What to do when your child asks for enrichment classes?

[shuting28]

Hi, think you are not alone


I have a girl same age as yours and she too will ask for enrichment lessons! Hmm I have the same mentality as the other 2, if it is managable then why not.

She is currently in a 3 hourly pre-school and so when the school started a series of extra lessons, she was over-joyed! Since it just 1 hour after her normal lessons, I enrolled her for those that she asked for. (after we had discuss what is suitable ) She doesn’t feel pressurized but seems to be enjoying herself! However, I would tend to reserve weekends free for family day (for the dad and family gatherings)

But I do agreed on the point that they can't be given everything that is asked for and there needs to do compromising sometimes. Nothing in this world comes free :lol:

[breguet]

Hi All, my son hates all classes, including school . He just wants to learn and do things by himself. He's cheap to upkeep I suppose, but Mummy over here wants some personal time. Before I read this thread, I thought all kids didn't like classes, but this has opened my eyes. What to do? :lol: A case of too bad lah!

[nicsmom]

mine is asking for art classes but we really dont have the time.

now looking ard to look for those that will fit.

[tamarind]

I think it is good that the child shows interest in learning so many things. If the parents have enough financial resources to pay for all those classes, then why not ?


But for parents like me, who have limited financial resources, and no time to bring the kids around, I prefer to DIY.

I saw a baking class which teach kids to bake cupcakes or cookies. One session of 2 hours cost $80 ! I bought my own baking equipment like oven, electric mixer, weighing scale, etc. Total less than $250. I have been teaching my kids to bake cupcakes and cookies since they were 3 years old. We have baked about 10 - 20 times now. Check out my blog.

http://tamarindvillage.blogspot.com/2007/09/cupcakes.html

Earlier this year I also saw a class which teach older kids to be entrepreneurs, it costs over $100 for a half day course. I decided to teach my girl the process of making, selling. Check this out.

http://tamarindvillage.blogspot.com/2008/02/chloes-young-entrepreneur.html

My hubby is giving them elementary Maths & Science lessons, from maths (Pascal's triangle, concept of infinity), astronomy (e.g. the earth is a big globe, land looks flat only because it's a BIG globe; planets of the solar system: their names in sequence, whether rocky or gas giants, whether cold/hot depending on distance from the sun), to biology (e.g. observe and draw parts of a flower's boy- and girl-parts, flower -> fruits -> dissemination of seeds) and even chemistry (e.g. concept of atoms & molecules, 3 states of water: ice, liquid, steam/vapour).

We really save a lot of money !

[poohcutie]

red_ryder:

I try to limit to 2 enrichment classes, so as not to tire out the kid and leave time for free play.



Anyone else in such a dilemna?

hi
same situation as u.
My gal is 5 this yr. Currently doing her dancing class on sat and 3 other enrichment classes over the weekends.
jst few days ago, she requests for fencing lesson
Others may think that im the one forcing her for all these!

:oops:

[mom2boys]

suddenly has this question - does boys and gals reacts differently with regards to enrichments courses? need some feedback on this.


does gals usually will request parents to bring them to class like drawing, swimming etc?

i was asking my 4yr old boy ‘would he like to learn tekwando?’ he responded ’ ok lor’…then ‘hmmm…dun wan lah’…
then I pop another question ’ would you like to go for drawing class or music lesson?’ he responded ’ i want both…’ in a cheeky way…so make me wonder should i or should i not send him to these classes…worried in the end, he doesn’t like it. waste the $$ and time…

[jedamum]

mom2boys:

suddenly has this question - does boys and gals reacts differently with regards to enrichments courses? need some feedback on this.

My elder son never requested for any enrichment.
I have to be the one to initiate and ensure that he goes through it before deciding if it is appropriate and if he truly enjoys the lesson.

[Luanee]

My 6 yr old girl requested for ballet, drawing and cooking classes... quite good in the sense that whenever she misbehaves or not practise her spelling, I would threaten to cancel her ballet class and she will obey quickly...

[ChiefKiasu]

Luanee:

My 6 yr old girl requested for ballet, drawing and cooking classes... quite good in the sense that whenever she misbehaves or not practise her spelling, I would threaten to cancel her ballet class and she will obey quickly...

Good for you. That means she really likes the class! Money will be well spent.

[nat_mom]

I agree that it's ok for them to have more than 2 enrichment classes at this age, esp if they are the ones asking for it. My gal is attending abacus on Mon, phonics on Wed, ballet on Thur, piano and Chinese on Sat, drawing and swimming on Sun. Other than piano, the rest were requested by her. She looks forward to all her lessons. She had requested for me to look for science enrichment too...but told her i do not want to overload her with another class on Sat, 2 is enough as we could have bonding time after that. Am planning to stop all except piano and Chinese when she goes P1 next year. But usually she has such gd rapport with the teachers that she does not want to withdraw. Had initially wanted to stop her phonics in Jun, but she will reason with me that what Teacher Rosie is teaching is different from what she learns in her pre-school and she wants to learn that so that she can be a better reader :? Spoke to her for quite a while and she finally agrees to stop abacus, phonics come year end