gripping and amazing!


how old is your ds2 now? hope he is much better!

:thankyou: kabby for your well wishes.

My DS2 was barely 4 and a half weeks when he was admitted to the hospital. It was a trying time for me as DH was away.

I was really upset because he was subjected to invasive tests and the doctor was not open to alternatives. More concerned with SOPs more than anything else. This was a first for me as DS1 has never been hospitalized *touch wood*.

When I have the time, I will blog about it, especially highlighting the alternatives to invasive testing.

[Kabby]

oh dear! that sounds really tough indeed! for both you, and your sons!


was this hospital the big big one? if so, then ya, I’d experienced their SOPs too, ugh! very inflexible!

how old is your ds2 now? hope everything’s getting better now!

[autumnbronze]

kabalevsky:

oh dear! that sounds really tough indeed! for both you, and your sons!


was this hospital the big big one? if so, then ya, I'd experienced their SOPs too, ugh! very inflexible!

how old is your ds2 now? hope everything's getting better now!

Hi kabby,

He's turning 3 mths in 2 weeks. He is much better now. Gaining weight slowly but surely