Zen 禅悟人生 -My way of Seeking a Balance life

[dolphinsiah]

学会忍耐，该闭嘴就闭嘴，该沉默就沉默。学会珍惜，知心的朋友已经不多。学会视而不见，恶心的东西选择忽视，厌恶的东西选择屏蔽，不会再有人让我不快乐。学会慎重，不该认识的人不要认识，不该插手的事不要插手。学会满足，知足常乐。学会忘记，不活在过去的时光中，记忆已逝，继续现在的生活。


Silence is Golden

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[dolphinsiah]

越走越急的是岁月，越走越慢的是希望；越走越多的是年龄，越走越少的是时间；越走越长的是远方，越走越短的是人生；越走越远的是梦想，越走越近的是坟墓；越走越深的是亲情，越走越浅的是爱情；越走越明白的是道路。


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[dolphinsiah]

你想的越多，遇到的麻烦就会越多；什么都不想，反倒一点麻烦没有。

你怕的越多，欺负你的人就越多；什么都不怕了，反倒没人敢欺负你。
这世界就这样，你人品好，别人就来占你的便宜。
你横一点，反倒是都来讨好你。别一味地退让，当你受到委屈时，要勇敢地说No。

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[dolphinsiah]

I love the 80s ...especially Cantopop....


It is amazing that I am not a Cantonese , but I am able to understand this dialect since young....

I was bought up by my grandma who only speaks teachew to me...

Last time Kampung neighbours , also do not have anybody speaking Cantonese...

So I strongly believe , it is linked to my previous life...

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[dolphinsiah]

Listening to these famous 80s songs , looking back , I am getting old...


It is almost 2013 , a year older.... :skeptical:

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[dolphinsiah]

My favourite King of Cantopop -Sam Hui


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人皆尋夢，夢裡不分西東，

片刻春風得意，未知景物矇矓

Man like to dream, in dream there is no direction.

The moment may seem good, but not realise the scene is blur.

人生如夢，夢裡輾轉吉凶，

尋樂不堪苦困，未識苦與樂同。

Life is like a dream, in dream fortune are easily changed.

Seeking only happiness but not hardship, not knowing that both hardship and happiness come in together.
天造之才，皆有其用，

振翅高飛，無須在夢中。

A talent made by heaven, definitely has its use.

Spread your wings and fly, not limiting that only to your dream

南柯長夢，夢去不知所蹤，

醉翁他朝醒覺，是否跨鳳乘龍

After *Nam He's long dream, the dream is gone.

Once the drunkard is awake, can he still able to carry himself to greatness?

*Nam He's dream is a folk tale.

[dolphinsiah]

A Silly Joke to put us nearer to the Countdown to Year 2013


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[dolphinsiah]

This resolution will be on my 2013 list:


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每一个人，并不是十分完美的
每一个人，并不是十分完美的。所以，不要评价别人容貌，因为他不靠你吃饭；不要评价别人的德行，因为你未必有他高尚；不要评价别人家庭，因为那和你无关。不要乱花钱，因为明天你可能失业；不要趾高气扬，因为明天你可能失势；不要吹嘘爱情，因为明天你可能失恋……

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如戏人生，但求无愧于心！人生如戏，戏如人生

如戏人生，但求无愧于心！人生如戏，戏如人生。只不过，人生如现场直播，而戏，则是经过彩排的。拍戏可以重来，人生则无重来的机会。认定自己的方向，勇敢走下去，只要问心无愧，到这出人生戏结束的时候，就不会后悔。回望一生，无愧于心，对得起别人，也对得起自己。