All About Autism

[verykiasumummy]

things will get better when u try to observe him hard enough to help him… mothers are great because we give all out to make our kids better ppl…

[helplessmum3]

http://www.webmd.com/parenting/guide/3-to-4-year-old-milestones


just wish to close some gap from here..

[helplessmum3]

mashy:

helplessmum3:

VKSmummy,


recently i notice he like to repeat what puppet talking on tv...

i duno who he like to talk most, as he never has conversation with us except requesting verbally for things/food/drinks & ask us to do things for him..ei mommy carry, on light , off light, open door,close down , fix it, put it back, sit down, stand up..help me.press lift. come here. go out, wear shoe & etc..

but not conversation.

That's amazing already! At least for my std coz my boy couldn't do that then. This is a good start. He is talking quite a lot.

Thanks Mashy. for the encouragement.

[helplessmum3]

verykiasumummy:

things will get better when u try to observe him hard enough to help him... mothers are great because we give all out to make our kids better ppl...

VKSmummy,
at times i think... & ponder, when you see others' kids who are special needs you already feel wanted to help so much, what more if is our own kids. right?

[verykiasumummy]

helplessmum3:

verykiasumummy:

things will get better when u try to observe him hard enough to help him... mothers are great because we give all out to make our kids better ppl...

VKSmummy,
at times i think... & ponder, when you see others' kids who are special needs you already feel wanted to help so much, what more if is our own kids. right?

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this is soooo true...

of cos... cos we being mothers not only care for our own kids... we reflect upon ourselves when we see others' kids...

not to say there are also ppl who only think of themselves... :xedfingers:

[chibi]

our kids will get better as they grow older.

This morning, my daughter was refusing to get out of bed to brush her teeth and go to school, then i asked her what happen? she told me she had a night mare, then told me\" mummy why don't u count to 20? then i will be fine \" i told her ok, i started counting, 1, 2, 3.. ( while i was counting, i was washing my hands in the bathroom after putting on my hair serum )
then when i came out of the bathroom and say 20. she suddenly jump out of bed and say \" got u!!!\" then started laughing

so shocked! she told me she 's fine and its just a joke!!! :boogie:
:rotflmao:

[Double E]

chibi:

our kids will get better as they grow older.

This morning, my daughter was refusing to get out of bed to brush her teeth and go to school, then i asked her what happen? she told me she had a night mare, then told me\" mummy why don't u count to 20? then i will be fine \" i told her ok, i started counting, 1, 2, 3.. ( while i was counting, i was washing my hands in the bathroom after putting on my hair serum )
then when i came out of the bathroom and say 20. she suddenly jump out of bed and say \" got u!!!\" then started laughing

so shocked! she told me she 's fine and its just a joke!!! :boogie:
:rotflmao:

Your girl has a funny bone

[Double E]

Mummies with older kids (say above 5 years old)


When did your kid start to socialise with other children? My boy can socialise with adults but not children.

Do your kids have friends in school? or still a loner?

[mashy]

Double E:

Mummies with older kids (say above 5 years old)


When did your kid start to socialise with other children? My boy can socialise with adults but not children.

Do your kids have friends in school? or still a loner?

My son have friends even from nursery. Just that it is other pp treat him as friends but he didn't bother. Lol. He even had a best friend in nursery. The two buddies will read books together. That's all he did I think. The only thing is that he doesn't initiate play. So it's always the other person initiating, he just follows.

Must say that he has 'ren yuan'. Whichever sch he went to, there will be someone trying to make friends with him. Now he also have friends in sch and he will tell me what they did together.

If it's about introducing himself, playing with friends and talking about them etc, I think it only started this year in primary 1.

[chibi]

my daughter was quite a loner in Kindergarten and nursery.

she doesn't intiate play with her classmates tho her classmates wanted to play with her. so in the end they just left her alone.
but she is better in primary school too
she has her lunch kakis and if i happen to bring her home from school when i am not working, i will also keep a lookout for her interaction with her classmates.
There was once i saw her classmate putting her arm around her shoulder and both of them seem to be gossiping and laughing aloud
it seems to get better when she grows up.
she is more aware that she has gotta have friends, like once when we were walking home from school , she bumped into her classmate waiting for her mum to buy food, she went up to her classmate and say :\" hey you got iphone too! do you play angry bird? \" :rotflmao: