Complete loss on helping a p5 special need boy

[ammonite]

Nebbermind:

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slmkhoo:

[quote=\"ammonite\"]This has nothing to do with religion.

It doesn't except for the individual. I think that as long as we apply the religious significance only to ourselves and to others who may share the same convictions, it should be OK to say so.

[/quote]I am not surprised by the rebuttal but I will put to you that saying the situation - which is common among the religious and non-religious - is clearly a spiritual warfare is a blanket statement on cyberspace, a common space. One can say - \"IF you are religious, think of it as a spiritual warfare. \" I think this is respectful and unassuming and still gets the original point across.

Besides this is yxl's thread. It is not Nebbermind's thread. Of course yxl may be a Christian and this totally speaks to her and helps her, in which case my indignance is for nothing. But she MAY not be, and to be told that her troubles are a spiritual warfare is adding salt to injury. If this is Chen's and Nebbermind's thread or a casual chat, I will totally keep my big cybermouth shut.

I cannot comment further without being confrontational. My further comments would also be OT. I apologise to yxl if this mini fracas puts her in a awkward position and she feels I have been out of place in her thread.

yxl, I will respond separately to you regarding the vision/learning issues. I want to ensure that you are not missing out on a vital diagnosis for your child. Long weekends are precious. Enjoy this one.

[Nebbermind]

In any case, I was referring to the case that Chen mentioned, and NOT ysl.

[Chenonceau]

Errrrr… Yikes… My apologies everyone. I spoke from the heart and had not meant to injure anyone. Nebbermind responded to me… So he did nothing wrong. On my part, there was no intention to insult nor injure and every intention to help. Beanbear and I also responded to each other and since we were both Christians, our language and imagery built upon each other.


If it helps, I acknowledge ammonite’s point that you don’t have to be religious to connect with your child. Religious or not, the years spent in anger are lost years. Lost to nothing or lost to Satan… Makes no difference. They hurt parent and child. So… Hope this helps to put things in a more secular way.

Yxl… Apologies for having insulted or hurt you if I did.

[yxl]

My sincere apology to all if my post had caused any conflict in religion.

Yes I am a Christian. Chen, ammonite weather is it spiritual or OT,
I needed both. I needed God to give me a direction on this child. I will also continue to work on the OT side to see if there is things that I miss out. Thanks everyone for the support & encouragement.

Ammonite thanks for sharing. I will PM you the details of my DS condition & learn more.

[Chenonceau]

yxl:

My sincere apology to all if my post had caused any conflict in religion.

Yes I am a Christian. Chen, ammonite weather is it spiritual or OT,
I needed both. I needed God to give me a direction on this child. I will also continue to work on the OT side to see if there is things that I miss out. Thanks everyone for the support & encouragement.

Ammonite thanks for sharing. I will PM you the details of my DS condition & learn more.

Aiya! No wonder I felt the urgent prompting to write about Him. I was quite shocked at myself to have come on so strong. I don't usually believe in evangelizing to people. I think people should have choices... and I even respect my kids' choices when it comes to matters of spirituality. So, I felt really sorry that I came on so strong.

Thank you for making me feel better. :love: