Principal of top school under investigation for hiring prost
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3Boys:
In my view, the crux of it is NOT whether people sympathize or not. The crux for me was whether we should violate the gag order in our witch hunt.Is she deserving of any understanding and sympathy? Well, that's where we differ, isn't it?
In my view, no. That's the crux of it.3Boys:
Undertones are what you read into it. You read too much and interpret in ways unintended. My presence in this thread is explained by the PM I received revealing every aspect of her identity. I am not interested in getting people to sympathise... just to see that there are other truths we are perhaps not aware of.Although it may not have been explicit, there is an undertone (to me at least), that those who do not express sympathy for this poor girl is a brute in need of a heart transplant. It is irrelevant whether she receives sanction or not, for surely she will.
It is just ANOTHER perspective. We write in here for general sharing... not to lobby YOU personally to have sympathy. You have shared your side of the picture. We just strove to paint a further side of the picture. If that side of the picture makes you feel like a monster then what... we're not allowed to speak up for what WE think is right?
Just because YOU have no sympathy means WE cannot write our sympathy?3Boys:
Which part of \"she has sinned\" do you not understand? Sin in your eyes means \"sweet 17\"?I don't buy the sweet 17 charade.
3Boys:
You are again re-interpreting the message in an unnecessarily negative way. Did you send the mass PM? If you didn't, in what way do you feel implicated in the name and shame? I don't even think the person who sent the PM is a monster, why would I think so of you? Perhaps that person was ill-advised... but surely not monstrous? Don't use such loaded and emotional words to re-interpret what was written... it'll hurt the person who sent the mass PM unnecessarily, and has no place in civil discourse.I'd appreciate that one is not painted as being a monster for holding that view or be lobbied to change one's mind.
Undertones are what YOU construct into the text. Rest assured that I don't think you are a monster at all. I have said before that I AGREE with you. That makes me a monster too?
Why are you so emotional about it? :scratchhead: -
Way2GO:
no wonder the Air Canada pilot set the plane plunging to avoid collision
Read ur link but couldn't connect d dots with d posts u replied to.Chenonceau:
Teehee! Teehee! Teehee! http://petunialee.blogspot.com/2010/01/testosterone-deformed.html
Men r fr Mars n women r fr Venus?
Venus is fearful !
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=34606 -
verykiasu2010:
no wonder the Air Canada pilot set the plane plunging to avoid collision
Read ur link but couldn't connect d dots with d posts u replied to.Way2GO:
[quote=\"Chenonceau\"]
Teehee! Teehee! Teehee! http://petunialee.blogspot.com/2010/01/testosterone-deformed.html
Men r fr Mars n women r fr Venus?
Venus is fearful !
http://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=34606[/quote] :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: -
3Boys:
may be, after the whole episode has died down, the girl could have copied the pimp's modus operandi and set up her own website, hosted overseas, and she will be her own Boss, perhaps even get an IPO, like in OZ ..... :rotflmao:
Well, since she is not guilty of a capital offense, she is free is continue living her life as she desires once this brouhaha blows over, right. So that she will be given a second chance is a given, isn't it?
Will she have to face consequences? Probably
Will she have a chance to return to so society? Most certainly
Is she deserving of any understanding and sympathy? Well, that's where we differ, isn't it?
In my view, no. That's the crux of it.
Although it may not have been explicit, there is an undertone (to me at least), that those who do not express sympathy for this poor girl is a brute in need of a heart transplant. It is irrelevant whether she receives sanction or not, for surely she will.
So again, I have no sympathy for this girl. I don't buy the sweet 17 charade. I do not impose this view on any one, and I'd appreciate that one is not painted as being a monster for holding that view or be lobbied to change one's mind. She will be rehabbed, she will be polished up and reintroduced to society eventually, and she will go about her way in the future, whatever that may be. These are givens. I don't argue with these because it is pointless and irrelevant what I feel about them. But no sympathy..... -
verykiasu2010:
Ohhhhh! The Maaaaaamiee! Hmmmm... what happens to women pimps? Got such thing? Or are all pimps men? In OZ got brothel IPO? Where? Link? This is most educational!!
may be, after the whole episode has died down, the girl could have copied the pimp's modus operandi and set up her own website, hosted overseas, and she will be her own Boss, perhaps even get an IPO, like in OZ ..... :rotflmao:3Boys:
Well, since she is not guilty of a capital offense, she is free is continue living her life as she desires once this brouhaha blows over, right. So that she will be given a second chance is a given, isn't it?
Will she have to face consequences? Probably
Will she have a chance to return to so society? Most certainly
Is she deserving of any understanding and sympathy? Well, that's where we differ, isn't it?
In my view, no. That's the crux of it.
Although it may not have been explicit, there is an undertone (to me at least), that those who do not express sympathy for this poor girl is a brute in need of a heart transplant. It is irrelevant whether she receives sanction or not, for surely she will.
So again, I have no sympathy for this girl. I don't buy the sweet 17 charade. I do not impose this view on any one, and I'd appreciate that one is not painted as being a monster for holding that view or be lobbied to change one's mind. She will be rehabbed, she will be polished up and reintroduced to society eventually, and she will go about her way in the future, whatever that may be. These are givens. I don't argue with these because it is pointless and irrelevant what I feel about them. But no sympathy..... -
OMGoodness! There IS an OZ brothel IPO!! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daily_Planet_%28brothel%29
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I have a different view…don’t flame me okay. I agreed that we should not do a witch hunt on her details. But being me, i have my set of principles…contradicting right? As a wife, mother and sister, i need to recognise her face. Because i don’t want her to be anywhere near my life, as in near my love ones and that include my close relatives. FYI…i do remember how Tammy looks like. For such a SIN, i cannot accept.
Only after the news is out that she indeed did not lie about her age and was forced into prostitution, she will not have my sympathy at all, at least for now. -
laughingcat:
Who is Tammy?I have a different view.....don't flame me okay. I agreed that we should not do a witch hunt on her details. But being me, i have my set of principles......contradicting right? As a wife, mother and sister, i need to recognise her face. Because i don't want her to be anywhere near my life. FYI.....i do remember how Tammy looks like. For such a SIN, i cannot accept.
Only after the news is out that she indeed did not lie about her age and was forced into prostitution, she will not have my sympathy at all, at least for now.
Few people can accept such a sin. It is very revolting indeed. -
Chenonceau:
Tammy, the Nanyang Poly student, whose intimate video got passed around in cyberspace.
Who is Tammy?laughingcat:
I have a different view.....don't flame me okay. I agreed that we should not do a witch hunt on her details. But being me, i have my set of principles......contradicting right? As a wife, mother and sister, i need to recognise her face. Because i don't want her to be anywhere near my life. FYI.....i do remember how Tammy looks like. For such a SIN, i cannot accept.
Only after the news is out that she indeed did not lie about her age and was forced into prostitution, she will not have my sympathy at all, at least for now. -
laughingcat:
Tammy, the Nanyang Poly student, whose intimate video got passed around in cyberspace.[/quote]I go google.
Who is Tammy?Chenonceau:
[quote=\"laughingcat\"]I have a different view.....don't flame me okay. I agreed that we should not do a witch hunt on her details. But being me, i have my set of principles......contradicting right? As a wife, mother and sister, i need to recognise her face. Because i don't want her to be anywhere near my life. FYI.....i do remember how Tammy looks like. For such a SIN, i cannot accept.
Only after the news is out that she indeed did not lie about her age and was forced into prostitution, she will not have my sympathy at all, at least for now.
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