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    • N Offline
      ngl2010
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      janet_lee88:
      Firstly, I am sorry to this lady for disclosing this matter.

      Parents are at the mercy of such unethical so-called teachers...these people have no right to be teaching.
      True. Sometimes I have to be quiet just in case my son is ostracised by the teacher. Just recently I was fuming mad when during parents teachers meeting a teacher told us that a lot of our children put A star as their PSLE goal and she thinks it is impossible for most of the children to get A star. She said she will tell the children later what their realistic goal should be. I am very sure it will crush the children. I can see from the information the teacher showed us that all of the children's P5 result is A. Is it a sin to aim for A star? :mad:

      If everybody is like her, we wouldnt't have many things now. Last time people also think it is impossible to fly. Now we have airplanes.

      However, I did not say a word as hubby warned me that our son can be ostracised if I complain about this 'ceiling' that the teacher is going to create. Sigh....

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        janet88
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        My son didn’t get fantastic results for PSLE.

        What is most important is his effort and hard work. That is what I saw with my own 2 eyes. Right from the beginning, I did inform his teachers I will bear responsibility for my son’s results…I took him out of supplementary lessons.
        But what pissed me off till now, was son being ostracised by his form teacher…one who didn’t want the student to attend the graduating party.
        MOE, please know what is happening in schools.

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          ngl2010
          last edited by

          janet_lee88:
          My son didn't get fantastic results for PSLE.

          What is most important is his effort and hard work. That is what I saw with my own 2 eyes. Right from the beginning, I did inform his teachers I will bear responsibility for my son's results...I took him out of supplementary lessons.
          But what pissed me off till now, was son being ostracised by his form teacher...one who didn't want the student to attend the graduating party.
          MOE, please know what is happening in schools.
          Why the form teacher didn't want the students to attend graduating party? Strange...

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            janet88
            last edited by

            ngl2010:
            janet_lee88:

            My son didn't get fantastic results for PSLE.

            What is most important is his effort and hard work. That is what I saw with my own 2 eyes. Right from the beginning, I did inform his teachers I will bear responsibility for my son's results...I took him out of supplementary lessons.
            But what pissed me off till now, was son being ostracised by his form teacher...one who didn't want the student to attend the graduating party.
            MOE, please know what is happening in schools.

            Why the form teacher didn't want the students to attend graduating party? Strange...

            Bcos my son is not important, didn't get A* and bring glory...that's what I feel.

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              ngl2010
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              janet_lee88:
              ngl2010:

              [quote=\"janet_lee88\"]My son didn't get fantastic results for PSLE.

              What is most important is his effort and hard work. That is what I saw with my own 2 eyes. Right from the beginning, I did inform his teachers I will bear responsibility for my son's results...I took him out of supplementary lessons.
              But what pissed me off till now, was son being ostracised by his form teacher...one who didn't want the student to attend the graduating party.
              MOE, please know what is happening in schools.

              Why the form teacher didn't want the students to attend graduating party? Strange...

              Bcos my son is not important, didn't get A* and bring glory...that's what I feel.[/quote]Do you mean only your son was not allowed to attend the graduating party? Or the whole class?

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                janet88
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                I informed the FT my son is keen to attend. He did NOT get back to me at all…until 1 week after the party…to inform me there was one but he forgot to inform me. Isn’t this sufficient to say that my son is unimportant?


                I was boiling mad…my hubby told me to forget it…I told him it is not that I am desperate to attend a party, but the very fact that OUR son was seen as invisible.

                Oh yes, perhaps I should mention that school teachers are very keen to know if their students have tuition. What biz is that of theirs ?

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                  kwcllf
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                  janet_lee88:
                  I informed the FT my son is keen to attend. He did NOT get back to me at all...until 1 week after the party...to inform me there was one but he forgot to inform me. Isn't this sufficient to say that my son is unimportant?


                  I was boiling mad...my hubby told me to forget it...I told him it is not that I am desperate to attend a party, but the very fact that OUR son was seen as invisible.

                  Oh yes, perhaps I should mention that school teachers are very keen to know if their students have tuition. What biz is that of theirs ?
                  This is really unacceptable behaviour from the teacher! :nunchuk:

                  If I was in your situation, I would walk straight in to see the principal and demand an explanation.

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                    janet88
                    last edited by

                    I wanted to…but hubby stopped me.

                    On the other hand, I wonder if the principal would sit on the fence if I had done that…my son was not in the top class and didn’t belong to the elite.

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                      fifiyeo
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                      janet_lee88:
                      fifiyeo:

                      I can feel that the teachers are watching to see if we can deliver the 'lessons' at home ourselves. Once we show signs of not being able to produce the expected quality work, then they'll all come after us.


                      Let me tell you something. Sorry this off topic bcos it is happening in a primary school.
                      My friend's son is in this primary school in the North. The English teacher called my friend to upsell her services...ie to engage her as son's private tutor for $85/hour...no bluffing. My friend has already turned her down and the teacher is still persisting.


                      $85 per hour :yikes: :yikes: :yikes:
                      Definitely will produce at A** or what?!
                      I would think this would be the rates for Master / PhD holders in education who publishes books.

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                        ngl2010
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                        janet_lee88:
                        I wanted to...but hubby stopped me.

                        On the other hand, I wonder if the principal would sit on the fence if I had done that....my son was not in the top class and didn't belong to the elite.
                        Every child has the right to attend the graduating party. What has it got to do with being in the top class? Having said that, the form teacher may have really forgotten to reply to your question.

                        Since your son is no longer in that school, you can write a letter to feedback to the principal.

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