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    Daddy "beater"

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    • W Offline
      waynemum
      last edited by

      My 3yo likes to hit Daddy!


      1) Whenver my husband shouted at me, he will hit him.
      2) Whenever my husband pretend to hurt me, he will hit him.
      3) If he’s upset with my husband, he will hit him, bit him or throw things at him ( Quite scary)

      My son hit my husband with no mercy…

      He never do all these to me and he is in fact a very nice and obedient boy except he likes to hit his Daddy.

      I think the fault lies with Daddy as he always allow him to do so and only shouted at him when he can’t take it but i told him such extreme reaction from him will only make thing worse. Agree?

      Sometimes my husband wants me to stop him from hitting him but i told him it’s between the both of you. He should do it himself. Am i wrong to do that?

      I felt that i need to let my child know that he can’t hit Daddy not cos Mummy will be angry. He needs to know that no matter who, he can’t do that. My husband should be the one to stop him. Am i right?

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        buds hubs
        last edited by

        Yuppp... I totally agree that your hubby should tell your DS to stop hitting him.

        Nevertheless, you also have to help out your hubby since your DS is \"more\"
        obedient and shows more respect towards you. I guess its only natural for
        boys to be protective of their \"mummys\" but DS has got to understand that he
        cant use force on his parents...

        Perhaps it would be good to stress on the importance of respect for \"both\"
        parents and that hitting is a definately a \"NO NO\" to either one of you.. irregardless of whatever the reason.

        Your hubby has got to stop allowing your DS to hit him or else DS may grow up
        thinking that its OK for him to do so...

        Your hubby may have to enforce some form of discipline to take DS in hand if
        he crosses the line and should not take a lenient stand..

        JMHO.... :celebrate:

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          youngmiki13
          last edited by

          Wow…that is a pretty strange situation you have there. I must agree that you should let your child know that it is not OK to hit his father or anybody else for that matter.

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            VitoRelax
            last edited by

            youngmiki13:
            Wow...that is a pretty strange situation you have there. I must agree that you should let your child know that it is not OK to hit his father or anybody else for that matter.

            yeah prettty strange for a 3 yo

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