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    • M Offline
      mashy
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      slmkhoo:
      helplessmum3:

      double e,

      kkh physcologist at St Andrew say \"im now labeling your son\" \"this is what im doing\"

      when i ask, can dont lebal my son just yet...

      my son already being verdicted.

      Why did you go to see the psychologist unless you wanted a diagnosis? A diagnosis would mean having a label. If you don't want the label, you can still ignore it. Don't use it on your son, don't tell anyone about it, don't assume that he will be the 'typical' case. Just deal with the issues. I didn't get my daughter diagnosed and so she didn't get a label, but I still worked on various issues with her. If I needed other people's help, I would just describe the symptoms - she's introverted, she doesn't converse well, she daydreams a lot, she's not well-coordinated etc. Once when she was having a hard time with a pushy PE teacher, I got a pd neurologist to write a letter stating that she was poorly co-ordinated with weak muscle development (he said if I wanted a definitive diagnosis of 'dyspraxia', she would need more tests, but we said the letter was good enough) which allowed her to continue PE lessons without the pressure. Just my experience.

      Do autistic kids have poor muscle development? I noticed that my son is very uncoordinated. When I see him practise his tkd moves, I wanna shake head. It's terrible. When he runs during sports day (all the kids in class had to participate), he ran like a toddler.

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        DesertWind
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        slmkhoo:
        helplessmum3:

        cuz my son's cc wan to get him diagnose\\


        to prove that my son is normal

        Well, based on what you have described of your son, it seems that he is definitely progressing well. It might have been just that he was a little slower to develop in some areas. In my opinion, the psychologist should not have given a label when your son was so young. Certainly in social skills, he doesn't seem ASD at all. Maybe you should just ignore the ASD label for now and focus on specific issues.

        Agree. I think your boy (based on what you have described so far) is progressing well too, helplessmum!

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          verykiasumummy
          last edited by

          sorry can anyone tell me the name of the show on channel 8 last night?

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          • H Offline
            helplessmum3
            last edited by

            Thanks ah…

            U see temple gradin too dont hav social skil issue much too…
            She can tell pp what she think especially convincing her believe n ideas

            She love sharing especially on things that she is interested …she is also ASD.

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              mashy
              last edited by

              http://video.xin.msn.com/browse/tv/show?tag=i+see+you+%3A+a+caregiver%27s+story

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                helplessmum3
                last edited by

                Which is Brenda’s?

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                  verykiasumummy
                  last edited by

                  mashy:
                  http://video.xin.msn.com/browse/tv/show?tag=i+see+you+%3A+a+caregiver%27s+story

                  thks mashy thks...

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                    nugget
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                    Thanks mashy! i think my boy is less serious when compare to both asd boys in the show. but my boy does show similar symptons like hanging out at lift landing when reach home. sometimes really got to drag him back. but seriously we dunno why he dun want to come back. too facinated with the lifts or dun want to go home cos he still wanna go out??


                    the mummies in the shows are as inspiring. too bad i cant give up my job just like them, which makes me guilty, but i totally understand the same worries and feel the happiness they hv for their son.

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                      nugget
                      last edited by

                      less serious i mean in terms of speech and social interaction as compare to the boys. but my son cant draw like the 23 yr old as he has weak fine motor skills.


                      i could see the pride and joy in the mother’s eyes when her son played piano.

                      it really is so moving and somehow it makes me feel hopeful.

                      my boy got good memory and can read. what things can i do to futher develop this strength?

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                        helplessmum3
                        last edited by

                        I some hOw hav these findings


                        NT kids can listen well n output in talking

                        ASD can see well n output in Doing …

                        Most ASD love the lifts

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