Suicide - Do not involve the children

[tankee]

ksi:

I pray for the two to RIP and urge the living contemplating suicide to seek help and talk to people when depressed. There is nothing that cannot be solved with time, money and willpower in this world. Miracles still exist in this world.

:goodpost:

Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) 1800 221 4444

[corneyAmber]

lowfatlatte:

cfan:

What's the point? The lady wants to seek revenge on the husband but now he is still alive and kicking. There's no point in death. Prove to him that you can live on without him and is happier that is the ultimate \"revenge\"

Its not that easy to move on...it's exactly 8 years since all the sh*t happened and I have more or less gotten myself back on my feet, I still have breakdowns. Bitterness resident in me for a good 6 years especially with kids involved.

For a very long time I have made him wrong in \"ruining\" my life especially having kids, my \"figure\" is ruined, no guys would want a divorcee with 2 kids in tow. It's only this year that I finally learnt HOW to move on.

Yeah Hooray and :rahrah: :rahrah: :rahrah: to you. Your story can be so encouraging to people who are facing the bleak. No matter what, as I have said, there is nothing that cannot be solved by time, money or willpower. You have overcome your problems with time and willpower, :congrats: to you!!

[Dawnie]

lowfatlatte:

Its not that easy to move on...it's exactly 8 years since all the sh*t happened and I have more or less gotten myself back on my feet, I still have breakdowns. Bitterness resident in me for a good 6 years especially with kids involved.

For a very long time I have made him wrong in \"ruining\" my life especially having kids, my \"figure\" is ruined, no guys would want a divorcee with 2 kids in tow. It's only this year that I finally learnt HOW to move on.

Hugs to you lowfatlatte. You are strong mummy. Kids bring a lot of hopes and joy to our lives. It is important to let your kids grow up in an environment full of love, no point holding on to a marriage that have so much bitterness. It's not easy, but everything is worthwhile for your kids.

[Mychildren]

tankee:

mamago:

Post Natal Blue .....

I think so too

Yes, I think its post natal blue or depression.

[Mychildren]

lowfatlatte:

cfan:

What's the point? The lady wants to seek revenge on the husband but now he is still alive and kicking. There's no point in death. Prove to him that you can live on without him and is happier that is the ultimate \"revenge\"

Its not that easy to move on...it's exactly 8 years since all the sh*t happened and I have more or less gotten myself back on my feet, I still have breakdowns. Bitterness resident in me for a good 6 years especially with kids involved.

For a very long time I have made him wrong in \"ruining\" my life especially having kids, my \"figure\" is ruined, no guys would want a divorcee with 2 kids in tow. It's only this year that I finally learnt HOW to move on.

That's GREAT (to those in blue)!
Ya, it takes some time to get over it & not easy too.......

[corneyAmber]

tankee:

ksi:

I pray for the two to RIP and urge the living contemplating suicide to seek help and talk to people when depressed. There is nothing that cannot be solved with time, money and willpower in this world. Miracles still exist in this world.

:goodpost:

Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) 1800 221 4444

I just noticed the phone number so bleak....even dialing it will make those who need SOS feel bleak.....4444, they should consider changing to 3333.

[fightingmom]

ksi:

tankee:

[quote=\"ksi\"]I pray for the two to RIP and urge the living contemplating suicide to seek help and talk to people when depressed. There is nothing that cannot be solved with time, money and willpower in this world. Miracles still exist in this world.

:goodpost:

Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) 1800 221 4444

I just noticed the phone number so bleak....even dialing it will make those who need SOS feel bleak.....4444, they should consider changing to 3333.[/quote]4444 can be read as 嘻嘻嘻嘻

[Mawar]

ksi:

tankee:

[quote=\"ksi\"]I pray for the two to RIP and urge the living contemplating suicide to seek help and talk to people when depressed. There is nothing that cannot be solved with time, money and willpower in this world. Miracles still exist in this world.

:goodpost:

Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) 1800 221 4444

I just noticed the phone number so bleak....even dialing it will make those who need SOS feel bleak.....4444, they should consider changing to 3333.[/quote]I agree. For many who are already down and out, and looking for a sign, the numbers may be read as bad omen.

[phankao]

cfan:

To all who feels that life has been intolerable or unjust, never ever take away the life of the little one.
I know, I have ever \"entertained\" thoughts of suicide but never ever get the kids involved. You brought them into this world, they deserve to find a better life than you next time in the future, DO NOT take this CHANCE away from them.
Whatever sadness or unhappiness has happened, had happened
It is not their fault....

Then who will take care of the toddler otherwise?

I feel that it is not our place to judge.

[corneyAmber]

phankao:

cfan:

To all who feels that life has been intolerable or unjust, never ever take away the life of the little one.
I know, I have ever \"entertained\" thoughts of suicide but never ever get the kids involved. You brought them into this world, they deserve to find a better life than you next time in the future, DO NOT take this CHANCE away from them.
Whatever sadness or unhappiness has happened, had happened
It is not their fault....

Then who will take care of the toddler otherwise?

I feel that it is not our place to judge.

Good point phankao, but you see if the suicide-tendency parent think for the children in the way cfan is suggesting, then your thought process of \"Who will take care of the toddler?\" will kick in and in the end, the suicide-tendency person may not commit suicide. But if the thought process is only \"Who will take care of the toddler?\", then of course the answer is ME and off the toddler goes with the ME..... So cfan's suggestion is worth a thought if it can prevent a suicide from happening. JMHO.