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    Club 2006 Kids

    Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Clubs for parents with similar age children
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      LadyInBlack
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      Ooh smartmummy and jedamum, you have a 2002 boy too…just like me…and yes I too am facing real attitude issues! Ive got a 2003 boy as well…day in day out its a real challenge handling all of their issues…okay Im just not feeling too well emotionally and physically so feeling more negative today!

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        smartmummy
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        jedamum:
        smartmummy:

        Now in p4, his behaviors has changed ,talk back. Now his study interest got low level.when he was small I hd the cane and explained otherwise I cannot caught his attention. .


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        smartmummy,
        maybe you can shift this part to 2002 discussion. my boy this year in P4 also started to 'talk back'. it is a new ballgame to try to handle his behaviour. i am guessing if it is because they are now 1 more step closer to being a teenager.

        Ok will continue in club 2002!

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          smartmummy
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          Welcome back wcw!

          Waiting for crystal!

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            KS parents
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            LadyInBlack:
            Ooh smartmummy and jedamum, you have a 2002 boy too..just like me...and yes I too am facing real attitude issues! Ive got a 2003 boy as well...day in day out its a real challenge handling all of their issues..okay Im just not feeling too well emotionally and physically so feeling more negative today!

            Hello, LadyinBlack..hope you feeling better after lunch. Welcome to the family of Club2006.

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              KS parents
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              Wat is ADHD??

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                Champion
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                KS parents:
                Wat is ADHD??

                http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0002518/

                ADHD is a problem with inattentiveness, over-activity, impulsivity, or a combination. For these problems to be diagnosed as ADHD, they must be out of the normal range for a child's age and development.

                Causes, incidence, and risk factors

                ADHD is the most commonly diagnosed behavioral disorder of childhood. It affects about 3 - 5% of school aged children. ADHD is diagnosed much more often in boys than in girls.

                ADHD may run in families, but it is not clear exactly what causes it. Whatever the cause may be, it seems to be set in motion early in life as the brain is developing. Imaging studies suggest that the brains of children with ADHD are different from those of other children.

                Depression, lack of sleep, learning disabilities, tic disorders, and behavior problems may be confused with, or appear with, ADHD. Every child suspected of having ADHD should be carefully examined by a doctor to rule out possible other conditions or reasons for the behavior.

                Most children with ADHD also have at least one other developmental or behavioral problem. They may also have a psychiatric problem, such as depression or bipolar disorder.

                Symptoms

                The symptoms of ADHD fall into three groups:

                Lack of attention (inattentiveness)

                Hyperactivity

                Impulsive behavior (impulsivity)

                Some children with ADHD primarily have the inattentive type. Others may have a combination of types. Those with the inattentive type are less disruptive and are more likely to not be diagnosed with ADHD.

                Inattentive symptoms

                Fails to give close attention to details or makes careless mistakes in schoolwork

                Has difficulty keeping attention during tasks or play

                Does not seem to listen when spoken to directly

                Does not follow through on instructions and fails to finish schoolwork, chores, or duties in the workplace

                Has difficulty organizing tasks and activities

                Avoids or dislikes tasks that require sustained mental effort (such as schoolwork)

                Often loses toys, assignments, pencils, books, or tools needed for tasks or activities

                Is easily distracted

                Is often forgetful in daily activities

                Hyperactivity symptoms:

                Fidgets with hands or feet or squirms in seat

                Leaves seat when remaining seated is expected

                Runs about or climbs in inappropriate situations

                Has difficulty playing quietly

                Is often \"on the go,\" acts as if \"driven by a motor,\" talks excessively

                Impulsivity symptoms:

                Blurts out answers before questions have been completed

                Has difficulty awaiting turn

                Interrupts or intrudes on others (butts into conversations or games)

                Signs and tests

                Too often, difficult children are incorrectly labeled with ADHD. On the other hand, many children who do have ADHD remain undiagnosed. In either case, related learning disabilities or mood problems are often missed. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) has issued guidelines to bring more clarity to this issue.

                The diagnosis is based on very specific symptoms, which must be present in more than one setting.

                Children should have at least 6 attention symptoms or 6 hyperactivity/impulsivity symptoms, with some symptoms present before age 7.

                The symptoms must be present for at least 6 months, seen in two or more settings, and not caused by another problem.

                The symptoms must be severe enough to cause significant difficulties in many settings, including home, school, and in relationships with peers.

                In older children, ADHD is in partial remission when they still have symptoms but no longer meet the full definition of the disorder.

                The child should have an evaluation by a doctor if ADHD is suspected. Evaluation may include:

                Parent and teacher questionnaires (for example, Connors, Burks)

                Psychological evaluation of the child AND family, including IQ testing and psychological testing

                Complete developmental, mental, nutritional, physical, and psychosocial examination

                Treatment

                Treating ADHD is a partnership between the health care provider, parents or caregivers, and the child. For therapy to succeed, it is important to:

                Set specific, appropriate target goals to guide therapy.

                Start medication and behavior therapy.

                Follow-up regularly with the doctor to check on goals, results, and any side effects of medications. During these check-ups, information should be gathered from parents, teachers, and the child.

                If treatment does not appear to work, the health care provider should:

                Make sure the child indeed has ADHD

                Check for other, possible medical conditions that can cause similiar symptoms

                Make sure the treatment plan is being followed

                MEDICATIONS

                A combination of medication and behavioral treatment works best. There are several different types of ADHD medications that may be used alone or in combination.

                Psychostimulants (also known as stimulants) are the most commonly used ADHD drugs. Although these drugs are called stimulants, they actually have a calming effect on people with ADHD.

                These drugs include:

                Amphetamine-dextroamphetamine (Adderall)

                Dexmethylphenidate (Focalin)

                Dextroamphetamine (Dexedrine, Dextrostat)

                Lisdexamfetamine (Vyvanse)

                Methylphenidate (Ritalin, Concerta, Metadate, Daytrana)

                A nonstimulant drug called atomoxetine (Strattera) may work as well as stimulants, and may be less likely to be misused.

                Some ADHD medicines have been linked to rare sudden death in children with heart problems. Talk to your doctor about which drug is best for your child.

                BEHAVIOR THERAPY

                Talk therapy for both the child and family can help everyone understand and gain control of the stressful feelings related to ADHD.

                Parents should use a system of rewards and consequences to help guide their child's behavior. It is important to learn to handle disruptive behaviors. Support groups can help you connect with others who have similar problems.

                Other tips to help your child with ADHD include:

                Communicate regularly with the child's teacher.

                Keep a consistent daily schedule, including regular times for homework, meals, and outdoor activities. Make changes to the schedule in advance and not at the last moment.

                Limit distractions in the child's environment.

                Make sure the child gets a healthy, varied diet, with plenty of fiber and basic nutrients.

                Make sure the child gets enough sleep.

                Praise and reward good behavior.

                Provide clear and consistent rules for the child.

                Alternative treatments for ADHD have become popular, including herbs, supplements, and chiropractic treatments. However, there is little or no solid evidence that these work.

                Expectations (prognosis)

                ADHD is a long-term, chronic condition. If it is not treated appropriately, ADHD may lead to:

                Drug and alcohol abuse

                Failure in school

                Problems keeping a job

                Trouble with the law

                About half of children with ADHD will continue to have troublesome symptoms of inattention or impulsivity as adults. However, adults are often more capable of controlling behavior and masking difficulties.

                Calling your health care provider

                Call your doctor if you or your child's school personnel suspect ADHD. You should also tell your doctor about any:

                Difficulties at home, school, and in relationships with peers

                Medication side effects

                Signs of depression

                Prevention

                Although there is no proven way to prevent ADHD, early identification and treatment can prevent many of the problems associated with ADHD.

                References

                Pliszka S; AACAP Work Group on Quality Issues. Practice parameter for the assessment and treatment of children and adolescents with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2007 Jul;46(7):894-921.
                Prince JB, Spencer TJ, Wilens TE, Biederman J. Pharmacotherapy of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder across the life span. In: Stern TA, Rosenbaum JF, Fava M, Biederman J, Rauch SL, eds. Massachusetts General Hospital Comprehensive Clinical Psychiatry. 1st ed. Philadelphia, Pa: Mosby Elsevier; 2008:chap 49.
                Review Date: 4/11/2011.

                Reviewed by: David Zieve, MD, MHA, Medical Director, A.D.A.M., Inc., Fred K. Berger, MD, Addiction and Forensic Psychiatrist, Scripps Memorial Hospital, La Jolla, California.

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                  smartmummy
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                  LadyInBlack:
                  Ooh smartmummy and jedamum, you have a 2002 boy too..just like me...and yes I too am facing real attitude issues! Ive got a 2003 boy as well...day in day out its a real challenge handling all of their issues..okay Im just not feeling too well emotionally and physically so feeling more negative today!

                  Did we make u feel bad? Sorry :snuggles: :hugs:
                  I am the one always talking negatively.

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                    smartmummy
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                    I tried to put the link but champion put already. Thanks champ!

                    Hi KSparents!
                    sometimes I feel, better didn’t aware of it. If we know then we think and scared of it. It’s a controversy if we aware of something then we can take precautions.

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                      reiner
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                      finally can sneak in here again!!!

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                        smartmummy
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                        Welcome back reiner!

                        after I posted ‘waiting for crytal’, I was think where Reiner and kiss. CNY holiday haven’t yet finish?

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