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    How can I get my husband to buy me something?

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      peapot
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      That’s true, if husband don’t pay then who will pay for it??


      Before marriage, the men will give flowers but after marriage the men will give more practical things like laptop, hp, cash or things that you will need.

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        corneyAmber
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        For those who have problem asking their dh or dw to get them something, ask them to read this thread in KSP!! 😂

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          cherrygal
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          I used to mind if my hubby didn't get me things for the celebratory dates but now, I just buy something I like with his credit card. Then thank him later when he gets home from work. I get a kick from seeing his blur expression change to a worried one... :yikes: :moneyflies: hahahhaha

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            2ppaamm
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            Haha, I found this thread so cute.


            When I wanted to buy an expensive watch, I bought my husband an expensive watch, and told him that he should bequeath it to our son. Then, I showed him the one that DD1 should get one day. Now I have that watch, for this lifetime. :evil: 😉

            He is the sweetest guy on earth. Ever since we were married, he would always check my wallet, and put wads of $50 to ensure I am covered. And, I draw a salary from my job, too. He basically took it upon himself to pay everything, and made sure he bought a gift for every occasion. Hee hee... 🆒

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              LadyInBlack
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              What an awesome topic! hahah…i face this all the time…my DH just tells me that I ought to tell him what i would like…but well like wat some of you have shared…no surprise element…and i love to be surprised…ah well, who doesnt ryte…n i used to do all the surprising and i kinda got tired of not getting anything in return and i guess i gradually stopped. nowadays i go on for months about things i need…the key word here is need. and sometimes i end up getting it…ive learnt to lower my expectations…just gotta live with it i guess…

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                buds
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                carebear:
                Winnie Yong:

                I'm SAHM... my husband paid for all my expenses.


                Of course he has to pay, or else who will! 😉

                Heheeheee! Ya lor! 😂

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                  smartmummy
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                  As a SAHM,I handle the expenses and I have been buy things for me all the time and informed to my DH.If something expensive then asked his permission first.So I felt unhappy,if he bought for me anything it would better feeling to me.6 months ago,we passed by a shop,I saw 50% sale for bags.So I just curiously looking,then he said buy a bag,then I tried to get a cheap one,he insisted to buy an expensive one.Then I happily took it.Its made be so happy.He is a stingent.But now care me.Its make me like "I am the happiest one in the world".After 10 years, he realised that I did a good job as SAHM.Previously If I asked him,he just hurted me why u need this or that?So now I am so happy eventhough he is not surprising me today.

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                    ZhangLaoShi
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                    "Happy Valentine’s Day!" DH said to DW this morning when she was dropped off at the car park of her office building.


                    I have to admit that as a husband I rarely buy something for my wife except one or two occasions over the years. She can number the times, and we remember what the gifts are. I appreciate the love she has been giving to the 3 male members at the home.

                    Happy V-Day 2 all the MUMs & DADs!

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                      peapot
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                      2ppaamm:
                      Haha, I found this thread so cute.


                      When I wanted to buy an expensive watch, I bought my husband an expensive watch, and told him that he should bequeath it to our son. Then, I showed him the one that DD1 should get one day. Now I have that watch, for this lifetime. :evil: 😉

                      He is the sweetest guy on earth. Ever since we were married, he would always check my wallet, and put wads of $50 to ensure I am covered. And, I draw a salary from my job, too. He basically took it upon himself to pay everything, and made sure he bought a gift for every occasion. Hee hee... 🆒
                      Wa!!! Where to find?? He got any brothers? I can introduce my friend, 30 single and very available.

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