Dear Jane Tham aka Carnagejane

[Dreamaurora]

limlim:

Dreamaurora:

Most females I know are quite nice leh, even those menopause also not this bad.

are you referring to certain ksp member........ :evil: :evil:

hmm, no leh, noone in particular. So far everyone here has been nice, with exception of carnagejane and two more other persons who shall remain nameless since they haven't bothered me recently.

[autumnbronze]

Dreamaurora:

Hmm, let me try to create a timeline for this:
1. carnagejane started the 'what i hate about singapore' thread
2. she proceeded to insult quite a few people in it
3. I posted that I like to look at chiobus also like any other normal men and carnagejane began insulting me
4. carnagejane got banned
5. she was unhappy and threatened to sue Chiefkiasu
6. Chiefkiasu gave his contact detail
7. instead of sending lawyer letter to Chiefkiasu she started a blog and put Chief's details online AND also mine. She alleged that both of us are lechers and creepy. And people should stop doing business with us.
8. she also additionally posted a thread in Stomp forum linking it to her wordpress blog
9. today my student's parents told me somebody has posted nasty things about me online. If you google my actual name, the link to the wordpress blog is on the first page of the results. I was very angry.
10. I started this thread for awareness and also informed Chiefkiasu.

Hopefully I didn't miss anything.

Dream, :hugs: to ya.

I know what you are going through.

I have somewhat been there.

It is still unresolved. But I am not giving up.

The horrible thing is that a/some member(s), holding position(s) of authority, instead of informing me, went on the sly to PM the link with distorted info to other(s) for his/her/their perusal. And to think that we used to chat online here.

How hurtful.

ps: I don't wish to pursue this online.

[Dreamaurora]

GLORYmum:

Dreamaurora:

Hmm, let me try to create a timeline for this:

1. carnagejane started the 'what i hate about singapore' thread
2. she proceeded to insult quite a few people in it
3. I posted that I like to look at chiobus also like any other normal men and carnagejane began insulting me
4. carnagejane got banned
5. she was unhappy and threatened to sue Chiefkiasu
6. Chiefkiasu gave his contact detail
7. instead of sending lawyer letter to Chiefkiasu she started a blog and put Chief's details online AND also mine. She alleged that both of us are lechers and creepy. And people should stop doing business with us.
8. she also additionally posted a thread in Stomp forum linking it to her wordpress blog
9. today my student's parents told me somebody has posted nasty things about me online. If you google my actual name, the link to the wordpress blog is on the first page of the results. I was very angry.
10. I started this thread for awareness and also informed Chiefkiasu.

Hopefully I didn't miss anything.

Oh dear Dreams, thanks so much for explaining what has happened.
So dreadful! Why would anyone spend time and effort doing such things? Any conflict of interest involved maybe?

Possible that he/she is a competitor of mine, but it could be just plain xenophobia because well, I am a PR (as I have revealed in the what I hate about Singaproe thread ) and carnagejane was quite vocal in being anti government and foreigners.

That being said, I welcome even negative opinions since obviously I can't get everyone to like me. Afterall we are not perfect and I do welcome constructive opinions to better myself. But what carnagejane did was tantamount to character assassination and very cowardly.

[schweppes]

autumnbronze:

Dream,

I know what you are going through.

I have somewhat been there.

It is still unresolved. But I am not giving up.

The horrible thing is that a/some member(s) here, holding position(s) of authority, instead of informing me, went on the sly to PM the link with distorted info to other(s) for his/her/their perusal. And to think that we used to chat online here.

How hurtful.

ps: I don't wish to pursue this online.

:scared: :yikes:

Hugs to you, autumbronze :hugs:

[Ran1977]

Hope everything gets resolved soon:)

[limlim]

Dreamaurora:

limlim:

[quote=\"Dreamaurora\"]Most females I know are quite nice leh, even those menopause also not this bad.

are you referring to certain ksp member........ :evil: :evil:

hmm, no leh, noone in particular. So far everyone here has been nice, with exception of carnagejane and two more other persons who shall remain nameless since they haven't bothered me recently.[/quote]err.. the highlighted part..

[GLORYmum]

Dreamaurora:

Most females I know are quite nice leh, even those menopause also not this bad.

are you referring to certain ksp member........ :evil: :evil:[/quote]

hmm, no leh, noone in particular. So far everyone here has been nice, with exception of carnagejane and two more other persons who shall remain nameless since they haven't bothered me recently.[/quote]

err.. the highlighted part..[/quote]




ya lor, such phrases can be unfriendly.

[Dreamaurora]

limlim:

err.. the highlighted part..

:scratchhead: no leh, I where got so free keep track who is having menopause?

[Imami]

Dreamaurora:

limlim:

err.. the highlighted part..

:scratchhead: no leh, I where got so free keep track who is having menopause?

:rotflmao: Dream only track the chio ones....

[Imami]

autumnbronze:

Dream, :hugs: to ya.

I know what you are going through.

I have somewhat been there.

It is still unresolved. But I am not giving up.

The horrible thing is that a/some member(s), holding position(s) of authority, instead of informing me, went on the sly to PM the link with distorted info to other(s) for his/her/their perusal. And to think that we used to chat online here.

How hurtful.

ps: I don't wish to pursue this online.

:hugs: :hugs:

Why like that? I join forums to have a good time - chit chat with likeminded folks, learn from those who share useful info. And i would have thought most folks are like that...

Wah I better go and google myself and see if there is any result.... :nailbite: