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    P1 Tution -- Necessary?

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      TheAnswer
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      Hello everyone,


      Being in the education industry for a considerable number of years, I noticed that schools cover very minimal stuff and they expect a lot during the exams. My P1 student recently completed his final tests for English, Maths and Chinese.

      Chinese - 100
      Maths - 99
      English - 94

      Yet he is not the first in class. According to him, there are other students who did better than him in Maths and English. Poor boy! He is now getting ready for P2. At this point struggling with ECW and English open ended comprehension and also getting really puzzled with some of the challenging problem sums. Oh well… Is tuition necessary? To each his own opinion.

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        TheAnswer
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        Hello,


        I think kids needs to be pushed to perform at their best. Work diligently throughout the year. Ideally parents should work hand in hand with the tutors and their child. I feel that building good foundation when they are younger is definitely necessary. If not how to cope when science comes along at P3 level?
        Singapore is far too competitive. We are without a choice.
        PM me if you require assistance.

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          IrEnE06
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          I think I shall wait for the PTC to decide… Thanks all

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            AppleCrumble
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            TheAnswer:
            Hello everyone,


            Being in the education industry for a considerable number of years, I noticed that schools cover very minimal stuff and they expect a lot during the exams. My P1 student recently completed his final tests for English, Maths and Chinese.

            Chinese - 100
            Maths - 99
            English - 94

            Yet he is not the first in class. According to him, there are other students who did better than him in Maths and English. Poor boy! He is now getting ready for P2. At this point struggling with ECW and English open ended comprehension and also getting really puzzled with some of the challenging problem sums. Oh well.. Is tuition necessary? To each his own opinion.
            May I ask - What is so 'poor boy' about his score? If this is his best, then accept it and celebrate with him for his effort put in. It will do wonders to his self-esteem and confidence. In fact, these are EXCELLENT scores.

            Is there a need to be first in class? There is only 1 such person in a class of 30 (for P1 and P2). Does it mean that the rest of the 29 in class must feel miserable since they are not first?

            Our primary school education is a progressive one. Difficulty level increases as you go up the primary school ladder. So, it's normal that this boy finds his P2 work more challenging than P1. But this does not mean that we must head to the Tuition Centre once things get difficult..

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              TheAnswer
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              AppleCrumble:
              TheAnswer:

              Hello everyone,


              Being in the education industry for a considerable number of years, I noticed that schools cover very minimal stuff and they expect a lot during the exams. My P1 student recently completed his final tests for English, Maths and Chinese.

              Chinese - 100
              Maths - 99
              English - 94

              Yet he is not the first in class. According to him, there are other students who did better than him in Maths and English. Poor boy! He is now getting ready for P2. At this point struggling with ECW and English open ended comprehension and also getting really puzzled with some of the challenging problem sums. Oh well.. Is tuition necessary? To each his own opinion.

              May I ask - What is so 'poor boy' about his score? If this is his best, then accept it and celebrate with him for his effort put in. It will do wonders to his self-esteem and confidence. In fact, these are EXCELLENT scores.

              Is there a need to be first in class? There is only 1 such person in a class of 30 (for P1 and P2). Does it mean that the rest of the 29 in class must feel miserable since they are not first?

              Our primary school education is a progressive one. Difficulty level increases as you go up the primary school ladder. So, it's normal that this boy finds his P2 work more challenging than P1. But this does not mean that we must head to the Tuition Centre once things get difficult..

              For your information, I was pleased with his results but his parents were not that pleased with his English score. The marks were largely lost due to careless mistakes. Encouragement is consistent for this child and he has a balanced life style with other activities as well. The kid is a go-getter, hates to lose to his classmates.

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                Imp75
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                Balanced lifestyle with tuition for English, Maths and Chinese as well as other activities! So the boy doesn’t sleep very much?

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                  AppleCrumble
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                  TheAnswer:


                  For your information, I was pleased with his results but his parents were not that pleased with his English score. The marks were largely lost due to careless mistakes. Encouragement is consistent for this child and he has a balanced life style with other activities as well. The kid is a go-getter, hates to lose to his classmates.
                  Naturally, parents will feel frustrated when they see their kids 'donate' marks due to carelessness. However, unless the kids learn for themselves to be more careful during exams/test, no amount of parents'/teachers' nagging or practicing numerous test papers is going to solve the problem.

                  It's human to focus at the 'lowest' score of the 3 subjects instead of the '2 higher' ones. There's always this constant obsession for the 'one sausage with 2 eggs' (100) mark, instead of determining if the kid has progressed in terms of learning and if he has done his best.

                  Since this boy is a 'go-getter', then it will not be a question of 'not doing his best'. 一山还有一山高, there will always be someone better than you, in one way or another. Similarly, you are better than another person in some areas. There's no need to compare. Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses.

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                    Glacier74
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                    I think tuition is necessary. My DD has been in a centre learning every since last year. Signed up pre-pri1 class. And she is doing very well. She had games and other activities to get her to learn. So to her she is having fun learning and not like a boring class that e teacher just keep teaching in the centre…

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                      onliluv78
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                      Hi, can anybody recommend me any gd tution ctr ard Redhill area ? Looking at English and Maths subjects mainly. Thks :please:

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                        fable
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                        TheAnswer:
                        Hello,


                        I think kids needs to be pushed to perform at their best. Work diligently throughout the year. Ideally parents should work hand in hand with the tutors and their child. I feel that building good foundation when they are younger is definitely necessary. If not how to cope when science comes along at P3 level?
                        Singapore is far too competitive. We are without a choice.
                        PM me if you require assistance.
                        I agree that kids do need parental support and some kids need some pushing. But every child is different and every family situation is different as well. I do not agree that we are without a choice. To begin with, we can choose (to some extent) what kind of school to enrol our children into. We can choose how to interpret his results. We can choose how competitive we want to be. We can choose how much time he has for leisure and what he does in this time. And we can certainly choose whether he needs to have tuition or not.

                        My son had similar results to your student in his Primary 1 final \"tests\" (but swop the english and chinese!). I have no clue what his class position is and I honestly don't care. Say he was second and the boy ahead of him had 1 mark more - does that make him less smart, less capable? Its only primary 1! Oh and he has no tuition and we have no plans to start any. I've told him that if he feels he needs help let me know but he needs to be responsible for his own learning achievements. Doing well / improving in school tests and exams teach the kids that as they sow, so shall they reap. They provide feedback to the child and parent as to whether what they are doing is working or not.

                        I sometimes think that doing very well academically is not a good thing. The world doesn't work like school. You don't get the best jobs or the highest pay for being the smartest person in the room. In the new world order, you don't even get job security. To me, my job as a parent is to teach him the value of hard work, perseverance and delayed gratification, to help him discover his talents and passions, and to support him in pursuing them.

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