Marriage & Parenthood Package
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3Boys:
Grateful? You are a true blue miw supporter. I don't believe that these perks would have sprung up suddenly at such a time which incidentally coincides with the Punggol east by-election if not for the threat of the opposition party.
Hahahaha!
You are in the wrong country my dear, it's not fashionable to be grateful.
Even up till now, they are still blind to the fact that money is not THE solution. They forget that the commoners are actually flesh-and-blood human beings who want to spend time with their kids. They think that only their children are important enough for their wives to stay home so that their children are not latch-keyed.
Ps: I won't be able to out talk an avid miw supporter and I shan't attempt to. -
These, perks and all; have been researched, studied and given green-lights some time ago, only waiting for the most strategic timing to be released.
So, thank you M.P. :udaman: -
3Boys:
It's always easier to blame someone else than perhaps take a good hard look at oneself. No offense intended, but I truly believe if one plays the victim, then one will be the victim.[/quote]I think for various reasons men struggle more with this than women. Maybe it's the idea that they are supposed to provide for their family or that they don't want to lose out at work.
The problem is a lot of people think that work life balance starts with the company or even the govt. They refuse to see that it should start with themselves.Funz:
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Ummm...janet, I don't think your husband would be different from many working men. If someone is working 12 hour days every day for years on end, it comes down to choice.
Often I am out of the office at 5.30, with my kids from 6.30 to 9.30, then work on to midnight if I have to. Once a week I have dinner out with the DW, kids can manage themselves. It's a matter of prioritisation and time management. I occasionally lapse into that mode of the working man that stays late in the office for days on end without seeing the family. It gets into a comfortable routine and suddenly my workload expands to fill the time I have now created for it. On the other hand, if I say I leave sharp at 5.30, suddenly I am forced to prioritize my work better and be more focused.
If you are facing work life issues, rather than blame the environment, how about you have a conversation with your husband instead? If he is giving you excuses maybe you need to put your foot down.
My DW and I have busy careers, and work life balance is eminently achievable. In fact, it is essential, non-negotiable.
I actually earn more than my husband and I have to travel relatively frequently for work but I am the one who is home every evening (apart from when I am overseas) with my children. I leave the office at 6pm and have an agreement with my boss (who is in the US) that I will not take any conference calls between 6pm and 9pm. Sometimes that means I have to take calls at 10pm and/or pick up my work once the children are in bed but that is how I find time for my family.
My husband finds it almost impossible to do this. He has improved recently and has been coming home just as the children are going to bed, which is better than nothing, but he finds it very hard just to stop, put the work down and focus on something else.
It can be done. It needs some understanding from your company but, more importantly, it needs discipline and focus from your side. -
rains:
May I return the compliment to a die-hard opposition supporter for whom nothing is ever good enough. FYI I voted opposition last GE, so no, I'm not die hard.
Grateful? You are a true blue miw supporter. I don't believe that these perks would have sprung up suddenly at such a time which incidentally coincides with the Punggol east by-election if not for the threat of the opposition party.3Boys:
Hahahaha!
You are in the wrong country my dear, it's not fashionable to be grateful.
Even up till now, they are still blind to the fact that money is not THE solution. They forget that the commoners are actually flesh-and-blood human beings who want to spend time with their kids. They think that only their children are important enough for their wives to stay home so that their children are not latch-keyed.
Ps: I won't be able to out talk an avid miw supporter and I shan't attempt to.
I guess the safe island I live in with an unemployment rate of less than 3%, with cash to pursue social policies, is an illusion. I must really be in Greece somewhere with 25% unemployment, with cutbacks to hospitals and schools and law enforcement. Yup, I have nothing to be grateful for. -
Personally, I think that the government is merely wasting resources on trying to persuade folks to procreate. It is an unstoppable trend and we should not waste resources trying to stop/reduce it.
The government should try to encourage active aging instead. Encourage citizens to keep working, to pick up a second or third career. Reduce the stigma of working beyond some artificial retirement age such that folks want to work because they want to remain engaged with society… -
3Boys:
:yikes: I thought your vote is supposed to be secret
May I return the compliment to a die-hard opposition supporter for whom nothing is ever good enough.
:siam:
Money is never enough...
So depending on your income level/housing type/car/lifestyle.... This package will entice different folks... who will appreciate.
Btw, the 1 week paternity leave applies to civil servants only? -
Govt is doing whatever it can to boost birth rate…of course it hopes every year is a dragon year.
My dear brother and his wife just had a daughter…maid is not very willing to learn. Having #2 is indeed questionable. -
This package is not to change the minds of people who do not want any or more kids. It is to help those who want kids.
Based on feedback given by those who have yet to have kids but have concerns and those who have already walked that road and know to some extent what will really help. I think the package tries to address areas that can be improved immediately.
It is an improvement. And it will benefit those who want kids. -
3Boys:
Yes.. it is a matter of choice..
Ummm...janet, I don't think your husband would be different from many working men. If someone is working 12 hour days every day for years on end, it comes down to choice.
My DW and I have busy careers, and work life balance is eminently achievable. In fact, it is essential, non-negotiable.
between $$$$$/luxury and keeping DC company.. there's always a choice.. unless the parent have to work to just bring the bread (not abalone) home to feed the offspring, then it is different story.. -
This time this news is not for mummy like me… Haiz
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