Anyone know any good Child Psychologist ?

[kitty2]

2ppaamm:

kitty2:

Is there any good Psychologist for teenagers?My friend's son has problem too after going to JC.He has a few pimples on his face but he can't take it that his face has them.He'll look at the mirrior very frequently and even asked his mum send him for facial,specialist or other treatments.His mum did and spent a bomb on his face but didn't help.Due to his pimples,he failed his JC1 and need to retain.Lately,he even want to commit sucide as he can't a solution for his pimples.


He's from a boy school and is very keen to have a girlfriend.He said due to his pimples,none of the girls like him.

Anyone can help?My friend's going crazy !!!!!

Thanks

Sorry har, kitty2, I just have to show your post to my son who is of the same age. He commented something I think is quite true. He said this is a first world problem, if the boy is in Somolia, he will be fighting for survival and not worry about this.

Hm... it sounds funny and 幸灾乐祸, but I think there is some truth in it. I can guess that your friend is probably from at least middle class, or the child has nothing to worry in life except his studies and himself, expecting his family to sacrifice everything they have for him. Perhaps too 'free'. If he were my son, I'd get him a job at Ikea, take away his pocket money, and then go and pay for the facial himself.

Yet again, this story is not new to me. I have a beautician friend who told me of a customer who would be there for facial everyday, and has gone for numerous plastic surgery. She is never happy with the way she looks. We thought she did not need a beautician or a cosmetic surgeon, she needs psychological help, and yes, she is too free. If she were working in the farm, perhaps she will have less time to look into the mirror.

There again, a suicide threat is never to be taken lightly.

Thanks for your reply.My friend's not well off,she's a very poor thing.Her husb's not working and she has to support the whole family.She doesn't earn alot as to please his son and hope he'll recover,she paid for the facial.His son's still not contented!!!!Everyday,will the parents,he wants to commit sucide.He even cried over his pimples!!!!My friend is afraid that he may commit sucide and have no peaceful sleep at night but her son's sleeping well.She wonders whether is he threatening her?

She's really very stress up and going crazy!!!!

[Littlefly]

Deminc, 2ppaamm: Thanks for the advises. Actually i can share only what i heard. I believe my bro would not come to me if he’s not very desperate. Its not a glorious thing about his boy so he did not share alot with me as well.


The obstacle now is getting his son to agree to seek professional help.

They actually tried reading up and research for ways. One of which includes hypnosis treatment but my nephew refused to try.

Absolutely agree that his parents need counselling too.

[2ppaamm]

Sounds like this 药家鑫 is suffering some kind of OCD and/or dysmorphophobia. Could he be trying so hard to protect his ‘perfect’ image that he panicked and that drove him to murder someone he knocked down? Sad…

[CHICC Profiling]

Are you able to obtain this chinese boy’s date of birth?

[CHICC Profiling]

OK, from what I can see (I am not the master so I cannot give you the best analysis), this guy has dual personality. Can be a very successful person, but can also be very greedy. Likely to be lonely at old age. Has suicidal tendencies or may die from unnatural death. Reason is to due to personal reasons (relationship, business or career). Always busy and always stressed out. Business or career looks good only on the outside. He has what is called the ‘lao2 lu4’ ming (very busy life).


His numbers belong to the special numbers that we discuss during class.

Anyway, in China, when you hurt someone in a traffic accident, the guilty party has to be responsible for the other party’s medical bills. That’s why many a times, people resort to simply killing the injured party to save on these potentially sky high bills. Something is really seriously wrong …

In conclusion, his behavior is in line with what can be seen from his numbers.

[CHICC Profiling]

Hi Insider


Thanks for the date of birth and the various articles. I think we have gone a bit off topic here, for this thread! But yes, hope you can find the other DOB. We have many many DOB of various criminals, including the infamous "Adrian Lim", suicidal cases of celebrities, the numbers really can reveal a certain pattern. If we can detect early, tragedies possibly can be prevented.

[CHICC Profiling]

Hi Insider


Getting interesting discussing with you on this. Erm, if suicidal tendencies are revealed in numbers, that’s more prominent. Some numbers may also reveal being over-pressured in their childhood etc, or by environment, so if this is revealed to the parents/care-givers, things can be changed and situation improved.

Parents who cannot practice self-restraint? We have to highlight to them their weakness so they can improve. Or learn the right language/conflict management to work with the children. Again, things can be improved.

Your combination of numbers with parents, we also have compatibility analysis to derive the resultant numbers and the relationship between the parties. Again, from the revealed numbers, actions/strategies can be taken to negate tragedies.

[2ppaamm]

insider:

If one of my three kids has 'suicidal number', they are likely to be 'neutralised' by my positive outlook of life when my motto is 'Life is Beautiful!' instead of maybe facing a mummy who always sulks about life is difficult...)

I like this. We must all be positive and look forward to the best if we want to positively influence our kids.

[2ppaamm]

Ha ha, this thread is discussing psychological issues and counting lives, reminds me of a stupid movie I watched called "Shelter". Gives me the creeps.

[CHICC Profiling]

Hi insider


You are very right. A positive mindset is always the best. Although sometimes it may not be sufficient to help a suicidal kid who portrays no signs to the public that he needs help.

Popular actor and actress like Leslie Chung, the female South Korean actress who committed suicide, they were very successful and famous. Anyone knows of their suicidal tendencies ? Maybe nobody, but their numbers reveal these traits.

I am not trying to be creepy here, but all these profiling just prove numbers can tell a story. It’s no different from choosing a good date for marriage, starting a business, having a c-section birth. Why do people do all these? Because the date matters. Numbers matter.

Anyway, here at CHICC we are not focusing on all these suicidal traits. We are trying to determine the child’s inborn character and sharing with parents how best they can go about enhancing the child’s potential.

Please come by our monthly workshops and learn and hear for yourself. It will be impossible for me to do justice in explaining the full picture and methodology here. Thank you all for reading.