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[TheAnswer]

I’m just very annoyed now.

[sleepy]

TheAnswer:

vinegar:

[quote=\"TheAnswer\"]I have a question. Will you fully support your husband if he wants to quit his job and study full time?

if financial allows(enuff savings),then shld be fine.

Best he could study n work part time...

He say he can't cope so he hope I can cope with the finances myself.[/quote]Need study for how long?
Expect higher salary after graduation?

[sharonkhoo]

TheAnswer:

I have a question. Will you fully support your husband if he wants to quit his job and study full time?

I suppose it really depends on your relationship and whether you trust that your husband has good reasons and has a good chance of completing the studies. Also whether the studies are really useful in work or other areas of life, and whether you can support the family on your income plus paying for fees. My husband did stop work and study full-time for 4 yrs, and we initially agreed that I would work and we would also use our savings, and he would try to get funding. In the end, I only helped support him for 1 yr as we had a baby and he got a scholarship. I would do the same again, but I had full confidence in my husband's ability to complete the course and that he had good reasons for wanting to do it. I see that your husband has tried before but didn't complete the course, so that should be taken into account.

[vinegar]

Some men take very many yrs to realise they nid to cater for family.My dh takes 10yrs to realise that. Perhaps we r too independent.

[TheAnswer]

sleepy:

Need study for how long?
Expect higher salary after graduation?

Few years. Depends on fast he clear the ACCA papers. He praying for higher salary

[vinegar]

TheAnswer:

sleepy:

Need study for how long?
Expect higher salary after graduation?

Few years. Depends on fast he clear the ACCA papers. He praying for higher salary

higher salary means higher stress,except for those know how to play \"tai chi\" in job

[TheAnswer]

slmkhoo:

TheAnswer:

I have a question. Will you fully support your husband if he wants to quit his job and study full time?

I suppose it really depends on your relationship and whether you trust that your husband has good reasons and has a good chance of completing the studies. Also whether the studies are really useful in work or other areas of life, and whether you can support the family on your income plus paying for fees. My husband did stop work and study full-time for 4 yrs, and we initially agreed that I would work and we would also use our savings, and he would try to get funding. In the end, I only helped support him for 1 yr as we had a baby and he got a scholarship. I would do the same again, but I had full confidence in my husband's ability to complete the course and that he had good reasons for wanting to do it. I see that your husband has tried before but didn't complete the course, so that should be taken into account.

I was very upset the last time when he couldn't complete it. In fact, it caused me to lose confidence in him. I do not need him to earn a lot. He is already earning a decent living as a creative director.
I really cannot see him persevering. Even he himself knows and admits that I'm a lot more resilient than he is. He is so easily stressed :slapshead:

[TheAnswer]

vinegar:

TheAnswer:

[quote=\"sleepy\"]
Need study for how long?
Expect higher salary after graduation?

Few years. Depends on fast he clear the ACCA papers. He praying for higher salary

higher salary means higher stress,except for those know how to play \"tai chi\" in job[/quote]Maybe later I tell him I'm also quitting my job. See what he says.

[vinegar]

TheAnswer:

slmkhoo:

[quote=\"TheAnswer\"]I have a question. Will you fully support your husband if he wants to quit his job and study full time?

I suppose it really depends on your relationship and whether you trust that your husband has good reasons and has a good chance of completing the studies. Also whether the studies are really useful in work or other areas of life, and whether you can support the family on your income plus paying for fees. My husband did stop work and study full-time for 4 yrs, and we initially agreed that I would work and we would also use our savings, and he would try to get funding. In the end, I only helped support him for 1 yr as we had a baby and he got a scholarship. I would do the same again, but I had full confidence in my husband's ability to complete the course and that he had good reasons for wanting to do it. I see that your husband has tried before but didn't complete the course, so that should be taken into account.

I was very upset the last time when he couldn't complete it. In fact, it caused me to lose confidence in him. I do not need him to earn a lot. He is already earning a decent living as a creative director.
I really cannot see him persevering. Even he himself knows and admits that I'm a lot more resilient than he is. He is so easily stressed :slapshead:[/quote]perhaps he shld change job instead of changing career??
other than his sister's influence,what other factors which caused him thinking of career change?

[TheAnswer]

He feels that he can be easily replaced in the creative industry and jobs can be made redundant anytime.