Suicide - Do not involve the children

[fightingmom]

Mychildren:

ksi:

[quote=\"Mychildren\"]Base on this, we should try to be aware of the people around us whether they're distress or in depression so that we can lend a small helping hand. Maybe just by listening is more than enough for some.

Yes very true. I know a distress call when I hear one and I will drop everything and go....for my friends.

Then what about your kid???
No need to answer me, I know what u mean.[/quote]Tweety here will help look after chicken little's brood!

[corneyAmber]

Mychildren:

ksi:

[quote=\"Mychildren\"]Base on this, we should try to be aware of the people around us whether they're distress or in depression so that we can lend a small helping hand. Maybe just by listening is more than enough for some.

Yes very true. I know a distress call when I hear one and I will drop everything and go....for my friends.

Then what about your kid???
No need to answer me, I know what u mean.[/quote]Then why you ask?
Of course follow me lor....with a toy or book so can keep her occupied while I am busy. Oh forgot one thing, sometimes my child can bring delight to a depressed person too.....especially my friends.....always happy to see her.

[corneyAmber]

fightingmom:

Mychildren:

[quote=\"ksi\"]

Yes very true. I know a distress call when I hear one and I will drop everything and go....for my friends.

Then what about your kid???
No need to answer me, I know what u mean.

Tweety here will help look after chicken little's brood! [/quote]Yes! forever the efficient one who knows what to do. :hugs:

[fightingmom]

ksi:

fightingmom:

[quote=\"Mychildren\"]

Then what about your kid???
No need to answer me, I know what u mean.

Tweety here will help look after chicken little's brood!

Yes! forever the efficient one who knows what to do. :hugs:[/quote]For me, I would not bring my DC along. Usually inform DH first. If he can take care , better still. Else put @ my parents' place. Just feel not so good to let the young ones see mummy's fren crying. That's juz me.

[corneyAmber]

fightingmom:

ksi:

[quote=\"fightingmom\"]
Tweety here will help look after chicken little's brood!

Yes! forever the efficient one who knows what to do. :hugs:

For me, I would not bring my DC along. Usually inform DH first. If he can take care , better still. Else put @ my parents' place. Just feel not so good to let the young ones see mummy's fren crying. That's juz me. [/quote]I agree that is a good approach. Now my dd is not so matured yet and can be oblivious type if I give her a book she loves to read....you never hear a sound from her.

[Mychildren]

ksi:

Mychildren:

Base on this, we should try to be aware of the people around us whether they're distress or in depression so that we can lend a small helping hand. Maybe just by listening is more than enough for some.

Yes very true. I know a distress call when I hear one and I will drop everything and go....for my friends.

Hi, dear, because u mentioned that in blue.
Just teasing u when I asked.

[Mychildren]

phankao:

I am afraid the thought of getting rid of the exasperating toddler situation has been so strong for me many many times over the last 18yrs since I've started being a parent with my 1st child that I can totally understand.

As such, I can never say it's \"wrong\", nor it's \"right\".

Most just do not understand.

I hope you're fine with your kid now. Sorry, I don't know how to console you.
But I do feel the pain in your words.

[Imami]

phankao:

cfan:

To all who feels that life has been intolerable or unjust, never ever take away the life of the little one.
I know, I have ever \"entertained\" thoughts of suicide but never ever get the kids involved. You brought them into this world, they deserve to find a better life than you next time in the future, DO NOT take this CHANCE away from them.
Whatever sadness or unhappiness has happened, had happened
It is not their fault....

Then who will take care of the toddler otherwise?

I feel that it is not our place to judge.

Nice. And wise - if I can add. I had reached that point before too, so I know how it was like. And like Phankao had pointed out - there may not be anyone who can take care of my child. So I might as well bring him along...

[Imami]

phankao:

I am afraid the thought of getting rid of the exasperating toddler situation has been so strong for me many many times over the last 18yrs since I've started being a parent with my 1st child that I can totally understand.

As such, I can never say it's \"wrong\", nor it's \"right\".

Most just do not understand.

I was there before. I understand :hugs:

[Imami]

mamago:

phankao:

I am afraid the thought of getting rid of the exasperating toddler situation has been so strong for me many many times over the last 18yrs since I've started being a parent with my 1st child that I can totally understand.

As such, I can never say it's \"wrong\", nor it's \"right\".

Most just do not understand.

退一步, 海闊天空 .....

我就是退了一步，所以才没上报。