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[Blessedwife]

Hi Angelight and Flowermonaster


Yes yes we can all relate to this topic \"why dont we have 2nd one, only 1 child very boring for him/her\" hee...

Actually since I have just quit my job to become a SAHM, I feel if I have a 2nd one it would be a good choice for me since most days I will have plenty of time (apart from cooking and doing light household chores).

It's just the age gap that I am worried of. My son is already 6 yo so if another bb comes along wow the age gap is quite big. I wanted a girl to dress her up

Anyway, to be blessed with another child or not is beyond our control since I don't belong to the fertile group and age is catching up.

Are both of you working or SAHM ? We can chat more often
By the way I stay at the West side how about u ladies ?

[Flowermonaster]

Blessedwife:

Hi Angelight and Flowermonaster


Yes yes we can all relate to this topic \"why dont we have 2nd one, only 1 child very boring for him/her\" hee...

Actually since I have just quit my job to become a SAHM, I feel if I have a 2nd one it would be a good choice for me since most days I will have plenty of time (apart from cooking and doing light household chores).

It's just the age gap that I am worried of. My son is already 6 yo so if another bb comes along wow the age gap is quite big. I wanted a girl to dress her up

Anyway, to be blessed with another child or not is beyond our control since I don't belong to the fertile group and age is catching up.

Are both of you working or SAHM ? We can chat more often
By the way I stay at the West side how about u ladies ?

I also SAHM, stay North-west. Most of time I bake bread for breakfast, cook lunch/dinner & clean house. This year slightly more busy as DS PSLE. Think U will be busier when ur boy goes P1. I also wanted a gal but too bad no chance Liao. Console myself that I don't have to spent a bomb for clothing & accessories since boy don't need so much & I won't be so tempted to buy this & that whenever I go shopping unlike gals. There r so much pretty things for gals but not boys. Hahaha.

[1amber]

My daughter has been asking for a baby sister more often these days. She is 6 and I guess she is feeling lonely.

[Imami]

1amber:

My daughter has been asking for a baby sister more often these days. She is 6 and I guess she is feeling lonely.

At least she is consistent. Mine asked for a baby brother on Monday. Tuesday came and suddenly he decided a baby sister would be a better option. Then Wednesday, he changed his mind again - a di di better. :slapshead:

[Flowermonaster]

Imami:

1amber:

My daughter has been asking for a baby sister more often these days. She is 6 and I guess she is feeling lonely.

At least she is consistent. Mine asked for a baby brother on Monday. Tuesday came and suddenly he decided a baby sister would be a better option. Then Wednesday, he changed his mind again - a di di better. :slapshead:

Hahaha! Mine was consistent in the gender of his to-be-sibling(didi) The inconsistent part was one year he wants, the other year he don't want.

[Imami]

Want/don’t want inconsistent still ok. The didi/meimei inconsistent is a headache! I was complaining to my colleagues about this one day. They so smart wor, as me to have twins - one boy one girl. They said I sure hit jackpot no matter his my child twist. Faint.

[Flowermonaster]

Imami:

Want/don't want inconsistent still ok. The didi/meimei inconsistent is a headache! I was complaining to my colleagues about this one day. They so smart wor, as me to have twins - one boy one girl. They said I sure hit jackpot no matter his my child twist. Faint.

May be you can explain to him that we can only embrace what we are given. No matter didi or meimei, he/she will be his closest kin & they should love each other.

[Imami]

Flowermonaster:

Imami:

Want/don't want inconsistent still ok. The didi/meimei inconsistent is a headache! I was complaining to my colleagues about this one day. They so smart wor, as me to have twins - one boy one girl. They said I sure hit jackpot no matter his my child twist. Faint.

May be you can explain to him that we can only embrace what we are given. No matter didi or meimei, he/she will be his closest kin & they should love each other.

:evil: :evil: I am more evil, I just explain to him that no matter a new didi or meimei, he would need to share them with mummy. Mummy can't carry him anymore as mummy will need to carry the younger one. Mummy will give him one whole ice cream because he won't be sharing with mummy anymore, since mummy will share with the younger one. Almost immediately, he made up his mind - no didi or meimei. :rotflmao:

[Flowermonaster]

Imami:

Flowermonaster:

[quote=\"Imami\"]Want/don't want inconsistent still ok. The didi/meimei inconsistent is a headache! I was complaining to my colleagues about this one day. They so smart wor, as me to have twins - one boy one girl. They said I sure hit jackpot no matter his my child twist. Faint.

May be you can explain to him that we can only embrace what we are given. No matter didi or meimei, he/she will be his closest kin & they should love each other.

:evil: :evil: I am more evil, I just explain to him that no matter a new didi or meimei, he would need to share them with mummy. Mummy can't carry him anymore as mummy will need to carry the younger one. Mummy will give him one whole ice cream because he won't be sharing with mummy anymore, since mummy will share with the younger one. Almost immediately, he made up his mind - no didi or meimei. :rotflmao:[/quote] :yikes: :rotflmao:
Yap that will definitely wipe him out of any idea of having a sibling. My DS :rotflmao removed that idea when he heard from classmates how bad it was to have siblings competiting with them for toys, parents attention & loves.:

[lilychong3]

Good morning everyone,


I am new in the kiasuparent.com. have been surfing around and found this thread with parents having the same issue as me. One child issue.

My girl was from 2nd pregnancy and 3rd pregnancy was a pair of boy/girl twins which we lost them on 27 weeks and almost lost my life on the surgery table, last pregnancy no heart beat at 8th weeks.


To this point, we finally concluded that we are not fated with with more children. We rest our case and gave up. Now we just concentrate nurturing this only 1 daughter