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[janet88]

Agree...having cold war is more upsetting and disruptive.

Yesterday, I was still fuming mad that I forgot to put the chicken cube...and I wondered why my bee hoon was tasteless...until last night, I found the chicken cube lying beside the matches :slapshead:
It isn't my fault, why should I give in ? Although he apologized for starting the quarrel, I still refused to talk to him.

[sleepy]

janet_lee88:

Although he apologized for starting the quarrel, I still refused to talk to him.

Got 台阶下 must quickly come down leow. Don't drag on

[janet88]

sleepy:

janet_lee88:

Although he apologized for starting the quarrel, I still refused to talk to him.

Got 台阶下 must quickly come down leow. Don't drag on

I know...but I just don't feel in the mood to open my mouth.
Damn it, he was so bloody unreasonable. I am still so fed up.

[ammonite]

The last time I felt upset and burnt out, I didn’t talk much to anyone. I decided I am going to please myself because it is a thankless task trying to please the three of them. I just stopped trying to do everything, left the kids with dh when we went out and went shopping. Stopped rushing through my shower even if the sky is falling down. Stopped getting the kids ready while dh has his nice showers (instead I used it first).


I also bought skinny jeans, make up, flowers for the house, new duvet covers for the bed etc, whatever I fancied.

One day I was talking with dh (feeling better after damaging the bank), he suddenly blinked and said, "Your eyes are so smoky I didn’t hear what u r saying." I suddenly understood the old advertisement - make up is arsenal.

[janet88]

Although sleepy mentioned 'Got 台阶下 must quickly come down', I was tearing bcos I felt so angry. Even if I want to burst his bank account, I don't know what to get :rant: I ironed his clothes yesterday but kept them in another cupboard so that he cannot find his shirts. I ignored him completely.

Cold war doesn't help. I do not feel better but I just can't bring myself to forget it.

[ammonite]

Get a massage, a pedicure, a hair treatment and a new outfit. We don’t to be seen as 黄脸婆 ma. When I am mad at dh, I totally doll myself up whenever I go out. The looks of admiration I get makes me feel better and dh wiser.

[janet88]

ammonite:

Get a massage, a pedicure, a hair treatment and a new outfit. We don't to be seen as 黄脸婆 ma. When I am mad at dh, I totally doll myself up whenever I go out. The looks of admiration I get makes me feel better and dh wiser.

We definitely need to look presentable and not a 黄脸婆.
I am MAD with that sickening man now...but not in mood to head out to town as my younger one has CA1 to prepare for. Maybe I will pop over to Canele Paragon tomorrow.

[sleepy]

janet_lee88:

Cold war doesn't help. I do not feel better but I just can't bring myself to forget it.

What happened that made you so mad?

[janet88]

sleepy:

janet_lee88:

Cold war doesn't help. I do not feel better but I just can't bring myself to forget it.

What happened that made you so mad?

He blasted saying I should have stayed at home instead of going over mum's place, to let son revise for Math test. Son was actually waiting for him to revise...we reached home at 8+, what's the problem ? Basically he was just waiting to find fault.

[TheAnswer]

janet_lee88:

ammonite:

Get a massage, a pedicure, a hair treatment and a new outfit. We don't to be seen as 黄脸婆 ma. When I am mad at dh, I totally doll myself up whenever I go out. The looks of admiration I get makes me feel better and dh wiser.

We definitely need to look presentable and not a 黄脸婆.
I am MAD with that sickening man now...but not in mood to head out to town as my younger one has CA1 to prepare for. Maybe I will pop over to Canele Paragon tomorrow.

Yes. That sounds like a good idea. Pamper yourself!