Club SAHM

[Mychildren]

Oh, sleepy, u going to elope with 花美男??? (Just teasing).

[sleepy]

Mychildren:

Oh, sleepy, u going to elope with 花美男??? (Just teasing).

This item has always been on my wish list :evil:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

[Mychildren]

sleepy:

Mychildren:

Oh, sleepy, u going to elope with 花美男??? (Just teasing).

This item has always been on my wish list :evil:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Then u had better not let him know else he'll take over the $$ management himself. (Just kidding) :rotflmao:

[sleepy]

Mychildren:

Then u had better not let him know else he'll take over the $$ management himself. (Just kidding) :rotflmao:

Oh he knows..... he just doesn't believe that it's ever going to happen :razz:

[Mychildren]

sleepy:

Mychildren:

Then u had better not let him know else he'll take over the $$ management himself. (Just kidding) :rotflmao:

Oh he knows..... he just doesn't believe that it's ever going to happen :razz:

Both of u r so cute!!!

[Stayhomedadof2]

Hi sleepy, i’m exactly like you. I run the entire house. We have a joint account only so i don’t have the need to give my wife the allowance. I settle all the bills, phone and internet contracts, everything… She is very hands off when it comes to managing the house. It can get a bit stressful but what to do, she’s not very good at managing money.

Unfortunately, there are times when I question her about her spending and she has, in a temper, said that it was her money and can do with it the way she wants to. She does apologize later on but it’s still very hurtful to me…
Anyway as some of you might have read in my earlier posts (about my justifying still staying at home…i know …i know…not that i need to but a lot of pressure cos many ppl asking me what i’ll be doing with my ‘free’ time since both kids are in school…must be cos i’m a male…jury still out on that one) i have started an on-line shop selling maternity/nursing wear, childrens bed-linen and baby toys. I’m not sure if i’m allowed to post my URL here but if you are interested to know more, pls feel free to PM me and i’ll pass the URL to you.

[Mychildren]

Stayhomedadof2 ,

Just remember there's nothing to be ashame of to be a SAHD. Sometimes, due to circumstances, dad need to stay at home while mum needs to work. I think both of u have thought about it carefully before making this decision. Thumbs up for u, bravo! :please: (thumb up sign)

[Stayhomedadof2]

Thank you very much Mychildren, that brought a smile to my face and in my heart…

[Angelight]

Welcome to our club, stayhomedadof2! I salute you cos it takes alot of courage to be a SAHD as our asian society would expect the men to be the breadwinner and the women to be the nurturer and homemaker. But I feel that both SAHM and SAHD should be given equal recognition and appreciation cos it’s never easy to give up one’s career for the sake of family, especially for the guys.

[Blessedwife]

Hi stayhomedadof2,


I also salute you !!
Like what Angelight mentioned its not easy being a SAHD and from what you have posted, I gathered you have done a good job.

Your kids are blessed with a good daddy.

Also, I think your wife is a very strong and outstanding lady. I think it takes a lot of courage from both of u to agree to this arrangement.

Both of you are outstanding parents who did this all for the sake of your kids. Well done !!