Feedback from wife
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hi kiddo,
mi 28, DH 30…not very young also lah…this is a small part of it only…
haven complaint on how he treated mi when we just gotten married n all his lies and stuffs…got mi into depression before n after birth that i almost wanna divorce when we are just 3mths into marriage… -
joule,
outside i usually will give him face…but i also got my boundaries de…i don’t mind he make fun of me infront of his friends…but once it get too overboard…i will open my mouth n counter back…he usually will pick tt hint up as okie time to tone down.
but once get home…he will die loh…evil laugh -
kiasumummy,
some examples that he did when we jus got married…
he resign from his job and job hop when i m preg…until a point he lies and say he’s working but fact is staying at home playing game. he even tell his mum n maid to lie to me…
his boss called my HP / drop me a e-mail at my office e-mail to tell mi n ask if he’s still want to work or not. at that time i m already at my second tri…
above is 2 of the shitty stuffs which he did. -
Lasery2k: You gotta tell your man that the era of the "big man" is a thing in the past! Now people are all into boasting about their wife’s achievements and capabilities, lah… Otherwise it makes him look silly. <where’s all the emoticons??>
Anyway, since you are so "garang" at home, need to motivate him from time to time, bah… Give him some re$ponsibilitie$ and ta$k$, something to do, something to look forward to. Your man, you should know best. -
Complaint - Drop the ipad and coach the kids. I am not a superwoman. :frustrated:
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lasery2k:
why did he want to lie about working?kiasumummy,
some examples that he did when we jus got married..
he resign from his job and job hop when i m preg..until a point he lies and say he's working but fact is staying at home playing game. he even tell his mum n maid to lie to me..
his boss called my HP / drop me a e-mail at my office e-mail to tell mi n ask if he's still want to work or not. at that time i m already at my second tri..
above is 2 of the shitty stuffs which he did.
did u talk to him about this? how did u find out in the end??
is he also having some pre-pregnancy depression or what?? -
lasery2k:
so he still listens to u at home...joule,
outside i usually will give him face...but i also got my boundaries de...i don't mind he make fun of me infront of his friends..but once it get too overboard..i will open my mouth n counter back..he usually will pick tt hint up as okie time to tone down.
but once get home..he will die loh...*evil laugh*
is he inferior to u in terms of family background or education??
i seem to find him a little inferior due to his behaviour. u need to understand, ppl, or especially man, who brace a false front in front of his buddies to say they are an edge over their wives, but back at home have no guts, feels they are inferior to their wives. but being man, they didnt want to lose face in front of their buddies and that explains their behaviour.. -
background he gt a rich father…my dad pass awy…edu we are the same…diploma…
he’s bad at managing $$ n he smokes…
coz i just gt a feeling of don’t believe him at all when married…(shot gun)…
esp when he say he wanna quit the job, he was holding on to high position until play stocks n burn a big hole…hence he suffered for a few years in repaying the stocks $$.
he was working as a telemarketer when i met him back at sch…i was taking my degree while he’s taking his part time diploma…(i drop my degree because of the child).
after marriage, not long after he quit the telemarketer job and change another job which didn’t last him for 3mths. all the gynae fees and bb stuffs all i ownself pay.
then he finally got a better job…he just refuse to go work n stay at home. how i know…coz i will call him every morning or e-mail him at his office mail to see he gt reply mi or not.
if the whole day he didn’t reply mi. i will call home…i even went to extend of taking half day to go hm early n spot check him.
until the day which his boss e-mail mi using his e-mail n ask mi if my husband is still interested in working int he company n he had not been going to the office for 2 weeks… -
lasery2k:
it seems that both of u are having hard time...background he gt a rich father..my dad pass awy...edu we are the same...diploma..
he's bad at managing $$ n he smokes...
coz i just gt a feeling of don't believe him at all when married..(shot gun)..
esp when he say he wanna quit the job, he was holding on to high position until play stocks n burn a big hole..hence he suffered for a few years in repaying the stocks $$.
he was working as a telemarketer when i met him back at sch..i was taking my degree while he's taking his part time diploma..(i drop my degree because of the child).
after marriage, not long after he quit the telemarketer job and change another job which didn't last him for 3mths. all the gynae fees and bb stuffs all i ownself pay.
then he finally got a better job..he just refuse to go work n stay at home. how i know..coz i will call him every morning or e-mail him at his office mail to see he gt reply mi or not.
if the whole day he didn't reply mi. i will call home..i even went to extend of taking half day to go hm early n spot check him.
until the day which his boss e-mail mi using his e-mail n ask mi if my husband is still interested in working int he company n he had not been going to the office for 2 weeks..
try talking to him first... afterall, he is ur dh and u wun want him to guess what u r thinking and likewise he may not guess what u r thinking.. -
lasery2K ,
You have a handful in this man ...
brace yourself for the ride ....
be brave know what you want .........
hugggsss :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
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