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    Do you cane your daughters when they misbehave?

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      margarita87
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      I dont think it’s an good idea to cane your children… this shouldnt be the right way to educate them to be a better person, it’s best that we parents do not resort to cannings, for the first few times maybe they’ll be afraid but as they grow older they will be very immune to the punishment and it is not gona help… so instead of doing it for their own good, they will turn against you … Best solution is to talk to them and spend time understanding the problem.

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        Ichigokun
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        -- I usually get caned by my mom for simply using the computer to play games ANY TIME. EVEN DURING THE HOLS --

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          Ichigokun
          last edited by

          But I can see after entering 12 years old, the caning kinda dropped to only once in 7 or 8 months. 😂


          ALTHOUGH I STILL USE AS MUCH COMPUTER AS BEFORE.

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            janice75
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            2ppaamm:
            Hit her on her buttocks. She has to prone on the bed and cannot resist. Otherwise, I will increase. That's why, after 21 times, she said, \"Mama, can you wait a while, it is very painful, I need a break.\"


            Quite poor thing, hor? If I don't teach her, who will?
            poor thing.. so what was her buttocks like after the 26 strokes? can she sit properly?

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              janice75
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              Do thick or thin canes cause hurt more?

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                concern2
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                24hr-mum:
                my boy is different. tho he scared of cane, he still does the thing i dislike,, after being caned....i guess boys are more rebellious

                Maybe the strokes were not painful enuf 😆

                My boy had been spared the rod - never had one till my DD was 3 yr old - so you know who is the naughty one. :sad: These days, the quality of canes are also not so good - the first one we bought was a joke. DH was waving it in the air, pretending to make a hit when it broke in mid-air, making us all laugh till our stomach ached. We never had another one till about a year later when we went to Melaka. They have really thick canes, and more variety to choose from 😉 They see the cane they :siam:

                But seriously, 24hr-mum, girls can be just as rebellious. You can't believe how defiant they could get... :faint:

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                  MrBig
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                  janice75:
                  Do thick or thin canes cause hurt more?

                  THIN CANES HURT MORE~!!
                  pls proceed cautiiously

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                    concern2
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                    MrBig:
                    janice75:

                    Do thick or thin canes cause hurt more?


                    THIN CANES HURT MORE~!!
                    pls proceed cautiiously

                    Ok, just hit my thigh with both. Same, actually, if applied same strength. But the thick one has more power, so if you hit harder with it, it is likely to cause more harm.

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                      Ichigokun
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                      One of the most painful places to whack with the cane is the knuckle, the other is the fingernail.


                      But seriously, don’t whack those places unless you are a sadist waiting to abuse some children XD

                      Make sure not to whack those places or it will cause you throbbing pain.

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                        concern2
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                        Ichigokun:
                        One of the most painful places to whack with the cane is the knuckle, the other is the fingernail.


                        But seriously, don't whack those places unless you are a sadist waiting to abuse some children XD

                        Make sure not to whack those places or it will cause you throbbing pain.

                        IIuu! Na, not such a sadist. Always ask the kids to 'move those hands away'!! before the whack comes down on their buttocks.

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