Need an advice on office relationship matters
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kiddo:
don't look too long... dont dwell/think of it...
Yes, the temptations are always there, especially if our professions have high number of attractive females. I notice now sometimes even some mundane comment from my wife can set me off and vice versa. I think the change in the dynamics of relationship is something many married couples do not expect, especially those who did not go for marriage prep course before. I have to be honest I have been tempted many many times before, but my conscience and principle reined me in (and also the thought of fire and brimstone in hell).Dreamaurora:
[quote=\"3Boys\"]Blessedwife, no apology necessary. There are probably many better husbands out there, it's just that I am more open and to some it will come across as bragging. I don't take my marriage for granted because I know how easy it is for things to so sour.
Cheers.
the pasture is alway greener on the other side....
\"ping fun\" yah xi yi chong \"xin fu\" ...
the mundane in the long run will work out right ....
:hugs: :snuggles: :hugs:[/quote]
平凡也是一种幸福
(Am I right, Kiddo?)(Couldn't agree more...)(Translation is for Valvestate's easy understanding, hee hee...)
thanks mamago
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Thank you, Kiddo, for the kisssssss...
Haha, cheeky me, good night everyone, dream a little sweet dream.... -
no hot nasi kangkang today???
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KSP:
no hot nasi kangkang today???
haha, KSP.... it's served over at the debating thread and the commentaries n cheers side thread.... -
hello valvestate,
so many mummies and daddies asking u to wake up and pull urself out…
pls dun disappoint us… -
Exodus 20:14 You shall not commit adultery.
This is what I should remember in order to receive the blessing from God!
Cheers! -
Hopefully, you continue with this china-babe and slowly develop more feelings. Try and become beyond colleagues, beyond friends, towards lovers. I honestly, from the bottom of my heart, wish you would man up and take your affair up one notch. Now everything is half-baked - marriage half-baked, affair half-baked, nothing is accomplished.
SO MAN UP AND GO FOR THE PRC ALREADY!
Your wife and kids deserve to break away from you soonest possible. So be a good husband and father by going all the way with your affair so that your family can start fresh soon. You have already strayed, no point sitting on the fence. Only women, and men without balls, can sit on fences (cos you know, it hurts that area between your thighs less). The best you can do for your family now is to let them go…to start anew. Your wife deserves more than a man whose heart has already strayed.
BE A MAN. LEAVE YOUR WIFE. FINISH WHAT YOU STARTED.
Your family deserves more than a half-baked guy that you are right now. -
valvestate MIA these days…
no updates on his relationships since…
having long holiday???
or self reflection?? -
verykiasumummy:
valvestate MIA these days...
no updates on his relationships since...
having long holiday???
or self reflection??
.... or ran away with that PRC liao :evil: .... -
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