All About Autism

[Blokus]

mashy:

He's just bored lah. Don't react too much into it. I think when I was that age, I did that too to show that I'm bored. Is he allowed to talk during meal times? Maybe can use that to try a conversation.

My son also hates to eat. He lies down on the chair. Yes, lie down. He hides under the table. And he eats with his hands instead of utensils. Sigh. But he's been eating more already after we explained to him the benefits of certain food. Ok, it probably won't work for your kids coz mine is scientific kid. So we had to go into the nutrients like how iron made blood etc. He used to be a vegan. Now he eats some fish, beef and a little of other meats. He will eat pork only if I tell him it's beef (coz beef gives a lot more iron to make blood).

The other time he does it is when he's thinking of an answer to my questions. Sigh. It's true, everything he does now I'll straight away link it to autism :idea:

I tried reading lots of books on why he must eat. He knows and even recently asked me if the meal i prepared for him is healthy and tells me he likes healthy food. He seems to be scared of eating unhealthy food many thanks to the health talks in school. :rotflmao:

So do you punish your son for lying down on the chair or under the table during meal time? Curious, how do you manage him when eating out then?

[helplessmum3]

so sad… national rally never touch on special needs issue???produce produce???


if get a kids like us how???

[mashy]

Blokus:

mashy:

He's just bored lah. Don't react too much into it. I think when I was that age, I did that too to show that I'm bored. Is he allowed to talk during meal times? Maybe can use that to try a conversation.

My son also hates to eat. He lies down on the chair. Yes, lie down. He hides under the table. And he eats with his hands instead of utensils. Sigh. But he's been eating more already after we explained to him the benefits of certain food. Ok, it probably won't work for your kids coz mine is scientific kid. So we had to go into the nutrients like how iron made blood etc. He used to be a vegan. Now he eats some fish, beef and a little of other meats. He will eat pork only if I tell him it's beef (coz beef gives a lot more iron to make blood).

The other time he does it is when he's thinking of an answer to my questions. Sigh. It's true, everything he does now I'll straight away link it to autism :idea:

I tried reading lots of books on why he must eat. He knows and even recently asked me if the meal i prepared for him is healthy and tells me he likes healthy food. He seems to be scared of eating unhealthy food many thanks to the health talks in school. :rotflmao:

So do you punish your son for lying down on the chair or under the table during meal time? Curious, how do you manage him when eating out then?

I give up punishing him for doing that. Just have to keep telling him to get up and sit properly. do u have any ideas what to do? He doesn't seem to have a back bone. Sigh.

[helplessmum3]

mashy, wat does your OT say about your son?


my son iso weak on my upper truck, so hard for them to sit very long time…

[schweppes]

When a child appears to have \"no backbone\" or likes to \"flop over\" cd be a case of poor muscle tone or lacks good core muscles.


Best thing to do is to build the core muscles. This can be done through swimming, yoga, taekwondo/akido or gym exercises. Idea is to build upper body strength. It will help the child in desk activities - especially when they are in school. Lots of sitting and writing at the desk. Because the kids are tired, they tend to \"flop over\".

A cheaper and less time consuming way is to go online or on youtube (for video demo) and search for Yoga poses pertaining to:

- cat
- cow
- cobra
- mountain
- boat

U can make it fun. Younger kids love and learn about animals, so u can get them to pretend play that they will be strong and flexible like those animals mentioned in the yoga poses. In the mountain pose, u can tell the child to stand tall and strong like the might mountain. In boat pose, can tell the kid to be like superman.

All these poses help to strengthen the back.

Good for adults too. So, can do it together. Makes a nice bonding session.

HTH

[mashy]

schweppes:

When a child appears to have \"no backbone\" or likes to \"flop over\" cd be a case of poor muscle tone or lacks good core muscles.


Best thing to do is to build the core muscles. This can be done through swimming, yoga, taekwondo/akido or gym exercises. Idea is to build upper body strength. It will help the child in desk activities - especially when they are in school. Lots of sitting and writing at the desk. Because the kids are tired, they tend to \"flop over\".

A cheaper and less time consuming way is to go online or on youtube (for video demo) and search for Yoga poses pertaining to:

- cat
- cow
- cobra
- mountain
- boat

U can make it fun. Younger kids love and learn about animals, so u can get them to pretend play that they will be strong and flexible like those animals mentioned in the yoga poses. In the mountain pose, u can tell the child to stand tall and strong like the might mountain. In boat pose, can tell the kid to be like superman.

All these poses help to strengthen the back.

Good for adults too. So, can do it together. Makes a nice bonding session.

HTH

Haha, I just thought he was lazy. He's learning tkd now. Maybe will try the poses u suggested.

[chibi]

Hi ImMeeMee & mashy ,

thank you for your advice :love:
My daughter rang me up on thursday midday after her school to apologize to me, she says mummy i am sorry for taking off my shirt today . i won't do it again. :oops:
i realize lately after she makes me angry or did something mischevious, she will apologize to me after that.
this is one of the positive sign for me, as last time, she doesn't really do that often.

[helplessmum3]

My OT say climb uP "nets" will help for weak upper body muscle , or go playground m

[ImMeeMee]

chibi:

Hi ImMeeMee & mashy ,

thank you for your advice :love:
My daughter rang me up on thursday midday after her school to apologize to me, she says mummy i am sorry for taking off my shirt today . i won't do it again. :oops:
i realize lately after she makes me angry or did something mischevious, she will apologize to me after that.
this is one of the positive sign for me, as last time, she doesn't really do that often.

Chibi

I am TRULY impressed that your daughter of P1 age is able to call you on the phone and apologized for something that she knows she has done wrong ...

I look forward to the day when my daughter could do that too.

[Double E]

ImMeeMee:

chibi:

Hi ImMeeMee & mashy ,

thank you for your advice :love:
My daughter rang me up on thursday midday after her school to apologize to me, she says mummy i am sorry for taking off my shirt today . i won't do it again. :oops:
i realize lately after she makes me angry or did something mischevious, she will apologize to me after that.
this is one of the positive sign for me, as last time, she doesn't really do that often.

Chibi

I am TRULY impressed that your daughter of P1 age is able to call you on the phone and apologized for something that she knows she has done wrong ...


Chibi
I am impressed and she is only primary 1. I believe many NT kids don't even do that.
I look forward to the day when my daughter could do that too.